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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky Jan 22. 8 Replies

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Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 23, 2015. 4 Replies

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Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith Dec 1, 2015. 1 Reply

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Comment by Plinius on December 19, 2015 at 1:59am

Sorry Joan, I wasn't clear enough. Aunt and other people in het ward all suffer from alzheimers and other geriatric diseases - fellow sufferers. The care home is very good!

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 19, 2015 at 1:17am

Carl, oh dear! such mild weather in your area at this time of year foretells some interesting days ahead. 

How are you and your sister doing? Regaining some stamina? It must feel very good to be off dialysis, even though it was a life-saver for you. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 19, 2015 at 1:14am

Chris, It seems your students continue to appreciate and enjoy your classes. Not such good experience as you describe your "Aunt's fellow sufferers". Doesn't sound like a very nice place. Sorry to learn of the poor cat's last days; not a very good experience for any of you, I am sure. Bulbs in bloom in December, even in The Netherlands, sounds a bit out of the ordinary. I am eager to learn what the new year brings to your local weather. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 19, 2015 at 12:40am
Sad story about the cat, Chris. I hope your b-i-l is doing OK.
Incredibly "wrong" weather here too. It's finally gotten seasonally cold here after a LONG stretch of spring-like weather. The grass is still bright green and trees, bushes and flowers are blooming! And next week is the winter solstice. It's eerie.
Comment by Plinius on December 19, 2015 at 12:19am

What I did this week?

The last lessons of the year. Explained and sang "Imagine" five times, Played games and got a lot of appreciation. 

A xmas dinner with Aunt in the care home. Met some more of Aunt's fellow sufferers and their family - nice to talk to them. The menu was full of dead animals - I ate only the veggie parts. Aunt was happy with her presents but overwhelmed by the big occasion.  

I went to help handicapped b-i-l take his cat to the vet. As usual I looked at the greenery during the busride, and saw a d... a DAFFODIL?! Not even one, there were about a hundred daffodils in full bloom along the next few kilometres. And when I paid more attention, I saw flowering daisies and yarrow and even cow parsley - half a year early or late, I wondered. Catkins in every other tree. An allergy warning about lambs tails on tv. The weather goes straight from autumn to spring.

The cat wasn't well at all - we knew that already but b-i-l didn't want to know it or do something about it - like every autist he doesn't want change in his world. So he had a hard time when the cat was diagnosed with severe diabetes and put to sleep withing a few hours. Poor Tisja! Her character didn't allow two insulin shots a day and a daily bloodsample to check blood sugar levels.  

Saturday morning now, and at last I have some time to do the shopping, washing and cleaning. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 18, 2015 at 12:20am

Comment by k.h. ky on December 17, 2015 at 8:30pm
Chris, that's funny.

Randy, l think it's the holidays. Celebrate or not the stores are crammed full of people who do. And my daughter, her spouse and their children have winter solstice dinner here. It's like xmas dinner minus the tree and ornaments. ; )
Comment by Plinius on December 17, 2015 at 8:01am

I'll tell you when I've shovelled these chores....

Comment by Randall Smith on December 17, 2015 at 7:54am

Hope everybody is doing well. It's been sort of quiet around A/N. I notice only a handful of members are online at any one time, and there are few comments. New members seem to join and then abandon us. It's difficult to socialize with ones self. Since we don't (as a rule) celebrate Christmas, what's the excuse?

Comment by Plinius on December 17, 2015 at 2:15am

Congrats Ludwig! I liked the google animation/puzzle!

 

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