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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith May 27. 9 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 30, 2014 at 8:53pm

If I am reading that chart correctly, that means for every two infections, one results in death. Is that correct? 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 30, 2014 at 7:12pm

Dallas hospital sends Ebola patient home on Sept 26th.

Yeah, we don't have to worry because US healthcare is sooo superior.

Comment by Plinius on September 30, 2014 at 1:50pm

So Dale has a chance to go on! I'll keep my fingers crossed for him - although I don't think that could help.

That is a beautiful painting, Joan! Thanks!  At times I feel helpless but I won't let it get to me. First I try to think what I can do, after that I amuse myself with fantasies about power shutdowns, Molotov cocktails or other things I would never do.

Today I'm singing falsely:"Rejoice, rejoice, we have no choice but to carry on.."

Comment by Ian Mason on September 30, 2014 at 12:00pm

Don't you believe it, Joan. I do what I really have to do and no more.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 30, 2014 at 11:32am

WOW Carl, you have me hooked. Between you, Mindy, Loren, and all music lovers on this string, we can dance to the music of Charlie Darwin!

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 30, 2014 at 11:31am

Carl, thanks for that Peanuts Darwin!

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 30, 2014 at 11:07am

Oh Chris! I hear you! Surely feelings of helplessness and hopelessness will occur and that is the formula for depression. Do not let that happen to you and your husband. Do whatever you can to find joy and peace. Just plain have fun! Be sure your husband understands how important it is that this dreadful behavior can pull you down. 

Think of things that when you do them you feel happy, calm, relaxed, at peace ... and then do them if you can. 

I feel helpless for you, so I will ease my feeling by sending you a photo of a painting. Since I am buried in grapes; one of my favorite activities is processing grapes. Mine are Concords, but these are so bright, I feel lifted and hope you do too. 

Jan van Huysum, Still Life 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 30, 2014 at 9:54am

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 30, 2014 at 9:48am

I'm frugal too, Mindy, but I love music so much that I don't want it interrupted with commercials.  But that's me.  What kind of music do you listen to?

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 30, 2014 at 9:17am

I also like my music so that I can hear it without straining.  I like having music on when cleaning as well, usually some upbeat jazz.  I couldn't live without my music.  Jazz and classical make up the majority of my listening, but I have many other varied and quirky musical avenues too. 

I subscribe to commercial-free Pandora Radio and have found a lot of new music that I like listening to.  Lately I've been listening to a lot of South American and Spanish contemporary ballads.  Even though I don't speak or understand Spanish, they are very beautiful and romantic. 

 

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