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Comment by sk8eycat on November 29, 2014 at 10:19am

Found Plinius/Pliny (I think)

Pliny the Younger or Gaius Plinius Caecilius Secundus (62-c.115): Roman senator, nephew of Pliny the Elder, governor of Bithynia-Pontus (109-111), author of a famous collection of letters.

http://www.livius.org/pi-pm/pliny/pliny_y.htm

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 29, 2014 at 10:09am

I wouldn't have thought any cat would be noisy.  

That reminds me of something a man said years ago.  I was renting a room from him & his wife.  He had a young daughter that should have been named stomper.  He asked her why she made so much noise walking.  He said, when Francis (me) walks through the house, I can't even hear him!

Comment by sk8eycat on November 29, 2014 at 10:07am

WHO was Plinius?  (Most Lunar features are named for somebody....)

Comment by sk8eycat on November 29, 2014 at 10:01am

I didn't name Pumpkin....but he's used to it after all these years.  He should have been named Stomper...or Thud.  He's the noisiest cat, when walkiing, I've ever known.

Comment by Plinius on November 29, 2014 at 8:54am

My red tabby was called Plinius....

Comment by Randall Smith on November 29, 2014 at 7:59am

I wonder if we all had cats by the name "Pumpkin"? We did. My daughter's cat is named "Shimmey" because they thought she was a him (or v.v.).

Comment by Plinius on November 29, 2014 at 2:35am

Thanks for the story! I didn't know that one.

Comment by sk8eycat on November 28, 2014 at 6:55pm

Our Fur-eeda is 6 years old...her original name was "Fred" because the Trimbles adopted her when she was so tiny that they couldn't tell whether she was male or female.  We've only had her for a year.

My baby boy Pumpkin will be 16 on January 1st.  He was brought to the Cat Hotel, along with his totally feral mother, and 2 littermates, at the beginning of 1999...before his eyes were open.

  We found homes for his mates, but the only place that would take SisterGirl (his mother) was the Best Friends Sanctuary in Utah.  I don't know if she's still alive...she was not even a year old when she had that litter. 

Several people wanted to adopt Pumpkin, but he was so rowdy (still is) that they all returned him to us, and he lived in luxury at the Hotel till it was closed by the city (long story) 3 years ago.  I always wanted him, but we had other cats at the time, and they all hated each other.  When the Cat Hotel was shut down, I went through a month of hell trying to locate him...finally found him in a cattery in Northern CA, and a friend drove up there, and brought him to me.

And now he's MINE! 

BUT it broke my heart when the Hotel was closed....a new owner took over after I could no longer handle the physical work, and let the place go downhill to the point that they had to get a haz-mat team to clean it up after the city closed it.  GROSS! 

It WAS a classy place for more than 10 years...Jay Leno, Loretta Swit, and other folks from the studios boarded their cats with us.

Comment by sk8eycat on November 28, 2014 at 4:37pm

That "Black Hole Cat" reminds me of one of the funniest punnish short stories ever written - Arthur C. Clarke's "Neutron Tide."

http://shaggy-dogs.briancombs.net/4776/neutron-tide

We have an all-black cat who is so chubby that she can't curl up like that....WE did not make her fat; she was that way when her former humans gave her to us.  It's funny to watch her run through the house with her "flaps" wobbling....but we love her. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 28, 2014 at 4:20pm

I've never seen a mammoth in a museum.  Only in pictures, and it's been so long since I've seen a picture of one.  I was a little boggled when I came-upon than picture.  If I hear of one like you have near me, I'll have to go see it.  Must be amazing.

 

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