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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Monday. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Daniel W on January 28, 2017 at 9:24am

Thanks!  Now to cook something! 

The last big challenge was when the propane supplier came with their tank, the stove wouldn't work.  I almost gave up!  They refused to leave the gas line hooked up, installed a lock on the tank so I couldn't use it! I got a portable tank for a gas supply to figure out the problem.  It took me a few hours.  There is a gas shut-off valve, hidden, not described in the manual or on-line instructions. Sneaky!  But now it works, all is good :-)

Comment by Plinius on January 28, 2017 at 3:05am

Great work, Daniel!

Comment by k.h. ky on January 27, 2017 at 10:23pm
Wonderful outcome Daniel. It doesn't even look like the same room.
Comment by Daniel W on January 27, 2017 at 10:10pm

Today I celebrated Chinese New Year's by figuring out how to get the propane to work in the new gas stove for my seemingly endless kitchen project.  Turned out there was a secret shut-off valve not mentioned in the manual.  Despite the New Year's timing, there were no fireworks.  And now, all that remains is paint touch up here and there and re-install cabinet trim.  Will try liquid nails for that tomorrow.

Even though I really didn't want to do the soffit modification to raise the range hood and cabinets, now I don't hit my head on the range hood.  It's kind of nice not having scalp wounds and bumps.  The light under the cabinets is brighter with the extra 2 inches of height, as well. So those are unexpected improvements.

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 27, 2017 at 10:11am

Thanks for that video Bertold.

Comment by Chris on January 27, 2017 at 12:32am

How to speak so that people want to listen | Julian Treasure

Published on Jun 27, 2014

Have you ever felt like you're talking, but nobody is listening? Here's Julian Treasure to help you fix that. As the sound expert demonstrates some useful vocal exercises and shares tips on how to speak with empathy, he offers his vision for a sonorous world of listening and understanding.

TEDTalks is a daily video podcast of the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of their lives in 18 minutes (or less). Look for talks on Technology, Entertainment and Design -- plus science, business, global issues, the arts and much more.
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Comment by Chris on January 27, 2017 at 12:31am

A landline is good to keep. When there is a power outage the landline should countinue to work unless the lines break. IP phones only have a battery time of about two hours. Plain Old Telephones (POTS) lines connect to the telephone central office have a battery back up and generator to keep them working.  The connection is generally good.

I don't talk on the telephone much so don't need, or want a cell phone.

I have several friends and relatives with cell phones. The connection to them is terrible. I can barely hear them much of the time. They go outside and walk around to get a decent connection. I don't know why they put up with that - and use it as their only telephone connection. Typically if they have a POTS line we will reconnect with that to talk.

My thoughts are force the telephone company to fix the landlines.

There have been numerous problems with my telephone internet connection and through the years. The telco replaced the line from my house to the pole twice, several sections of cable and fixed 12-18 connections with new splices. 

I understand that many places in Europe have fiber connections therfore their internet speed is faster, less expensive, and more stable.

Regarding cell phones. If you get in an accident, or need one in an emergency they are great to have.  Cell phones with 911 availability are nice to have when driving in the boonies.

Comment by Plinius on January 26, 2017 at 10:40pm

Thanks Bertold. I´ve seen it already, it´s a big hit here.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 26, 2017 at 7:43pm

Bertold, that video is HILARIOUS!  Passing it on to all my family and friends.  

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on January 26, 2017 at 6:44pm

A message to our new prez from . . . The Netherlands. (Plinius, this vid's for you.)

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10028518819

 

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