Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Discussion Forum

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly 9 hours ago. 15 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Tuesday. 2 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

A moment to relax and see the Earth from space; some how this comforts me.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev on Sunday. 3 Replies

All the squabbles and struggles that I have do not compare with those of some others on this great planet. There are no boundary lines, no political arguments, no up or no down. What is, is. For right now, the scenes offer tranquility. Just the…Continue

Tags: and, wonder, awe, of, space

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by Plinius on Sunday. 27 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

Issues Atheist, Feminist, GLBTQ, Climate Change

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 6. 2 Replies

This is a test Continue

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Sep 29. 39 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Idaho Spud on April 27, 2015 at 12:10pm

I had a doctor that I quit because he kept talking about god.  The final straw was when he said "Science will never figure-out the brain, because that is the province of god."

Glad I never took the anti-depressants he recommended.

I wonder if he was a muslim.  I think he came from a muslim country.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 27, 2015 at 11:23am
Ugh! The "I'll pray for you" sentiment drives me batty. And just last week, I was having a conversation with the dialysis nurse and I told him that my sister is my kidney donor. He said, that's wonderful! That's why god gave us two kidneys, so we can give one away as a gift.
I was at a loss of words that someone could say something so ridiculous and be totally serious.
Major facepalm moment.
Comment by Joan Denoo on April 27, 2015 at 11:22am

Randy, I share your rage when family members believe such nonsense. I like Peter Bogosian's approach. Have you read his "manual for creating atheists"?

My cousin's husband and I have a very friendly debate that has been going on for years. He presents me with a statement of faith and I give him my response. The next time I see him he gives me a beautiful or whimsical birdhouse. I adore them. 

He and his cousin and a group of men who regularly meet conspire to find the next statement. iIt is great fun!

Comment by Plinius on April 27, 2015 at 11:03am

You'll be glad that we're not praying at you, Carl  =^.^=

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 27, 2015 at 10:58am

Chris. I looked back a few pages and can't find what impresses me so much, and I can't remember. Whatever it was, it either inspired me or encouraged me. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 27, 2015 at 10:47am
The past several months I have heard some of the most idiotic religious talk. There's nothing like a major health condition that brings out the most ridiculous comments from people.
Comment by Idaho Spud on April 27, 2015 at 10:24am

Carl, so sorry to hear of the excruciating painful pluricy, but glad that you're on the mend.

Comment by Plinius on April 27, 2015 at 9:21am

No one but a xtian would claim someone else's lucky break, however small. I'd be livid too Randall.

Comment by Loren Miller on April 27, 2015 at 8:26am

Good to hear from you, Carl.  Please take care of YOU!

Comment by Randall Smith on April 27, 2015 at 7:59am
Yes, it's a relief to not only hear from you, Carl, but to know you're on the mend. You'll make it.
Reminds me of telling my sister that my thumb arthritis disappeared for a few days while on my cruise. It felt so good to be pain free. She replied "the power of prayer". For some reason, her comment made me livid. I informed her of studies/experiments done that prove prayer is worthless--in fact, just the opposite. Of course, she won't accept the truth. My arthritis has returned.

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