Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Issues Atheist, Feminist, GLBTQ, Climate Change

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by BenGee 2 hours ago. 3 Replies

This is a test Continue

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly on Thursday. 15 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Tuesday. 2 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

A moment to relax and see the Earth from space; some how this comforts me.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Oct 16. 3 Replies

All the squabbles and struggles that I have do not compare with those of some others on this great planet. There are no boundary lines, no political arguments, no up or no down. What is, is. For right now, the scenes offer tranquility. Just the…Continue

Tags: and, wonder, awe, of, space

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by Plinius Oct 16. 27 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Sep 29. 39 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 2:08am

Chris, I know how your aunt felt after such a fall. It does something to one's sense of vulnerability. I now walk with a cane or a walker. Larry built a handrail off the back porch because I wouldn't go down them. If I fell, I would land on concrete. Been there, done that!

Yes, 80 years old and a fall is quite different than being 50 and fall. Something happens to the psyche. I am so glad you are there for her. My family does not hover, however, they are there when I feel vulnerable. 

Comment by Plinius on May 31, 2015 at 1:00am

Thanks for the video, Ruth, I enjoyed it very much! And yes, it's it's a clear metaphore for life, as Joan says - but it wouldn't be so appealing in a less beautiful setting! 

A sign of returning health, Carl, when you start to feel jealous! Good! I'd love to go with Ian too, but no chance. We expect a detailed report, Ian!  

We'll visit Aunt today - a few days ago she fell and hurt her jaw and a few remaining teeth, but the worst is that it scared her very much. I took her to the dentist - she was so shaken up that she wouldn't do one step on her own and I had to hold her hand all the time. To be 80 years old and scared!

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 12:15am

Ruth, the video showing balance is a perfect metaphor for life and living. Take what one has, put it into balance with living. When the situation changes, rebalance one's life. 

Indeed, it is relaxing, watching the creation of balance, observing falling out of balance. Restore, Renew, Refresh with a new creation. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 30, 2015 at 11:48pm
Ian, as a flight attendant I can't believe I'm saying this, but I'm jealous of all your travels. You go to so many fantastic places and do a lot of fun activities. When I's all work. LOL
Comment by Ian Mason on May 30, 2015 at 10:10pm

Getting worked up about my trip to Dublin next month. First: The Who live - the main reason for going, but have now booked seats at the Abbey Theatre for two plays, an old Sean O'Casey and a new special commision. Starting off with a guided walking tour though. This should be fun.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 30, 2015 at 10:09pm

That's a fascinating video, Ruth. It makes me want to try.

"New normal" is something I missed the first time. A good expression that's worth remembering.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 30, 2015 at 6:46pm
Ruth, an interesting and beautiful video.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 30, 2015 at 6:34pm
Joan, I like your little phrase "new normal." I'll have to remember that as I age and my health and abilities change through out the coming years.
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 30, 2015 at 5:58pm

Thanks for your encouragement, all. Yes, the worst seems to be over.

Thanks for sharing your family's underbrush clearing day, Joan. It's wonderful to see the world through your eyes.

Here's a video of rock balancing by Michael Grab aka "Gravity Glue", that I found relaxing. I hope you all enjoy it too.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 30, 2015 at 10:25am

That sounds like a lovely day, Joan.


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