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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 14, 2015 at 11:07am

Randy, I am sorry to learn of your father's death. You spoke fondly of him and I enjoyed when you told of visiting him. Just think of all the changes he saw in his lifetime! What a remarkable time to live. 

Born during that period after WW I, the Great Depression, WW II, conquered diseases, space flight, transplanted organs, and family planning, to name just a few. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 14, 2015 at 9:46am

Randy, I'm so sorry to hear about your family's loss.

Comment by Pat on September 14, 2015 at 8:45am

Randall, I'm sorry to hear about your loss. However, I am envious. I never had a good relationship with my father. And, when he died, it was no great loss to me. I've always envied the relationships of people like you and your dad. You are fortunate in that you have something I will never enjoy. Wonderful memories of him. 

Comment by Plinius on September 14, 2015 at 8:05am

Randall, I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm glad you were with him, but it's really a bad experience for you. 

Comment by Loren Miller on September 14, 2015 at 8:04am

Condolences, Randall.  It's bad enough to know it's coming, but to have it come on that fast has to be hard as hell.  Take care, bro.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 14, 2015 at 7:56am

Randall, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

Comment by Randall Smith on September 14, 2015 at 7:47am

Speaking of falling: I'm sad to report that my very own father took a spill on steps, broke his hip, hit his head, and died 10 hours later. This was just 2 days ago. He was 97. It was all so sudden and shocking. I was at his bedside when his blood pressure dropped off the chart. There was no hope trying to revive him.

So I lost my one and only father, a great man, someone I admired and loved very much. I knew his passing would come sooner or later, but it's still not easy, especially coming so unexpectedly. 

Comment by Plinius on September 13, 2015 at 5:41am

Are you all right, Ian? Have you got help? I hope you don't feel very bad.

Falling ----- yesterday I took Auntie for a short walk, I knew she fell over twice last month, but she was much more unbalanced and fragile than before. When I helped her step from the last kerb in front of the care home she fell again and I could do nothing to stop her. Luckily help was at hand and the damage wasn't serious, but she was sore and black and blue. I daren't risk another walk outside with her...  

Comment by Ian Mason on September 13, 2015 at 5:00am
Comment by Ian Mason on September 13, 2015 at 4:53am

Carl, I broke a leg falling in the bathroom. No audience but I did feel silly. It's great to hear that your transplant is a 'go'. Please keep us informed as far as possible. 

 

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