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the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Thomas Murray on July 13, 2017 at 7:44pm

Grinning Cat,

You know, it should be called Sleepless Study so it can have broader range of study than just focusing on apnea.

The difficulty with me is physiological  ... when I put the mask on I get claustrophobic which is something I've never experience before then. One of the way I overcome it is wait until I am over tired to care.

Comment by Grinning Cat on July 13, 2017 at 7:15pm

Tom, I hope you get some relief! I know a few people for whom using a CPAP consistently has done wonders.

(I'm told that the sleep studies are better named "sleepless" studies, even if you don't have sleep apnea or another condition interfering with sleep!)

Comment by Thomas Murray on July 13, 2017 at 5:40pm

Anybody here suffer from sleep apnea? I've had three sleep studies and all results the same... Severe sleep apnea with not breathing for 20 to 45 seconds. I also had deviated septum which surgery corrected and did help some. I use a Bi-Pap but not every night.  At worst for me is sleepy all day, weak legs, confusions and lack of concentration. I do get headaches but not as bad as before surgery. I could go on but this is the gist of it.

Comment by Ian Mason on July 12, 2017 at 9:50pm

Spud, it seems that the US shows some of the symptoms of a 3rd world country.

Bertold, the cry was taken up in the UK too:

Comment by Grinning Cat on July 12, 2017 at 3:33pm

Joan, are you sure the second premise in your syllogisms below is quite true? :) :)

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 12, 2017 at 2:51pm

Plinius, you fairly caught me in another overgeneralization. Thanks! One would think I am over that by now! But NO! I keep segmenting them into categories. I hope I am the one to catch me next time. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 12, 2017 at 2:41pm

@Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Sunday 

"I depend upon sensory evidence. All scientific evidence depends upon use of the senses. Insistence on using the senses, excluding for example "evidence" from dreams and faith, is fundamental.'

I am glad you caught me on my statement about the use of senses. I use dreams when searching for an answer to a question. Usually, a day or two of pros and cons thinking, then I have a dream that makes the answer seem clear. 

I was raised to deny my senses; I developed an "I can't be right!" mentality and it was corroborated by parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. We had a family system that relied on ancient texts for guidance and family traditions. That was until I stopped thinking as a child, at 37 years old, and started thinking as an adult. 

I have stronger techniques now on how to make a decision and a stronger sense of self and a growing sense of competence. I take responsibility for the consequences of my decisions and take pride in my growing skills. I rely on authority figures too much even as I have a higher criterion for making choices. I like double-blind research and look for flaws in research design. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on July 12, 2017 at 1:06pm

I just found-out the state I live in lets more children die because of faith-based medical neglect than in any other state.  Disgusting!

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on July 12, 2017 at 7:06am

The Fugs are back, with a vengeance!

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on July 11, 2017 at 10:12am

Joan, I just tried to post a comic in Politics, economics & religion and the link to it didn't work. So here it is instead.

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