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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19, 2017. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27, 2017. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

Tags: America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Sep 26, 2017. 2 Replies

It seems as though lately, Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is evolving into America's Best Patriot.  She has recently been taking some fairly well-aimed shots at a certain Orange Nightmare and his sycophantic hangers-on, regarding the…Continue

Tags: patriotism, Donald Trump, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Joan Denoo on April 27, 2017 at 3:09pm

Carl, a powerful video! It gave me goosebumps to see alienation turn into understanding. Each speaking his or her truth, hearing the other's point of view, seeing individuals as each exists without prejudging them!

Being born female, living for 37 years struggling to fit into my assigned role, I come to the conclusion that I have human rights and so do other women. Becoming a radical feminist came from the cognitive dissonance that resulted from trying to fit in. How will others know about what I learned if I do not speak. 

I am certain, Carl, that you had your experiences that came from the role to which you were assigned and developed cognitive dinnonance as a result. I can know you when you speak your "truth". Finding who you are, claiming yourself as good, makes it possible to build community. 

Females and males benefit by giving up assigned roles. Loren shares so many great films that help us get over our individual and collective challenges. I am grateful for each one of our little group as we share and develop into our potential.   

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 27, 2017 at 2:46pm

Ian, Bob Geldof is a new name, so I read articles about and by him. He is quite a maverick, seeming to ruffle feathers frequently. Good! He calls attention to hunger, homelessness, diseases, poverty, and to hopeless people.  

In the black movement, real changes didn't occur until a few of the black community used anger. Standing with them were the more moderate movers who worked at changing laws by writing them. People of privilege who write laws tend to create them to benefit their status. We see it today, the tRump gang giving the startling advantages to the wealthy class while shredding the safety net for people who cannot find work.

Let's get real, robots take away jobs currently held by humans or computers, leaving people out of the paid labor market. What are these people to do? Let them starve to death or die of preventable, treatable diseases?  Or worse, let them turn to crime to get their basic needs met? 

If we don't want to have a large population of poor people we have to write laws, policies, and programs that sustain them. 

I see more people moving to growing their food, creating their work, bartering with others. The "Homesteaders," "Live Off the Griders,"  and "Simplified Life Stylers" culture spreads. 

Hopefully, people discover Permaculture, a moral and ethical way to meet modern challenges

Comment by Ian Mason on April 27, 2017 at 2:20pm

Good ones, Bertold and Carl.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 27, 2017 at 1:34pm

Comment by Loren Miller on April 27, 2017 at 11:45am

Bertold, that's one that a few Christians could probably stand to have read to them, I suspect!

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 27, 2017 at 11:26am

Good one BB.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on April 27, 2017 at 11:04am

The light turned yellow, just in front of him.
He did the right thing and stopped at the crosswalk, even though he could have beaten the red light by accelerating through the intersection.

The tailgating woman behind him was furious and honked her horn, screaming in frustration, as she missed her chance to get through the intersection.

As she was still in mid-rant, she heard a tap on her window and looked up into the face of a very serious police officer.

The officer ordered her to exit her car with her hands up.
He took her to the police station where she was searched, fingerprinted, photographed and placed in a holding cell.

After a couple of hours, a policeman approached the cell and opened the door. She was escorted back to the booking desk where the arresting officer was waiting with her personal effects.

He said, "I'm very sorry for this mistake. You see, I pulled up behind your car while you were blowing your horn, giving the guy in front of you the finger and cursing at him. I noticed the 'What Would Jesus Do' bumper sticker, the 'Choose Life' licence plate holder, the 'Follow Me to Sunday-School' bumper sticker, and the chrome-plated Christian Fish Emblem on the trunk, so naturally I assumed you had stolen the car."

Comment by Plinius on April 27, 2017 at 7:28am

You're too kind, Joan!

Comment by Plinius on April 27, 2017 at 6:56am

The Keukenhof is about an hour from here, but I've never been there. I think you don't see the sights either, where you live.

Comment by Ian Mason on April 27, 2017 at 1:47am

Thank you, Joan. And I benefit from your analyses, comments and wisdom. I agree with you about anger. It can be turned into something constructive. Bob Geldof is is a very good example. Bono has said that he saw Geldof grab the leader of the World Bank by the suit lapels and pin him against the wall of his own office while calling him every filthy name under the sun. Oh, to have been a fly on the wall!

 

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