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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Did the American Revolution produce significant benefits for women, native Americans, blacks, propertyless white males, and indentured servants?

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner 23 hours ago. 3 Replies

Did the American Revolution produce significant benefits for native Americans, blacks, propertyless white males, and indentured servants?On blacks:"We think they are not, and that they are not included, and were not intended to be included…. They…Continue

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Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Chris G on Friday. 16 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 24. 17 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 22. 83 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 19. 8 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

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Comment by Idaho Spud on January 6, 2015 at 11:35am

Comment by Plinius on January 6, 2015 at 6:20am

Make some coffee, Carl! I'll be there to listen to the Don Buass quartet!

Comment by Plinius on January 6, 2015 at 6:18am

Patricia's picture reminded me of this one - I see similarities. And I also started building happy memories later on. But perhaps teenagers seldom look happy. What did you all look like?

Comment by tom sarbeck on January 6, 2015 at 3:45am

Joan, thanks for the alto sax zigeunerweisen. On any instrument it's one of my favorites.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 2:58am

Thanks for the Jazzy music Patricia. I am enjoying it. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 12:52am

Comment by sk8eycat on January 6, 2015 at 12:49am

Ohhhh, Carl!  That's sewwww saxy.  I used to listen to a late-night DJ who played that kind of music when I was in high school.   I hung out with some of the band group, and they were always experimenting with jazz.

Later, (almost 10 years) I was dating a fire-fighter who moonlighted as a headwaiter at Shelly's Manne-Hole, and got wrapped up in jazz again.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shelly_Manne

Whew!  Takes me right back.  Thank you.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 12:15am

Carl, a beautiful piece. I love "I don't know why!" The sax sounds wonderful, too. Never heard of Don Byas. Another new artist to put in my music file. 

The bitter cold snapped; we are now at or a tiny bit above freezing. A couple of day of this and the ice will melt on the streets and sidewalks. I expect we will have freezing weather, but for today ... it is not freezing.  

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 6, 2015 at 12:00am

It's snowing here.  The temperature is 7 F / -14 C.

After reading the posts here it sounds like many of us have the winter blues.  Wish we could all be together in a room and chat with each other with some appropriate music in the background.

Comment by Dyslexic's DOG on January 5, 2015 at 10:52pm

Well Patricia, I used to be considered a people person, I can go anywhere and casually start a conversation with anybody about anything, too often I instigate the conversation. Yet lately I find myself avoiding the usual haunts but, still, I could be in a supermarket and start a discussion about anything with total strangers and within a few minutes cover a wide range of topics.

As I tend to drift from one subject to another very quickly.

Mostly I avoid religion, especially during religious festive periods.

Those total strangers often become acquaintances and will acknowledge me every time I see them from then on.

Probably stems from my first job as a salesman, selling chemicals and farm supplies.

So often I had to pretend to be knowledgeable on veterinary supplies, but If the answers were not on the packets (which I memorized), then I would tell them to get their vet's opinion.

 

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