Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Issues Atheist, Feminist, GLBTQ, Climate Change

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by BenGee on Saturday. 3 Replies

This is a test Continue

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly Oct 20. 15 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 17. 2 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

A moment to relax and see the Earth from space; some how this comforts me.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Oct 16. 3 Replies

All the squabbles and struggles that I have do not compare with those of some others on this great planet. There are no boundary lines, no political arguments, no up or no down. What is, is. For right now, the scenes offer tranquility. Just the…Continue

Tags: and, wonder, awe, of, space

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by Plinius Oct 16. 27 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Sep 29. 39 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Joan Denoo on July 22, 2015 at 6:21pm

It is happening, the greenhouse is going up! I am taking photos but will send them later. I am excited! My box of seeds, hundreds of seed packets, that I accumulated over the years, will have a place to get started in our short growing season. I will begin with starting herbs to be transplanted in their permanant places in the spring. Other seeds will be started in very early spring. All my seeds are short-season varieties.

The realtor who will be selling my home called today and will have the appraisal done this week and it will go on thw market.

Oh dear! that means getting 41 years of clutter cleaned out, sold, given away, or trashed.

The new roof goes on in August.  

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 22, 2015 at 4:08pm

Randy, every time I visit the BMV I look around at the people there and think to myself, "Wow.  These people are actually licensed to drive."  It's pretty scary.   

Comment by Randall Smith on July 22, 2015 at 7:04am

It's a morning "on the town". Off to see my father, Aldi, and the dreaded BMV to register my new truck. Ugh.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 18, 2015 at 3:03am

Randy, I feel excited, too, that we begin to think of the health of the soil rather than how much chemical fertilizer we will have to use in order to get a crop. Even the Palouse farmers begin to recognize the problems. 

We live during a very interesting period of human history, something unlike we have experienced before. So many peaks coming together at the same time. 

Comment by Randall Smith on July 17, 2015 at 10:08am

Cute, Carl. He wishes.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 16, 2015 at 10:10pm

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on July 16, 2015 at 2:55pm

Joan, your life stories never cease to amaze me. Thanks.

Randall, I share your concern about soil loss. It's good to hear some farmers are adopting no-till.

I wrote a 7 page paper (rough draft) outlining a Partnership/complex systems/sociological/group process approach to overcome climate change denial. So far none of the people with whom I shared it by email have responded. Basically it endorses consciousness raising groups with a "no blame" approach. Can't share it here since it's not published, not hosted on a website. If you want to take a look, email me at yahoo as ruthanthonygardner and mention "Opportunity" in the subject line.

I wanted to get Chris Hedges to read it, but haven't been able to get an email address for him. I also thought to discuss it with someone who wrote an article about the connection between hierarchy and climate chang..., but the damned thing doesn't  have the author's name, only his photo. As an unknown, unpublished individual seeking attention for an unsolicited paper, it's an uphill battle.

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 16, 2015 at 2:16pm

I remember learning about the Dust Bowl in elementary school and how bad it was for farming.  However, I had no idea how horrible the whole crisis was until I watched Ken Burns' documentary The Dust Bowl, recently.  The shear force of sand-whipped winds that caused blistering on your skin.  And the prejudiced ways Okies and other migrants were treated while trying to cross the state border into California.  

Comment by Randall Smith on July 16, 2015 at 7:32am

To look at farmland and the soil in winter, when the ground is bare, it's scary. One sees a lot of subsoil spots or areas, especially on knobs where the topsoil has been washed away over the years. Where once topsoil was 18" thick, it's now only a third of that--at best. Fence rows are usually a foot higher than the adjacent fields because they've been protected--never plowed or left bare.  Farmers around my parts are slowly figuring out it's best not to till. Hence, "no-till" farming is gaining adherants. Perhaps there's hope.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 16, 2015 at 3:36am

Felaine, in 1941, construction recruiters went to the farming areas and to the cities of great migrations after the Dust Bowl to recruit builders of a massive railroad and highway system across the southern tier of the USA. The construction companies wanted poor farm men who knew how to work, had skills and were teachable, to create this gigantic project for moving men and material from coast to coast. We found out later that the preparation was for the Asian part of WW II. Dad got a job and we moved with him in a 12 foot long trailer to follow him as he moved across the Southern tier. My uncles were also part of that building project, but not at the same camps as Dad. Dad often talked about the many construction skills he learned from the Arkie and Okies with whom he worked.

Conditions were awful, as my mother described them years later. I had fun with all the Mexican and Blacks and Arkies and Okies. We sang songs, played games, shared meals, and generally had a dirty, poor, hot time of it. The Southern Tier was a motley crew if ever there was one.   


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