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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by sk8eycat on November 4, 2014 at 10:05am

Postscript: I also got tired of SUVs full of kids from other neighborhoods coming around for more goodies....and I noticed this year that more than half of our neighbors  also don't turn on their porch lights..

Comment by sk8eycat on November 4, 2014 at 10:01am

I stoped handing out Trick-or-treat candy about 10 years ago, when very few children (or even grandchildren) lived in our neighborhood, and my back would not tolerate bending over to drop stuff in pillowcases and plastic pumpkins.  Once I stopped doing that, my JW sister decided it was "safe" for her to stay in the house on Oct. 31, instead of sitting in the farthest corner of the back yard and freezing her ass off.

Witlesses are so weird....what's the harm of little kids dressing up like ballerinas, cowboys, or even sheet-covered "ghosts"?

I used to love Halloween, but the people who started the rumors and fears about "tainted treats" ruined it for everyone.  Before I stopped handing out treats altogether, I went from homemade cookies (which people stopped accepting) to wrapped candies without chocolate just because everything chocolate gets boring after a while.

Comment by Grinning Cat on November 4, 2014 at 8:56am

Also, it's far from a sure thing that Republicans might take the Senate:

Expect the Unexpected: 5 U.S. Senate Races Where the National Media Is Probably Misreading Polls

If you live in [Iowa, Colorado, Georgia, Louisiana, or North Carolina], your vote really counts.

(h/t Bertold Brautigan)

Comment by Grinning Cat on November 4, 2014 at 8:51am

For folks in the US today:

Make sure this is at the TOP of your to-do list on November 4: VOTE (NARAL Pro-Choice America)Your Vote Matters. Elections can be won or lost by narrow margins. Your vote can make all the difference. (Examples of elections decided by 291, 312, 567, and 2,371 votes) (NARAL Pro-Choice America)

Comment by Grinning Cat on November 4, 2014 at 8:48am

Mindy, the "two sides to an argument" graphic is a keeper; thanks! And it's great that Charlie is getting a wonderful home!

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 4, 2014 at 8:24am

Cute kitten.  She looks wary, but I'm sure you'll give her a good home.

Comment by Plinius on November 4, 2014 at 8:20am

Congrats Mindy! Happy days for Charlie and you!

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 4, 2014 at 8:20am

So true Mindy.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 4, 2014 at 7:30am

There was a film of The Handmaid's Tale with Robert Duvall back in the late 80s or early 90s. I actually can't remember whether it was very good though.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 4, 2014 at 5:22am

Haven't eaten (or seen) any smarties of 30 or 40 years.  I think I liked them though.  Haven't eaten any M&Ms for 20 years, even though I definitely like them.

Candy is way too expensive, so I seldom buy any.

When I buy candy for the halloween kiddies, I always buy my favorites, and they appreciate it.  I've heard at least one little guy say "Boy, he gives the best candy."


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