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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller on Thursday. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

The Fake Christian Busybody Show (Andrew Bradley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Apr 9. 1 Reply

It seems as though there was a Gay Pride parade in some town somewhere and a Christian commentator, herein known as The Activist Mommy, apparently got her panties so in a bunch about it that she had to fire up her video camera and record a…Continue

Tags: gay, pride, The Activist Mommy, Andrew Bradley, America's Best Christian

America Held Hostage: Day 436 (MisterDeity)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Apr 9. 1 Reply

Now that Sinclair Broadcasting has stated their position regarding fake news and its threat to our democracy, Mister Deity's Brian Dalton has decided to throw his $0.02 worth in as well ... though I don't quite think his presentation was really what…Continue

Tags: fake news, Deity, Mister, Broadcasting, Sinclair

Guns: Both Sides Now (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 3. 3 Replies

Oh, NO!  The gun debate has gotten so heated that it has Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, TALKING TO HERSELF!  Apparently, one of her has had a stroke or a serious breakdown in cognitive skills, as she does little more than parrot the NRA's…Continue

Tags: NRA, guns, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

how dogma pollutes discourse (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 3. 0 Replies

"The Lord is our God; the Lord is One." "I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life; no one comes to the Father, but by Me." "There is no god but Allah, and Mohamed is his prophet." Assertions, taught as fact, but without any form of corroborative…Continue

Tags: dogma, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Plinius on July 27, 2017 at 11:07pm

You remember right, Spud! No children, one cat and a transgender husband. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 27, 2017 at 2:28pm

Another way to rehearse responses to those who show you ill will is to take the Apostle's Creed and turn every sentence into a question, i.e. 

Do believe in God, the Father almighty,
      creator of heaven and earth?

Do you believe in Jesus Christ, his only Son, as Lord?
Do you believe Jesus was conceived by the Holy Spirit?    
Do you believe Jesus was born of the virgin Mary?
      Do you believe Jesus suffered under Pontius Pilate?
      Do you believe Jesus was crucified, died, and was buried?
      Do you believe Jesus descended to hell?
      Do you believe The third day Jesus rose again from the dead?
      Do you believe Jesus ascended to heaven?
      Do you believe Jesus is seated at the right hand of God the Father almighty?
      Do you believe Jesus will come to judge the living and the dead?

Do you believe  in the Holy Spirit?
     Do you believe your holy church?
      Do you believe the communion of saints?

      Do you believe the forgiveness of sins,
      Do you believe the resurrection of the body?
      Do you believe the life everlasting.?

Amen.

Do you believe yours is the true church of all times and all places?

Do you believe it is your job as a christian/muslim/religious person to judge me? 

Does your religion expect you to love?

Is it your responsibilty to judge me? 

Don't expect to use all of these same questions on the same person; just know these are things that I/we call into question. 

If the person asks you to defend your question, you are not the

one who scowled at them, it is their responsibility to answer you or not. 

If you don't answer their question, smile in a friendly manner and go about your business. It is they who judge you, not you judging them. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on July 27, 2017 at 2:17pm

It looks like Joan answered my question about the Purple Lady.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 27, 2017 at 2:15pm

I have a "The Thinking Atheist" t-shirt from Seth Andrews' podcast but it is now too small for me to wear (in public.)

A few years ago while on a work break, a co-worker saw me reading Michael Shermer's book, "The Believing Brain."  He struck up a conversation with me and then eventually asked, "Atheist?"  I said I was.  He admitted the same and we became friends.  

Comment by Idaho Spud on July 27, 2017 at 2:13pm

Is Patricia the gal that loves purple and rides a purple cart type of thing?

Comment by Idaho Spud on July 27, 2017 at 2:10pm

Chris, my memory questioned the fact that you had a son, but I ignored it.  It also questioned the 2 cats.  You only have one now don't you?

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 27, 2017 at 2:09pm

Chris, thank you for the update on Patricia, the "Purple Lady in a purple wheelchair." I wrote to her about the fire and am glad you are in touch with her and can keep us informed. Tell her I asked about her and wonder if she ever received my email?

Spud, I don't think I would wear an athest T-shirt or emblem until and unless I were ready to see dirty looks and hear accusations and criticism. I practices on paper what I would say or do if anyone showed any negative reaction to my atheism. 

*Dirty looks: with a grimace, 

My response: "I see you like my necklace/T-shirt, pin!"

or: "by your expression, "I notice you are interested in my necklace/T-shirt, pin!"

*Unpleasant response:

My response: "OH? What do you not like?"

or: "Do you have a religion?"

or: "It is my understanding that your religion is one of peace and love." 

or: "How does my belief affect or effect you?"

or: "Do you see me as being wrong?" "By what criteria?"

or: "Do you really believe there is a god who answers your prayers?"

or: "Do you, if truth be told, believe Jesus is the son of god?"

or: "Do you actually believe there is a power that rescues you when you are in trouble or who guides you."

or: "Do you, in truth, believe in the virgin birth?"

or: "Do you, in fact, believe in life after death?"

or: "

Comment by Idaho Spud on July 27, 2017 at 2:08pm

Yes Chris/Plinius, I did mix you up.  I thought that was your post.  I forgot that you had no children. I think part of the reason for the mix up is that Plinius and Patricia both start with a P.  

Comment by Ian Mason on July 27, 2017 at 1:42pm

Thanks, Chris. It's good to hear that Patricia and family are safe.

I've had mostly positive reactions to atheist t-shirts but that's in Denmark.

Comment by kathy: ky on July 27, 2017 at 11:28am
Thomas, I wore my godless heathens t-shirt to Vanderbilt hospital. One nurse asked if I was a heathen kinda joking. I told her I was an atheist. She took it well but didn't pursue it further.
Another woman outside said she liked my shirt. I noticed she was wearing a cross. I told her it offended most people. She said she didn't find it offensive and she was a minister.
I got plenty of dirty looks. Especially from a woman I walked into whose shirt said Not Today Satan :)
 

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