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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Thursday. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by Ian Mason on June 12, 2015 at 12:00pm

Joan, I love that expression ' garden of eat'n'. Are you planning on moving?

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 12, 2015 at 11:40am

I have great concerns about my grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Because of social changes taking place now, I feel a need to set examples for them that will increase their options as they face whatever comes. They do not know how to plant seeds and do the tasks necessary to be self-sufficient. They live in the country requiring skills of repairing things and they do very well at that. They don't know how to plant seeds and do the tasks necessary to grow and preserve food. If they learn those skills they will have options to increase their self-sufficiency. 

In many ways, I hate leaving my home and garden of 41 years. This patch of Earth exists in a very different way than it was all those years ago. 

In many ways, I anticipate the joy of creating a garden of eat'n for Laura and her family.  As I age I need more help, personally, than Cary can provide. My big old house is too much for me to maintain.

It is clear my life changes. I anticipate the Earth changes. So, the theme of this era, in my opinion, requires managing change. Change does not mean fear, it means opportunity. Surely the Eskimos' lives change with the loss of snow and ice. I wonder how they will meet that challenge. I wonder how we will meet our challenges. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 12, 2015 at 11:19am

Randy, thanks for the lead to  David Archibald, Twilight of Abundance.

I have not read it and intend to, as well as some of the other books listed. 
As to my reaction to "
a bleak future--food shortages, China controlling the world, energy problems, and many more. In fact, his subtitle is "why life in the 21st century will be nasty, brutish, and short". 

I agree that we face a very different world than we lived since the end of WW II. The growing prosperity of the middle class that followed that conflict and the present dismantling of laws that were put in place to protect workers create fundamental changes in our culture. The decline of labor unions, the growing gap of family wealth between rich and poor, the loss of the kind of education that trains people for skilled trades, the changing role of women worldwide, the growing trend toward laissez-faire capitalism, the role of religion in political life, the growing power of China and India all provide reasons to believe great changes take place already. 

Whether the Earth is warming or cooling is not something upon which I can make an informed decision. From what I have read so far my judgment says warming of the Earth exists. I could be wrong and I am not betting my future on one or the other. 

 

 

 David Archibald, Twilight of Abundance.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 12, 2015 at 10:31am
Hi, Randy!

I understand all the problems with walking. I'm not using a cane anymore but I need to really be careful and walk slowly. I still have a problem with balance and with my knees suddenly giving out if I don't concentrate on each step.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 12, 2015 at 9:49am

Grinning Cat, according to your post I, too, can have a bikini body!

Comment by Randall Smith on June 12, 2015 at 7:04am
Not much to report around these parts. It's been hot, but I like it. Evidently, there's not much else happening to others here on A/N--few comments.
Glad to hear from Carl. And good luck to Felaine with your new walker.
Comment by Plinius on June 12, 2015 at 3:28am

I never said to keep the bad news to yourself! And I begin to understand moving with difficulty a bit better now. I went to market just now - high winter shoes to ease the pain in my feet, careful not to lose my balance with that bad knee - and you can wait for someone behind your back talking about ´slow old hags´. Ha!

I'm glad your cats accompany you! Mine do that too, they seem to invite me to run with them.

Comment by sk8eycat on June 12, 2015 at 12:40am

You really want to know?  I'm trying to learn how to get around with a lightweight walker in a 75 year-old house with narrow doorways.... Without falling down.

And an elderly kitteh who likes to do figure-eights in front of me while I'm "practicing." 

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Comment by Plinius on June 12, 2015 at 12:06am

I like that!

How is everybody?

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 11, 2015 at 3:28pm

Good one, Carl!

Plinius, I love the bumper sticker that sexologist Jill McDevitt offers for sale:

HOW TO HAVE A BIKINI BODY: 1. Put a bikini on a body

 

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