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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Chris on June 20, 2017 at 2:03am

Cartoons, Vaudville, Birlesque and movies before some sort of 'prohibition' of resque behavior was banned.

Betty Boop cartoons' were curtailed.

I herad  that people in the 1920's, or even working class people in the 1700's had more freedom to be themselves than the 1950's.

Movies in the 30's had to tell a story of hope because of the depression. Early '40's were for war effort.

Perhaps that may have been a reason why 1949 was a great year for movies.

It seems today  movies are geared towards noncostudial parents to take the kid out during 'visitation- err parenting time'

Marriage is a legal contract. The cerimony is non-binding.

More mariage cerimonies are in order without the religious order to have sex for procreation.

Comment by Ian Mason on June 20, 2017 at 1:43am

Good one, Chris. The absurdity of blind obedience.

Another absurd thing: in the Greek Orthodox church, if a layman puts a foot into the priest's vestry the whole church has to be re-sanctified by the patriarch. If a woman puts her foot there, the church has to be re-sanctified TWICE.

Comment by Chris on June 20, 2017 at 1:30am

Sorry for my sarcasm and inability to post the image.

The image  about Father's Day is  located @ https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-lzd6QLQzHqU/WUZ0FfIIEBI/AAAAAAAB...

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on June 19, 2017 at 10:15pm

So many weddings. Thanks for sharing.

I'm so busy trying to make sense of politics and then condense it into letters to legislators, that I've had little time here for just keeping up. Sorry, all. It' been depressing.

Comment by Loren Miller on June 19, 2017 at 12:52pm

Meanwhile, I attended the wedding of one of my wife's sons and his girlfriend this past Saturday.  Between 2009 and now they've had four kids together and about two years ago decided to tie the knot.  I was especially pleased to see the return of the same secular officiant who performed the ceremony not quite a year back with another of my wife's kids.

Another of the benefits of secular ceremonies: BREVITY!  I don't think the whole thing went 15 minutes!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 19, 2017 at 11:57am

The wedding was between my second cousin and his girlfriend.  They are in their late twenties and completely normal and great people.  The bride's father is one of the priests of this church and he participated in marrying them, so I can imagine the insanely intense pressure put upon these two to have such a wedding ceremony.  They have been dating for 8 or 9 years and they are a great couple.  I know that they don't subscribe to the whole "man in charge/woman subservient" bullshit.  For myself, no matter how much I loved someone, I wouldn't be able to bring myself to participate in such a ceremony, even just for show.    

Like I said, it sure was an interesting experience with many raised eyebrows and eye rolls from me.  I was sitting between two of my non-religious cousins, so we were able to share several whispered jokes between us.  One priest chanted the story from the bible about the wedding celebration where the wine runs out and Jesus changes barrels of water to wine.  It was strange to hear the bible chanted throughout the service instead of spoken.  My biggest takeaway from the experience is that despite all the flashy pomp and circumstance, the priestly robes, the metered application of incense at certain locations, two priests seeming needed to kiss the gold plated cover of the bible, etc., is that absolutely none of these ritualistic acts are mentioned in the bible.

Comment by Idaho Spud on June 19, 2017 at 6:58am

Carl, I would have had to grit my teeth and fight the urge to walk-out.  That's what I did at my brother's wedding.  Fought the urge and stayed in my seat.  What insanity.

Comment by Ian Mason on June 19, 2017 at 3:00am

Joan, I agree wholeheartedly. John Lydon (Johnny Rotten of Sex Pistols fame) has later said of the 70s that it was the decade when 'the working class forgot it was a class,'

An interesting bit of time travel, Carl. It's strange that such things survive but people seem to put up with the absurd as long as it's 'traditional.'

Comment by Plinius on June 19, 2017 at 2:48am

Sounds like a special experience, Carl, but I thought the women who wold put up with a 'head of the family' had died out by now...

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 18, 2017 at 6:33pm

Carl, what an interesting experience. What kinds of feelings did it evoke in you? 

 

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