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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat yesterday. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by Hex5 on August 14, 2015 at 12:26am
You are right old superstitions do die hard really hard. Especially when they are indoctrinated into a chileds mind
Comment by Joan Denoo on August 14, 2015 at 12:07am

Old superstitions die hard, especially something as basic as left and right handedness. There are those who want to control others, and those who perceive others as fine, just the way they are. Oh! to live in a perfect world of eschewing control and valuing diversity. 

Comment by k.h. ky on August 13, 2015 at 11:56pm
My forty something year old niece is left handed. And only an old, fundie, g uncle said anything about breaking her of it.
One of my gdaughters is a lefty and now they sale left handed scissors for the little ones. And parents are strongly encouraged to get them.
Comment by k.h. ky on August 13, 2015 at 11:51pm
I've had Felaine on my mind. I remembered, at some point, that she wore a medic alert, DNA. Which I suppose explains, what seemed, her sudden death.
Thanks Carl for tracking her down.
And thanks Chris for letting us know why Patricia has been mia.
Comment by Plinius on August 13, 2015 at 2:28pm

My parents were protestant fundie, but they thought the devil was left-handed too.

When I was about 13 I hurt my left hand, they used it as an excuse to make me write right-handed. Was not a succes; I started to drop things, fall over and walk into walls, and when I switched to left again my handwriting was even more messed up. 

Don't do this to your children!

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 13, 2015 at 1:46pm

Not sure, but I've only ever heard of the Catholics doing it. They see the devil everywhere. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 13, 2015 at 1:42pm

I always hate hearing those stories about left-handed kids being forced to write with their right hand.  That is just so f*cked up.  I think about all the unnecessary arguments, tears and punishments innocent kids had to endure.  My mother and my brother are both left-handed.  But none of us went to Catholic schools. 

Just curious, do/did other religious freaks besides the Catholics have that policy as well? 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on August 13, 2015 at 12:45pm

I never knew of any problems that resulted.

Comment by Plinius on August 13, 2015 at 12:39pm

I found out later that you can get a lot of motor dysfunction if they force you to use the wrong hand. Did your granny have those?

Comment by Plinius on August 13, 2015 at 12:37pm

I was adamant that I couldn't write with my right hand. In the end I was allowed to write my way but I got no end of criticism and no help. My writing is just horrible, but if you have a pc who cares?  

 

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