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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 23, 2015 at 8:05pm

Chris, definitely not satire. Eddie Fisher was a "heart throb" singer who's singing style was pretty typical of pre-rock 'n roll 1950's crooners. I guess that's why he made it to #1 that year! The teen girls swooned over his dreamy voice and good looks.

Comment by Plinius on September 23, 2015 at 8:39am

Thanks Carl, but I think the song is hard to understand, I'm totally out of touch with O My Papa. Is it satire, do you think? Or why the slow whining?

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 23, 2015 at 7:58am

Ian, I was born in July 1964.  It was a big year in the US for the Beatles.  They had lots of #1 songs that year.  A couple of years ago I attended a screening of the film "A Hard Day's Night" at my local art-house/movie revival theater.  I have a copy of the July 1964 National Geographic Magazine.  The lead story is about the huge Easter morning earthquake in Alaska that previous Spring.

Here's a Medley of Number One Songs 1964 link.

It's from this fun website:

http://www.bobborst.com/popculture/number-one-songs-by-year/?y=1964

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 23, 2015 at 7:21am

Joan:

Bertold:

Chris:

Comment by Plinius on September 23, 2015 at 5:19am

1954 "Oh mein Papa" ... no, never heard of! 

Comment by Ian Mason on September 23, 2015 at 3:28am

What a youngster you are, Carl. I remember going to see the film of "A Hard Day's Night."

Just ordered this T-shirt.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 22, 2015 at 11:54pm

Good Night Irene, Gordon Jenkins and the Weavers

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 22, 2015 at 11:48pm

#1 song for 1936 was Bing Crosby, "Pennies from heaven"

I forget how to get the Imbed Code to bring the film here. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 22, 2015 at 10:53pm

Ian, it seems uncertainty is the only constant during this period in human history. If that is an accurate statement, then the remedy for working folk is to learn how to thrive in uncertainty.

I do hope your situation becomes stable, and you receive the benefits that you worked to gain. 

It is a crime that workers and those who hire workers agree to terms that include retirement benefits; when the time comes to collect the benefits, sometimes the rules change. The worker fulfills his or her part of the bargain throughout their working years, and those who hire workers don't and are not required to perform their part of the bargain. 

If enough workers fall into this trap, and if workers organize to retain their legitimate claims to retirement, then the benefits may be restored.

If those who hire workers have clout with changing laws, law enforcers, attorneys and judges, then the workers lose. 

The workers also lose because during their working years the cost of living is at one level but upon retirement the cost of living is higher because of inflation. Workers who retire often have to lower their standard of living.  

Capitalism stinks when it does not prepare workers for this reality. People in socialist countries face threats of lower standards of living because of threatened loss of security benefits. 

The proof of what I state becomes verified by the growing gap between rich and poor around the world, in every political system. 

If work has value it should pay wages that maintain a modest to medium income. If the work does not support a medium income, then the system works to create an imbalance. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 22, 2015 at 9:55pm

Ian, I don't have Facebook, but I looked up the #1 song for the day I was born.  It was "Rag Doll" by the Four Seasons.

The week before and the week after I was born the songs were, respectively, "I Get Around" by the Beach Boys and "A Hard Day's Night" by the Beatles. 

I think it would be fun if everyone here looked up the #1 song for the day they were born and posted it here.

Ian, here's yours.  It was introduced in the 1956 Alfred Hitchcock film "The Man Who Knew Too Much."

 

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