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10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Plinius Sep 28. 8 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

Tags: America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Sep 26. 2 Replies

It seems as though lately, Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is evolving into America's Best Patriot.  She has recently been taking some fairly well-aimed shots at a certain Orange Nightmare and his sycophantic hangers-on, regarding the…Continue

Tags: patriotism, Donald Trump, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Joan Denoo on November 16, 2016 at 9:51pm

Daniel, Your words do comfort me. I am not turning my back on memories of the past even as I build new memories of the future. 

Ruth, Yes! To all you say. The funk does remain, kind of like the smell of a forest fire as wind blows away the clouds. 

To both of you, I join you in a blackout of politics, at least for a while. There have been times in the past when it was fun and exciting. This whole election leaves bitter taste of ashes in my mouth. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 16, 2016 at 9:28pm

Joan, I liked this new imperative the best.

"Crucify myself daily in imitation of the crucified christ," to Fuck you!

My thought for today is a quote:

The real contest isn’t between Democrats and Republicans or Clinton and Trump, but between “human beings and physics,” and physics “is not prone to compromise.”

Bill McKibben

I'm still in a funk, wearing black. Mildly depressed and angry at the cheating, bigotry, and willful ignorance in the US.

image source (text mine)

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 16, 2016 at 5:02pm

such was his love, 

he folded her 

a field of flowers, 

cascading as far 

as they could see

and when she understood

what he had done

she wept flood of tears

to fill the lakes

and make the rivers run 

so their blooms 

would never cease. 

~ the mumbling hermit 

aka David Thomas 

@THE_MUMBLING_HERMIT

 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 16, 2016 at 4:03pm

http://apod.nasa.gov/apod/ap161113.html

Super Moon vs. Micro Moon

So very many people have been born and died; The moons and stars reveal a bigger picture of what it means to be alive today. We live such short lives and we have only one life to live. None of this nonsense about rebirth or reincarnation.
We are the lucky one, we were born and we are alive. We are part of this magnificent universe and we have something to say and do. Does anyone know what that is? No, not even parents. We give birth to the next generation and they evolve into something full-of -wonder. 

Sometimes loving is painful; others it is joyful. A person knows one because of the other. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 16, 2016 at 3:47pm

Ian, yes, in some way I do have serenity while I have more determination to work the issues that matter to me. 

* Early detection of cancer, 

* Permaculture,

* Peaceful negotiations training,

* Restoration of war-torn peoples and countries.

If we don't want refugees, we had better work to improve living conditions in peoples' homelands. 

On the other hand, there is a burning coal were my heart used to be.I don't know how one recovered from the death of a child. 

Comment by Ian Mason on November 16, 2016 at 3:13pm

Randall, 'lovely' is not old-fashioned in England and is a word I'm fond of.

Glad to hear the good news, Carl. Keep up the good work. Thanks for showing the alternative to housework.

Sorry to hear about your back, Chris. I think the Danish expression for that is 'witch-shot' (hekseskud). I had one of those a few years ago and it was very uncomfortable.

Joan, you seem to have reached serenity and doing so without praying or accepting bullshit. I take my hat off to you.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 16, 2016 at 2:47pm

Randy, your daughters have a special father. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 16, 2016 at 2:41pm

Christ, sorry to learn of your lumbago. 

I don't work that way anymore, not because I am wise, but because my body hurts too much. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 16, 2016 at 2:30pm

Yes, Carl, smudging is as effective as praying cleaning a house and many other chores. It is not the physical exercises that did the trick for me, it was using tools t change my attitudes. Once I examine the old, learned attitudes, beliefs and customs, and learned healthier ones, I was free of internalized imperatives.

"Love your husband to the lord," to I am worthy of respect and love.

"Turn the other cheek," to I only have two cheeks and they are not for hitting.

"Crucify myself daily in imitation of the crucified christ," to Fuck you!

Sounds easy and healthy? Yes and no.

anyway, setting limits, refusing to be assaulted, standing up or myself, were beliefs well worth developing. 

So, any of you lads and ladies who suffer under the boot of an authoritarian personality, run, don't walk, to the nearest exit and create a life worth living. 

Comment by Plinius on November 16, 2016 at 1:29pm

Congrats Carl! And you're right, bad news must be taken in moderate doses.

I had an overload of work, tried to finish everything in a short time and was rewarded an attack of lumbago. That will teach me! But today I went to work again and had everyone laughing with my stiff movements.  

 

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