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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19, 2017. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

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Comment by Loren Miller on April 26, 2017 at 5:36pm

Boil it down, what god judges people for are things Pat Robertson doesn't like!

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 26, 2017 at 5:27pm

@Bertold Brautigan, I wrote a response to your excellent "God will judge..." poster, and it evaporated into the ether, gone forever. Let me think and respond again. 

God judges America over abortion and Gay Marriage

God does not judge America over: 

Native Americans who experience being  raped, murdered, their lands stolen, their children taken from their families, their spirituality disrespected, without protection of laws or Constitution; 

Africans who lived enslaved and had boulders tied to their legs. They experienced being raped, murdered, disrespected, and exploited for centuries without recourse in law or Constitution; 

The homeless, although hungry, sick, dying, and poor do not receive care or protection of law or Constitution. ; 

God does judge America over abortion and gay marriage.

It is time for Americans to judge god/s and those who pretend they have some higher power and protections from superstitions. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 26, 2017 at 5:17pm

@Plinius, your feelings of pessimism have value and need to be expressed; your realism carries weight and power. I especially appreciate when you confront me with skepticism. You truly think critically, a valuable quality, in my opinion.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 26, 2017 at 5:14pm

@Ian, your wonderful spirit gives me great pleasure; I especially like the ways you describe the events and people in your life. Your writings feel like mini-vacations for me. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 26, 2017 at 5:06pm

@Ruth, your anger expresses itself in the most constructive way that I can imagine with your Letters to the Legislature guidance. I learn so much from the way you construct your comments and the boldness with which you write. 

I recognize the low spots. We come to the end of life as we know it on Earth and there may never be another epic such as the one into which we were born. 

There are a few things I find helpful to dodge the depression bullets: * Celebrate my anger!

* Focus my anger on the authors of my anger! 

* "Delete" toxic people from my life! Laura hates it when I talk about doing this. 

* Be intolerant of intolerable words and deeds. 

* Rejoice with my family and friends, creating the best memories possible for each one. 

* Talk to or read what others say and write about their "end of an era" experiences, i.e. Native American, African-Americans, other ethnic groups who experienced radical change beyond their control. 

* Soak up a spirit of wonder, not of superstitions, but of whatever gives you pause for joy. 


Comment by Joan Denoo on April 26, 2017 at 4:52pm

@The Flying Atheist on Monday "OK, my last post about "him."  (I don't want to soil this fine forum. It's hard to be continually pissed off and not vent.)"

Oh! Carl, don't throw away your "pissed off" feelings. They are needed now more than ever in my lifetime. Grab hold of your aner, identify it, think about it, explore options of how you can use it, develop a plan, and vent to your heart's content, then find a way to celebrate and let your anger flow away from you! There will be many more times when your/ our anger needs to express itself 

In the meantime, peace! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 26, 2017 at 4:45pm

Randy, I loved my Elderhostel experiences. I had enough guidance to get what I wanted and enough freedom to wander on my own. Of course, safety is always a concern, and in today's political climate I would not wander as far and as long as I did when I was in my 60s. 

Have a wonderful trip!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 26, 2017 at 4:09pm

You've definitely had a stretch of good luck, Ian.  I hope it continues past three. 

Daniel Barenboim was conductor of the Chicago Symphony Orchestra for years.  I've been to many of his concerts.

Comment by Ian Mason on April 26, 2017 at 1:41pm

Do good things come in threes?
1) Yesterday I got a letter telling me I'm getting a rebate on my heating/hot water bill.
2) I went to a concert, the world-class West-Eastern Divan orchestra with maestro Daniel Barenboim.
3) Turned up at 'work' this morning to be told I was 'surplus to requirements', so no more gritty mouth and black/grey snot for the time being.
How nice!

Comment by Ian Mason on April 26, 2017 at 10:22am

Spot on, Bertold.


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