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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Grinning Cat on November 1, 2014 at 12:39am

An apropos juxtaposition:

Scariest. Pumpkin. Ever. [message carved into jack-o-lantern] THE WIFI IS DOWN(from cheezburger)

You never see churches with free wifi because no church wants to compete with an invisible power that actually works.(similar to a tweet by Will Ferrell)

Comment by Grinning Cat on November 1, 2014 at 12:07am

I hope you all had a happy Hallo­ween! Tomorrow Today (Nov. 1st) is also some­thing to cele­brate: All S Half-Price Chocolate Day! (For those who do Facebook, there's a Facebook page.)

About DST, I found this article at National Geographic interesting: "Time to Move On? The Case Against Daylight Saving Time". Air conditioning, and energy used during darker mornings, end up making DST waste energy. And that's not all...

Part of the story that is often ignored... is the energy required to get people from place to place—gasoline. In fact the petroleum and automobile industries have always been huge supporters of DST....

"When you give Americans more light at the end of the day, they really do want to get out of the house. And they go to ballparks, or to the mall and other places, but they don't walk there. Daylight saving reliably increases the amount of driving that Americans do, and gasoline consumption tracks up with daylight saving."

They also mentioned the golf and barbecue industry among others that have been huge supporters; and write about possible health effects of disturbing our circadian rhythms.

DST has been credited and blamed for all kinds of things, from rational to wacko: "Daylight saving has been ... blamed for ... browning out lawns unaccustomed to so much sunshine. As you can imagine, the Congressional Record on daylight saving constitutes the great comic novel of the 20th century."

Comment by Ian Mason on October 31, 2014 at 12:33pm

Thanks, Carl. haven't seen that in years.

Happy Hallowe'en all. Hope the Great Pumkin brings you something.

Comment by Randall Smith on October 31, 2014 at 7:46am

Carl, that animation is still clever after all these (those?) years.

Enjoyed all the DST comments/explanations. Indiana was with Arizona up until about 8 years ago. Boo hiss.

Comment by Plinius on October 31, 2014 at 3:24am

Thanks Carl! Must have been fifty years ago that I saw the Silly Symphony! Happy Halloween, all of you!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 31, 2014 at 1:19am

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 30, 2014 at 8:45pm

During the summer, when staying in the garden all day, I have marks on one of the boxes to indicate the daytime hours. I get so I can look at the shadows cast by a stick stuck in the ground, or look at shadows of the chairs and I can pretty well tell the time. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 30, 2014 at 8:41pm

My memory of daylight saving time comes from being a child during WW II. It was claimed to save energy for production of goods and services, that day light was needed to reduce the use of alternative light sources. 

"The energy saving benefits of Summer Time were recognized during World War II,"

Rationale and original idea

Of course, I am not meeting any schedule these days ... one of th benefits of retirement. However, since my retirement, I wake up with the sun and go to bed with the sun. It works for me just fine. No involvement with the clock at all. 

Let us remember that time is also a construct of man's mind. It is all relative to the seasons. Having GMT sets a standard for all to follow.  

When I lived in Alaska for two years, we had two hours of daylight in the winter and two hours of night in the summer. Living in southern Texas was quite different, but I can't remember if it caused me any distress or not. I think not. Some people had to put window covers to prevent daylight in summer. I didn't have a problem, but then, I didn't have to be any where on time.

Comment by Plinius on October 30, 2014 at 4:24pm

It always takes a week or so to get adjusted - I wonder who profits from DST?

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 30, 2014 at 3:59pm

I'm a very early morning person, and I hate Daylight "Savings" Time.


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