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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Loren Miller on September 14, 2015 at 8:04am

Condolences, Randall.  It's bad enough to know it's coming, but to have it come on that fast has to be hard as hell.  Take care, bro.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 14, 2015 at 7:56am

Randall, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

Comment by Randall Smith on September 14, 2015 at 7:47am

Speaking of falling: I'm sad to report that my very own father took a spill on steps, broke his hip, hit his head, and died 10 hours later. This was just 2 days ago. He was 97. It was all so sudden and shocking. I was at his bedside when his blood pressure dropped off the chart. There was no hope trying to revive him.

So I lost my one and only father, a great man, someone I admired and loved very much. I knew his passing would come sooner or later, but it's still not easy, especially coming so unexpectedly. 

Comment by Plinius on September 13, 2015 at 5:41am

Are you all right, Ian? Have you got help? I hope you don't feel very bad.

Falling ----- yesterday I took Auntie for a short walk, I knew she fell over twice last month, but she was much more unbalanced and fragile than before. When I helped her step from the last kerb in front of the care home she fell again and I could do nothing to stop her. Luckily help was at hand and the damage wasn't serious, but she was sore and black and blue. I daren't risk another walk outside with her...  

Comment by Ian Mason on September 13, 2015 at 5:00am
Comment by Ian Mason on September 13, 2015 at 4:53am

Carl, I broke a leg falling in the bathroom. No audience but I did feel silly. It's great to hear that your transplant is a 'go'. Please keep us informed as far as possible. 

Comment by Randall Smith on September 12, 2015 at 7:36am

Hey Carl, don't feel bad. I saw where the Cubs Kyle Schwarber hit a home run and did a belly flop rounding first base! He had millions watching that fall. Keep us up to date on your kidney transplant process. Glad you enjoyed reading about my "farm kids".

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 11, 2015 at 10:20pm

Carl, it is very good news, indeed, that your kidney transplant can take place now and your heart is strong enough. 

Falls seem to happen to people when we are the most vulnerable.

I am certain your audience identified with you and your fall. Were you able to get up and go about your business? Hopefully, you had compassionate and effective help.  

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 11, 2015 at 7:45pm

I'm so behind here and needed to catch up with this group!

Randy, I finally was able to peruse you're family's website and watch your video.  Very impressive!  You must all be very proud of what you accomplish.  I know it's extremely hard work, and your family's dedication shows through.  What a wonderful operation.  My hat's off to you.

I had to laugh at the postings about Spike Jones.  Believe it or not, I grew up listening to Spike Jones because as a kid, I was in possession of my Grandmother's 78-rpm record collection, which included quite a few Spike Jones.  Cocktails For Two and The William Tell Overture were two of my favorites.  

Spud, I feel bad a cable company has taken advantage of your trust.  I'm glad you took a stand, even though it involves lugging a computer back and forth to the library.  Now that's persistence!  I hope you can have an in-home remedy soon.  I would be lost without access to the world at my fingertips.  

Hex, welcome to Hang With Friends.  It's always nice to meet someone new. 

Ruth, the condition we have brought upon our plant is indeed depressing.  What I find most frustrating is that people actually fight against having clean air, clean water, and a sustainable future.  Do these people really have no sense of ethics?  I'm at a loss trying to understand their mindset. 

An update on me:  I was just cleared last week by my cardiologist to proceed with my kidney transplant.  To quote him, I've had a "remarkable" recovery from my valve replacement.  Hopefully that will happen within the next 30 to 60 days. 

But not all news is good.  Two weeks ago I fell due to my weak knees and I'm now nursing a small fracture next to my right big toe.  I'm wearing a surgical boot and my foot and leg is wrapped up for stability for four to six weeks.  I'm not in any pain, however.  But this shouldn't delay my transplant.  I fell downtown on my way home from a medical appointment.  Of course this had to happen on a bright, sunny day at two in the afternoon right in front of Chicago's famed Water Tower on Michigan Avenue.  Needless to say, I had a big audience.  :)

Comment by Randall Smith on September 11, 2015 at 7:03am
There always seems to be a trade-off when it comes to health issues. Hopefully, Chris, you'll find the right combination. I reckon you can be thankful for the good news.
Ruth, that drought map IS scary. I think it immediately applies.
Hope everyone has a good weekend. I have a birthday party to attend--granddaughter's third!
 

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