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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by kathy: ky on August 6, 2017 at 10:12am
Every map I've looked at shows different times for the same areas.
Comment by kathy: ky on August 6, 2017 at 10:10am
Comment by kathy: ky on August 6, 2017 at 10:10am
I can't drive nine miles up there road to a tiny town called Central City. Totality is 100%. Or I can stay home and have over 99% totality. I don't know if the few extra seconds would be worth the crowd.
Comment by Idaho Spud on August 6, 2017 at 8:13am

Daniel, thanks for the congrats and good wishes.

I just stepped outside and had to cough because of the smoke.  Not much in the house, probably because I've got the swamp cooler on and the smoke gets trapped in the filters.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 6, 2017 at 8:11am

Randy, thanks for the wish that many more H2O drops fall on my bald cranium, and other kind words.

Comment by Randall Smith on August 6, 2017 at 8:03am

"Raindrops keep falling on my head" is another.  And may many more raindrops fall on your head in years to come, Spud! I'm sure I speak for everyone here: we enjoy your contributions to A/N.

Not Missouri, but southern Illinois is my destination for the eclipse. When I taught 7th grade astronomy, one of my test questions was: During what moon phase does a solar eclipse occur? a) new b) full c) crescent d) gibbous   As you might guess, the correct answer was chosen only 25% of the time. Poor teaching!

Comment by Plinius on August 6, 2017 at 6:58am

Same for me, I love everything green coming up in unexpected places and breaking the concrete. Wind, rain and seagulls, I'm a real Dutch girl. But I see many people here, even natives, who start the great grumbling when the first raindrops fall.  

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 6, 2017 at 6:29am

I've always lived in dry climates, with one exception, so that may be a large part of why I like rain.  I can imagine those in wet climates often get tired of it.  Too much of a good thing.

The one exception was the 2 years I lived in Scotland.  I was on a mission for the mormon church and was mostly walking from door to door trying to convert people to the stupidity.  The rain was a negative at times, but I don't remember hating it, and I loved what it created.  All shades of green growing things everywhere, even moss growing on the stone walls.  Loved it.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 6, 2017 at 6:13am

I've always loved the sound of rain on the roof of my house and the roof of my car.  And, in the many years I've been gardening, I've loved rain for my garden's sake.

There are so many sayings and songs that talk about rain as a negative:  "Rain, Rain, go Away", "It Must be Raindrops Falling from my Eyes", "I Can See Clearly Now", "Rainy Days and Mondays", and many more.  I like most of them, but I usually see rain in a positive light.

I'll have to look-up some positive rain songs.

Comment by Plinius on August 6, 2017 at 5:47am

You're right,Ian. Where would we be without wind and rain to clean the air and wash the streets?


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