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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by sk8eycat on December 7, 2014 at 7:33pm

re: the Marshmallow Test....that last little red-headed girl (who ate her single marshmallow right away) looks and act exactly as my sister did when she was that age....and older. 

Still does.  But every doctor and therapist I've told about her agrees with me; she has Asperger's.  (And I still have scars where she bit me when she was 5 or 6 years old.)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 7, 2014 at 6:57pm

Some Sunday evening easy-listening sounds from a fantastic singer from days gone by.  I hope you enjoy......

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 7, 2014 at 10:57am

Randall, I've also seen video footage of the Marshmallow experiment.  Like Mindy said, it's interesting to watch the kids faces as they ponder what they should do. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 7, 2014 at 10:52am

Sorry to hear of your family's loss, Ian.

Comment by Randall Smith on December 7, 2014 at 7:40am

Sorry, Ian. Evidently it was the grandfather on your daughter's mother's side?

Speaking of books, I just finished The Marshmallow Test, which goes into detail about the evidence that kids postponing the gratification of eating one marshmallow immediately by waiting  for two of them later gives an indication of self control later in life, which leads to bigger and better things. It's really a "no duh" socialogy thing, but it's now substantiated. (There's much more to the book than that.)

Comment by Plinius on December 7, 2014 at 1:25am

I'm sorry for your loss, Ian.

Comment by Ian Mason on December 7, 2014 at 1:18am

I got the news yesterday that my daughter's Grandfather had died during the night. It was expected and the family had a chance to be with him at the end. Sad, though. He's been a permanent fixture to a greater or lesser degree throughout my 29 years in Denmark.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 6, 2014 at 3:47pm

No, Patricia, I haven't had anything like that show up in my comments.  It's obviously a spammer "phishing" around to acquire your e-mail address so that they can send spam to your home computer. 

Can we trust no one these days?  I just found out that the Nigerian prince who wanted to share his multimillion-dollar wealth with me is just a fraud!! 

Comment by sk8eycat on December 6, 2014 at 3:40pm

Good thing you reported reads like spam. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 6, 2014 at 1:01am

Felaine, don't you have access to free cancer screening either? Have you checked with your local cancer society to learn what screenings are available? 

At Cancer Care Northwest, not all cancer patients can pay for their treatments. There is a fund from which people can draw if they have a positive diagnosis and need care. I am now working to raise funds for that project.  

A study in the Netherlands found: 

"The researchers found that new cases of early-stage breast cancer among 70- to 75-year-olds rose sharply after national screening was introduced, from 248.7 to 362.9 per 100,000 women."

Risks of Breast Cancer Screening in Women 70-Plus


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