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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Jul 23. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

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Comment by sk8eycat on October 15, 2014 at 4:42pm

I had heard the phrase/title "Duck Dynasty," but knew nothing about it.  Another scripted, costumed UNreality show, eh?  Sounds as boring as watching the Duggar family pray....or have sex.

Comment by Ian Mason on October 15, 2014 at 12:34pm

I've never heard of "Duck Dynasty" and didn't know the pic came from it, whatever it is.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on October 15, 2014 at 11:36am

"They make all Southerners look bad." Right! Thanks for the post GC.

Comment by Grinning Cat on October 15, 2014 at 11:32am

The Duck Dynasty "cultural export" is all the more embarrassing for being a wealthy-yuppies-in-redneck-drag fake!

There are before-and-after pictures on various websites, including here: http://aattp.org/duck-dynasty-is-fake-and-thats-a-fact-jack-video/

Dusty Smith (of CultOfDusty videos) has strong words about it in his video (cued up to the relevant part; NSFW):

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 15, 2014 at 10:45am

Ian, that Duck Dynasty photo embarrasses me when I think about so much of our country's "cultural" exports to other parts of the world. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 15, 2014 at 1:42am

Ian and Randy, there is that anxiety a parent has when an adult child quits a job or for whatever reason they are unemployed. I hope both your daughters fare well in their professional endeavors. 

Craig, my son with the nice job description, lost his job several years ago in a RIF and we all held our breath. As it stands now, Craig and Laura are both secure and I have no worries about their futures. They are both entrepreneurial in spirit, not liking to work for others. Being self-employed is a strong message from my family and from their dad's. There are risks, and benefits. Kind of like life. 

Patricia, The party sounds like great fun and excitement. Did you know before hand that an engagement was coming? Your granddaughter's face looked so excited and pretty. Her ring is lovely. 

Ian, I have never seen the American Ya'll Qaeda, but from what I hear, I have no interest in learning what he has to say. A good comparison of the Qaeda twins. 

Randy, we still have that neighborhood feeling of belonging to each other as family. We have front porches, and now there are several front yard vegetable gardens. The third generation of kids is growing up. This summer has been the most recent squealing of the young ones. Of the oldest group that grew up while I lived here, one is an astrophysicist another is a dentist. It is a sweet place to grow up. 

Comment by Ian Mason on October 15, 2014 at 1:06am

Has anyone posted this before?

Comment by Randall Smith on October 14, 2014 at 8:12am

Joan, your son's job description is a little more complicated  than what mine was: "teacher"! Impressive sounding, anyway.

Ian, my daughter (age 39) just went throught the same thing, and is now unemployed. Hope your daughter has better luck finding a job.

After reading a new book by Marc Dunkelman, The Vanishing Neighborhood, I realize my friends are not my real neighbors like they were for my parents. The definition of "neighborliness" has evolved dramatically over the the course of several decades. As a kid, I remember sharing meals, baby sitting, going places, etc., with our neighbors. Today, being "neighborly" means leaving those around you in peace. You're friendly, but detached.

Consequently, or perhaps a reason for that change, is the internet. Facebook, twitter, blogs have become the centerpiece for our relationships and friends. True, I share more information with you all than I do with any of my so-called true friends and neighbors. I'm okay with that, although I miss the "good ol' days". 

Comment by Plinius on October 14, 2014 at 6:40am

A really impressive list, Joan!

Must have been a nice family party, Patricia! No ring for him or is that not the custom with you?

Comment by Ian Mason on October 13, 2014 at 1:42pm

Sorry for the mistakes. Just woken up from my day's sleep. Yes. blAming and there.

 

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