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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 24. 9 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

Tags: America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Sep 26. 2 Replies

It seems as though lately, Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is evolving into America's Best Patriot.  She has recently been taking some fairly well-aimed shots at a certain Orange Nightmare and his sycophantic hangers-on, regarding the…Continue

Tags: patriotism, Donald Trump, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Joan Denoo on November 16, 2016 at 2:47pm

Randy, your daughters have a special father. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 16, 2016 at 2:41pm

Christ, sorry to learn of your lumbago. 

I don't work that way anymore, not because I am wise, but because my body hurts too much. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 16, 2016 at 2:30pm

Yes, Carl, smudging is as effective as praying cleaning a house and many other chores. It is not the physical exercises that did the trick for me, it was using tools t change my attitudes. Once I examine the old, learned attitudes, beliefs and customs, and learned healthier ones, I was free of internalized imperatives.

"Love your husband to the lord," to I am worthy of respect and love.

"Turn the other cheek," to I only have two cheeks and they are not for hitting.

"Crucify myself daily in imitation of the crucified christ," to Fuck you!

Sounds easy and healthy? Yes and no.

anyway, setting limits, refusing to be assaulted, standing up or myself, were beliefs well worth developing. 

So, any of you lads and ladies who suffer under the boot of an authoritarian personality, run, don't walk, to the nearest exit and create a life worth living. 

Comment by Plinius on November 16, 2016 at 1:29pm

Congrats Carl! And you're right, bad news must be taken in moderate doses.

I had an overload of work, tried to finish everything in a short time and was rewarded an attack of lumbago. That will teach me! But today I went to work again and had everyone laughing with my stiff movements.  

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 16, 2016 at 1:11pm

Glad you got a good report, Carl.

Also, thanks for keeping us abreast of proper sage smudging technique! Just looking at the pic zapped away all my negative energy. (I'll be sure to contact my physician if that condition persists for more than four hours.)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 16, 2016 at 12:54pm

In order to maintain my sanity I purposely stayed away from a lot of news since last week's tragic political event.  That definitely helped....some. 

I got a chuckle from the following joke and thought I'd share it. 

I hope everyone is doing well.  I had a cardiology appointment yesterday.  All is working well, just like a normal heart.  No need for another appointment until one year from now.

Possible first snow this weekend.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 16, 2016 at 12:38pm

Randy, perhaps you can update your vocabulary and say that the visit with your daughters was groovy. 

Comment by Randall Smith on November 16, 2016 at 6:54am

Several things:

My three daughters had a lovely time together last week ("lovely--an old fashion term). The visiting two have returned home (Calif & Hond). They are super daughters. I'm so lucky (ages 38,41,43).

Golf and garden season is over, so I'm cutting firewood in my 7 acre woods. I lost 40-50 large trees and many more sapplings in a summer storm. I'm determined to clean it up. We'll log out and sell the large trunks.

Has anybody been watching "The Durrells in Corfu" on PBS Sunday nights? Good show. I'm interested because I was in Corfu last May. Wonderful scenery.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 15, 2016 at 5:39pm

Just wanted to let you know it's -0.2°C at the North Pole right now.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 12, 2016 at 7:32am

Ruth, I think it is inevitable that we have already reached the tipping point. I could be wrong. Too many people base their thinking on faulty principles; garbage in, garbage out. We failed to confront the pride-in-ignorance groups; being polite in the face of threats to the planet yields no freedom.
That said, we have nothing to lose if we bluntly confront ignorance. You supplied evidence of what was happening to our climate and helped make some of the material easier to understand. There is no excuse for people to deny climate change; their denial costs us all, dearly.
Those who want to hide the truth to make better profits on their enterprises are our enemy, not the Middle East terrorists; Those thugs reveal symptoms of a much larger problem. The Native population trying to stop the pipeline going through the aquifers betrays the reality of the injustices imposed on all Natives once again. One betrayal after another of once great nations that populated this continent now betrays the colonizers.
For myself, I plan to return to L & L Acres have just as many happy days as I can pull out of the rest of my life. I've lived from the end of the Great Depression, WW II, the recovery and I can remember the first telephone put in my grandmother's home and watched a man walk on the moon. I hope and work toward living in peace. Life is what it is; I'm grateful to have lived. 

Having Atheist Nexus, all the friends I find here, and especially a person such as you, Ruth, makes my days especially interesting. 

 

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