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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Thomas Murray on Saturday. 5 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Thomas Murray on Friday. 4 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

Tags: America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

A Prayer for Our Nation (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Friday. 2 Replies

I'm going to keep this one short and sweet.  Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has seen what is going on with the current occupant of the Oval Office, and my impression is that she is not at all happy with it.  True to her citizenship,…Continue

Tags: prayer, Donald Trump, Oval Office, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Any Babymetal Fans Here?

Started by Bruce Carroll. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 12. 5 Replies

Any Babymetal fans here besides me? I have to ask because 1) I really like Babymetal and 2) Babymetal unknowingly played a role in my journey out of religion.For those who are unfamiliar with Babymetal, here is a link to one of their most popular…Continue

Tags: Japanese Idol, Babymetal

If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?

Started by Idaho Spud. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Sep 11. 30 Replies

Today, I heard Seth Andrews talk about the question, "If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?"  My first thought was religion, but after a few seconds I decided it would be irrational or anti-scientific thinking.  That would take…Continue

Tags: anti-scientific, irrational

Ignorance is Bliss: Why Religious People Seem Happier Than the 'Nones'”.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 11. 16 Replies

“Highly Religious Volunteer More, Lie Less, and Claim to Be Happier”~ Houston Chronicle; “Strongly Religious People are Happier than Non-Religious”  ~ Christian Daily."The study determined that 40 percent of highly religious adults—defined as those…Continue

Tags: Nones, happiness, non-religiosity, religiosity, bliss

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Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2016 at 4:58pm

Oh! My Gosh! The surgery went so well I failed to write about it. Not one instance of pain, no aches, just a big bandage that I can take off but I am doing some chores and don't want to break the wound open. 

Covered, except for a tiny hole through which the surgeon did his magic, he did his "slit, slash, blood, and gore"  task.  Before he closed me up, he had the nurse take my "tent" off so I could see the incision. No blood, just a tiny little hole where he showed me the muscles, tendons, and whatever else was under the incision. Then, the nurse covered me again, he sewed me up and bandaged me with what looks like a very impressive wound, and I came home. No pain even now! The surgery itself only took 15 minutes. It was all the prep work that took up most of the day. 
I am getting some circulation into my fingers; my fingernails turned pink. I have trouble typing because of the bulk on my hand but no discomfort. 

I'll have my right hand done Sept 12.

Laura told me carpel tunnel syndrome surgery is the latest fad; it may be a fad, but it feels so good to begin to have the feeling return in my fingers again. 

Thanks for asking, Qiana and Carl.

Carl, I love the concept of being a matriarch. The best part of it is I have a longer memory than most people, and I can remember wash tubs, boiling water on the stove, wringing out hot sudsy laundry and hanging wet fabric on a clothesline. I also remember the task of going to the forest to cut wood, bringing it home and while the men cut it into pieces to fit the stove the women prepared a huge meal. That was very festive to me, but I would not go back to that unless I just had to. 

I am most grateful for having lived this long so that I can have access to all kinds of information; I can do the kind of research that is fun, not the old routine of sitting in a library with stacks of books around me trying to follow a thread.  

I also love economics, and it is easy to follow lines of thought and learn new ways to collect and analyze data. 

Gardening is still the love of my life even as there are things I no longer can do. 

Carl, feeling happy and content is just about the best thing I can feel; your happiness and contentment pleases me greatly. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 27, 2016 at 3:46pm

Congrats Randy.  I'm not going to mention how far I can run.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2016 at 3:40pm

Every once in a great while a tornado forms over eastern Washington and when it did, it was a major news item. 

On JULY 23, 2014, huge thunderstorms hit Riverside, WA, on Hiway 2, destroyed 20 trailers in a trailer park and left behind large swaths of downed trees. We see the effect today as we drive on Hiway 2. I can't even imagine what the central states experience when such terrible winds blow each year. 

Comment by Randall Smith on August 27, 2016 at 3:06pm

Whooee--I made it! On a whim, I signed up for a 5k run a month ago. I don't know what made me do it. I haven't seriously run in 3 years. I guess I just wanted to prove I still could do it. I'm a little crazy that way. Well, in the month of training (so-called), I never could run the full 3 miles without stopping. But I did today! I had a time goal, too, which I met. Won my age group (65+)! However, I was the only entrant, tee hee. I guess old people just don't run anymore. There weren't even any walkers in my age group. All in all, it was pretty exhilerating. And no heart attack!

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2016 at 3:01pm

I found an interesting piece on weather science that intrigues me. 

Atlantic 'weather bomb' opens new window on Earth's interior

"Earthquakes aren’t the only things seismologists listen for. Over the past decade, they have honed their talent for detecting the seismic waves generated by severe storms, including the echoes of Hurricane Katrina and Superstorm Sandy. Ocean swells from these storms rattle around, creating waves that drum the ocean floor and move into the mantle. They can even be picked up by seismometers on the other side of the world. Until now, this circuitous weather tracking system has mostly been limited to high-speed P waves, which pass through rock with straight compressive force; S waves, with their distinctive perpendicular sashay, have remained elusive. In a new study published this week in Science, however, researchers tracked a 2014 North Atlantic "weather bomb"—a cold-weather cyclone seen here pummeling the United Kingdom—with a pattern of P and S waves, picked up by an array of 202 borehole seismometers in Chugoku district in Japan. The technique, if repeated for other storms, could give geologists a new tool for studying Earth's deep structures."

Comment by Daniel W on August 25, 2016 at 8:59am
Randy i wish you safety and no tornadoes. I think there were some there when I lived in W. Lafayette. Very scary. I slept through one once when I was in high school. Blew a tree over in the front yard, and blew the neighbors' garage into our back yard, and I didn't even wake up.

My vision is so bad. I keep reading that as tomatoes.
Comment by Idaho Spud on August 25, 2016 at 8:47am

I would be worried too Randy.  A direct hit with one of those big boys would totally destroy your house and probably a large part of the farm.  A horribly bad day to say the least.

Comment by Randall Smith on August 25, 2016 at 8:43am

Carl (and others), yes, our locale (N central Indiana) had dozens of tornadoes yesterday, primarily in the Kokomo area (50 miles N of Indy). The nearest to me was about 15 miles. So fortunately, the farm was spared with only about an inch of rain and no winds. The tornadoes were not only unexpected (and not predicted), but huge--like a mile wide! 

I worry every time that one day I'll get hit. Up to now, tornadoes have by-passed me, one as close as a half mile.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 25, 2016 at 8:05am

I said test instead of text.  Is that just one of my random brain-farts, or because I've been reading  about you guys' teaching problems?  "I do not have the answer at this time."

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 25, 2016 at 8:01am

Ruth, yes, I often enlarge the test with control-plus, but sometimes the next page I go to is way too large.  Sometimes, the next page will have to be enlarged, and the next, and...

Plus, there are some things that will not enlarge.  Small information boxes, and the icons on the tool bar will not enlarge.

I've found one or two things that I like better, but overall....well, enough complaining for now.

Nightmares still?  How long have you been retired?

 

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