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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 21, 2015 at 12:37am

I like reading about your Celebration of your fathr's life. You sound as though you met the grieving process with healthy expression of your gratitude for him in your life. Sorry the ""we've been praying for you" raised its ugly head and that you can move on with your life. 

The mother of your children is part of their heritage and it is a tribute to your family that your former wife wants to participate in your family heritage. 

Nate and Emily carry on a fine tradition of family farming. This month's newsletter tells their story beautifully. 

Silverthorn Farms, Bringing in the harvest,

http://us10.campaign-archive1.com/?u=272febf3e272cbc9d4196ad2c&... 

"we've been praying for you"

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 20, 2015 at 8:39pm

Glad the day went well for you, Randy, despite the circumstances. 

Comment by Randall Smith on September 20, 2015 at 7:50am

The "celebration of life" gathering went well. We had lots of photos and music. Many people came. Exhausting. Some people just don't know when to quit talking. No major issues, although one "guest" was my ex-wife, who desparately wants to be a part of my genetic family. I guess my kids are her's, too. And I think I only got one "we've been praying for you", e.g. Time to turn the page and move forward.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 18, 2015 at 9:47am

Randy, there's no better tribute than a "Celebration of Life."  

Comment by Ian Mason on September 18, 2015 at 8:30am

I hope the celebration goes well, Randy. Shed a tear, share a laugh and raise a cheer as a tribute.

Comment by Randall Smith on September 18, 2015 at 8:00am

Thanks, all. We're having a "Celebration of Life" Saturday. Gratefully, my two religious sisters didn't push for a somber funeral. It's been a tough week, but with each passing day..... I was lucky to have my father for as long as I did. He was not only my dad, but my friend. I'll miss him.

Comment by k.h. ky on September 14, 2015 at 7:14pm
Randall, my thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Carl, that is wonderful news about your health.

Joan, l miss Felaine also. As Chris said at the time she died from poverty. That's a brutal truth about the US. I've heard people say we have the greatest healthcare system in the world. Sadly that's only true if a person can afford to spend without question.
Comment by Ian Mason on September 14, 2015 at 3:13pm

Very sorry to hear of your father's death, Randy. I hope it helped a little being with him at the end.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 14, 2015 at 12:04pm

Felaine's death is a symbol of all that is wrong with USA health delivery. We can make a difference for others, even if it is too late for our dear friend. I'm in the fight for universal health care in my country; the funny, sarcastic, irreverent, relevant, cynical nature of her comments ring in my ears. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 14, 2015 at 11:49am

Thanks Carl.   I hope I can get an in-home internet service also.  Several times a day now, I would like to access the net, but have to write down a reminder of what I want to know or do, for the times I'm at the library.

Glad to hear your good news.  Waiting to hear more good news after the transplant.

I've always thought Spike Jones was a hoot.  There's a movie called I.Q. that I enjoy watching every year, that has a very funny scene where a Spike Jones Tune is played.  Meg Ryan's a teacher and hears Spike for the first time when the head of the university plays her the tune on his new "stereo" system.  She looks startled when the craziness starts.  The university head says.  "Isn't the sound great?  It feels like you can just reach out and touch him."  Meg replies, "Or slap him!"

 

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