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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Yasmine Mohammed - Confessions of an Ex-Muslim (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jul 7. 6 Replies

Yasmine Mohammed is not your average ex-Muslim.  Not only did she get shut of Islam, she also managed to escape what was at one time the most notorious of radical Islamist organizations: Al Qaeda.  She has since documented the story of her apostasy…Continue

Tags: Islam, Al Qaeda, Yasmine Mohammed, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Ignorance is Bliss: Why Religious People Seem Happier Than the 'Nones'”.

Started by Joan Denoo Jul 6. 0 Replies

“Highly Religious Volunteer More, Lie Less, and Claim to Be Happier”~ Houston Chronicle; “Strongly Religious People are Happier than Non-Religious”  ~ Christian Daily."The study determined that 40 percent of highly religious adults—defined as those…Continue

Tags: Nones, happiness, non-religiosity, religiosity, bliss

Afrodisiacs – African Aphrodisiacs

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jun 26. 4 Replies

Am I so old and not know the definition of aphrodisiac, and its historical definition being based on Aphrodite, that her name came from the African drugs that Egyptians, Greeks, and Romans used for sexual enhancement? Dhu!  Aphrodite, ancient Greek…Continue

Tags: Africa, Lady, Victorian

Degrees of Doubt: The Claims and Credentials of Ravi Zacharias (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris May 17. 1 Reply

Anyone here ever run onto an apologist by the name of Ravi Zacharias?  I've seen his name dropped multiple times on YouTube as supposedly being THE ONE APOLOGIST that no atheist wants to cross swords with, because of his facility with christian…Continue

Tags: Ravi Zacharias, Steve Baughman, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

The Most Hated Woman in America (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Gary S Apr 19. 7 Replies

Before Aron Ra and Matt Dillahunty, before Dawkins or Dennett or Harris or even Hitchens, there was Madalyn Murray O'Hair.  In the midst of an America where Christianity was being flaunted as a defense against the godless communists of the Soviet…Continue

Tags: Frank Zindler, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Madalyn Murray O'Hair

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 26, 2016 at 4:39pm

Sorry to hear about Dido, Plinius. I try to avoid carrying Trissa, who weighs 22 lbs. So often we don’t know we’re overdoing it till later. I had to start using a cane after carrying around rocks a few days for garden improvement. Didn’t feel it till later.

I hope your good health continues forever, Randall. For osteoarthritis, I’ve found that not only pharmaceutical grade fish oil helps but Dr.Theo’s Avosoy Complete. It’s not only salt free glucosamine and chondroitin but has avocado-sybean unsaponifiables. I’d read about the latter ingredient in research literature many years ago. I don’t’ think they know how it helps, just that it does. About two years ago their supplier failed Dr. Theo’s independent analysis (he has high standards and tests every batch), so it was unavailable for about a month. After two weeks without (just using another glucosamine/chondroitin product) my arthritis got much worse. I was so glad when it was available again.

Loren, Ian, Plinius, Bertold and Flying Atheist, you seem to be the kids of our core group. Younger people join Hang With Friends but don’t post as often.  It is essential to be conscious of one’s changing body and take precautions. Keep it up.

“Wonderfully tasteless décor” made me laugh. I can appreciate that aesthetic.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 26, 2016 at 4:17pm

What an inviting room for virtual relaxation. I love tea and snuggly throws, and it's peaceful, calming. Thanks, flying Atheist.

You make good points, Joan. We all learn so much from you.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 26, 2016 at 2:49pm

Randy, I'm not crazy about that 70s decor, but I admire people who decide to do something and go all out.  I have to appreciate their commitment.  I like people like that. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 26, 2016 at 2:45pm

I'm 51 but often feel like I'm 91.  

Comment by Ian Mason on January 26, 2016 at 12:33pm

At 59 I must be a mere stripling! I've also begun to feel the first signs of wear and tear in joints, tendons etc and healing/recovery gets slower and slower. I refuse to give in though. I have plans for at least one more year of jogging half-marathons.

Carl, what a wonderfully tasteless decor. The fire-and-tea scene is much more restful.

Comment by Plinius on January 26, 2016 at 11:55am

You're not the youngest, Loren, I'm not yet 62. 

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on January 26, 2016 at 10:06am

Also 65 here, just went on Medicare last fall. Been noticing shades of decrepitude creeping in on various fronts. I try to work in a bit of light lifting, stretching, and tai chi every day.

I always find somehow comforting the oft-noted idea that dying begins the billions of years of non-existence that mirror the billions of years of non-existence preceding your life. It just occurred to me that means statistically, being dead is far more "normal" than being alive.

The moral: at least while you're still alive, beware any judgments or undertakings based on statistics.

Comment by Loren Miller on January 26, 2016 at 7:46am

Gad, I guess I'm the young'un here at 65!  I'm doing pretty well at the moment, not a lot of medical complaints.  I would LIKE to get more active when the weather gets better (especially considering what I spent on a bike three years ago!), and I do little things to at least attempt to keep myself in shape.

I find I'm becoming more conscious of what's going on with myself and my body and I want to take actions to counter any degradation in my current status.  It'll be interesting to see how successful I am as time passes!

Comment by Randall Smith on January 26, 2016 at 7:21am

Actually, Carl (and Bertold), I like the decor! Perhaps it's because it's so different from my antique white walls and old furniture.

Sorry about your maladies, Ruth. I guess I'm pretty lucky at 2 months shy of age 73. My worst health issue is osteo-arthritis, mostly in the thumb joints. Fingernail fungus is disappearing with generic Lamosil. 

Of course, Joan is ever the eternal and inspirational optimist!

Comment by Plinius on January 26, 2016 at 7:15am

All these free extras hurt, Ruth, but we cannot refuse them! Take more time for yourself, to care and heal. I hope you feel better soon!

I should try to be more careful myself too - yesterday I took Dido to the vet and today my feet, knees and even my hips hurt like hell. That should teach me how much I can do!

Dido was always a heavy cat, about 6 1/2 kilos, but a month ago he lost weight very fast, for no reason I could see. Today he is just over 4 kilos, but the vet found nothing so far. More results of the examination in a few days....

 

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