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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris on Thursday. 9 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by Gerald Payne on June 22, 2015 at 6:03pm

That video captures it smack on GC. It should be broadcast on the religious channels.

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 22, 2015 at 5:49pm

A bit from the parody song "Bögarnas fel":

In the name of religion we engage in wars, kill and fight / But we bear no responsibility for this...Another translation: "On religious grounds we still fight and kill and maim / but we are good and innocent and not the ones to blame."

(The song continues with its title theme, "it's the gays' fault!" Youtube -- Swedish with English closed captions; Another performance, with the second translation I quoted)

Comment by Gerald Payne on June 22, 2015 at 5:45pm

Only joking GC.

Comment by Gerald Payne on June 22, 2015 at 5:38pm

Is that because we don't get many sharks on the road GC?

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 22, 2015 at 5:25pm

Or perhaps the beaker is twice as big as it needs to be. :-)

I don't have your education, Joan, but do appreciate the power of framing! For example, at the senior center where a local community group holds contra dances, a poster offered free workshops with one-on-one help to "Update your computer skills". (It listed a wide range of areas, along the lines of email, web, Facebook, smart­phones, and ebook readers). That title caught my attention as a way to invite people at any level of familiarity and expertise, even if someone's never had a computer or never used email before. It did not mention "beginners" or "seniors", no implication of "we'll help you geezers join the 21st century."

Another example: if you're trying to reassure someone that shark attacks are astoundingly rare, and not something to be afraid of, saying that you're 3 1/3 times more likely to drown than to be attacked by a shark is small comfort if it evokes fear of drowning. But we generally aren't afraid of deer, and don't worry about deer accidents. Yet you're 300 times more likely to be killed by a deer (if your car hits it) than by a shark.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 22, 2015 at 3:24pm

We have an eight-ounce beaker with four ounces of water in it.

Is the glass half full or half empty? 

Yes, the way we use language makes a big difference on how we experience life, does it not?!

Do you remember in college learning about neuro-linguistic programming? It was part of my training in education, to phrase my comments in positive frames. 

So, Summer Solstice means the beginning of summer and the days starting to get shorter. My neuro-linguistic programming didn't work for me with that thought. If I had depression it was on the day that began to get shorter. I didn't have depression on the shortest day of the year, I knew spring was on the way. So much for fancy words and ideas. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 22, 2015 at 3:16pm

Randy, I took what information you supplied: 

"'15 Toyota truck," "pyrite mica".

 

I Googled these words and came up with some leads. I chose "Images" and received a page of photos of '15 Toyota trucks, pyrite mica. 

I did a "Control + Click" and a drop down menu appeared. 

I chose "Copy Image URL". 

I pasted it into the photo box at the top of the Comment. 

As if by magic, it appeared in my comment. 

I am using Google Chrome with a MadBook Pro, if that makes any difference. 

'15

Comment by Randall Smith on June 22, 2015 at 7:28am

Upon reflection, I thought my "days will be getter shorter" statement of the solstice was a "glass half empty" view. I should be more upbeat. Or is it the other way around (half full)? I never did figure that one out!

Joan, yes, that's the color of my new truck! Nice work. Wish I could learn to do that.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 21, 2015 at 7:32pm

Felaine, that is a beautiful picture for Summer Solstice. Thanks!

Comment by sk8eycat on June 21, 2015 at 7:15pm

 

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