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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris on Sunday. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Jan 31. 15 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

Tags: Emmy, news, television, daughter, dad

Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on February 3, 2016 at 12:13pm

Why won't God stop the spread of Zita virus?

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on February 3, 2016 at 8:36am
Comment by Donald L. Engel on February 3, 2016 at 1:33am

I know, they didn't work for me either.   LOL  I was just trying to point out a way to spread the word, and get to people who have no idea of what's out there. 

If we leave a paper on a café table that says, "google Utnapishtim" someone will google it.

And better yet, if we leave a paper on the table with all those googles listed below, we might reach a few people, and they will spread the word to their friends.  Especially the young ones.

If everyone on AN did this around the world, think of the impact!!

And we could add other google sights as we think of them.

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 3, 2016 at 12:51am

Don, the links didn't work for me. I used these: 

"Utnapishtim"

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Utnapishtim

“The Preserver of Life”

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Preserver_of_Life 

 "Ur Namu code" laws #18 and #22

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Code_of_Ur-Nammu

"Hammurabi code" laws #196 and #200

https://prezi.com/wlg2phvzvdmr/hammurabis-code-195205/

Exodus 21:23-25

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Exodus%2021:23-25 

It seems The Old Testament borrowed from ancient sources ... and continues to borrow from whatever culture religions encounter. 

Jeez! I ask believers if they willingly follow the teachings of the Bronze Age goat herders? 

Bronze Age is dates about 4500-500 BCE

Gilgamesh is dated about 2800-2500 BCE

Old Testament is dated about 1445-400 BCE 

 

Of course, it would make no difference to those who put faith in their holy scriptures. I guess the Bible is a "living document" changing with the times. 

Comment by Donald L. Engel on February 2, 2016 at 9:56pm

I just had an idea on how to get more people to look into the fallacies of Christianity.  Lay pieces of paper around with Google subjects.  Such as:

Google "Utnapishtim"

 

Google "The Preserver of Life"

 

Google "Ur Namu code" laws #18 and #22

 

Google "Hammurabi code" laws #196 and #200

 

Google Exodus 21:23-25

It should get some people to thinking on their own.

Comment by Randall Smith on January 30, 2016 at 7:34am

Pizza night. I've invited my "kids" over to partake. I'll be spending much of the day cleaning house, esp. the kitchen. Having "company" over is a good excuse to do a thorough cleaning.             We'll celebrate, if you will, my son-in-law's decision and fait accompli to have a vasectomy two days ago. He's 40 with three children (and a great father). I have empathy since I had one after 4 kids. 

Comment by Randall Smith on January 28, 2016 at 8:06am

Thanks, all, for your suggestions. I take them to heart. I'll let you know the results.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 27, 2016 at 6:01pm

Ian, it looks as though the Earth Wind Map directs a lot of wind to your part of the Atlantic system 2016-01-27. 

Atlantic 

Data | Wind @ Surface

Date | 2016-01-27 13:00 Local UTC

Data | Wind @ Surface

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 27, 2016 at 3:19pm

Plinius, the painting does reflect our current active core, but I’d rather not restrict ourselves by identifying with that. I particularly miss younger, more diverse An members sharing their experiences here.

Joan, I can relate to kind of "putzing" through one’s days, doing most everything in slow motion. With stable angina I need to carve out new routines that work for me.

Randall,  I agree with Plinius, Bertodd, The Flying Atheist and Joan about how to bring up the subject of parenting.

Comment by Ian Mason on January 27, 2016 at 2:15pm

My daughter became very annoyed some years ago when I broached the subject of the past and my drinking so I've let the matter drop. I think she's aware that a lot of it was self-medicating for depression.

Love the picture, Chris. Stealing it.

 

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