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The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19, 2017. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Comment by kathy: ky on December 8, 2016 at 12:15am
Godless Heathen is my new (offensive) shirt. To be worn to the annual school Xmas assembly. I get a perverse pleasure in offending all the 'good christians' with their shirts from their churches on.
I fully expect to be questioned by the, oh so religious, principal :)
Which will open the door for me to question his religious bullshit in a public school during assemblies.
I'm so excited....!
Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 7, 2016 at 11:36pm

Daniel, I read King Leopold's Ghost based on your recommendation a few years ago.  It was fascinating for its history and tragic as a story.  It pains me that we still today have to fight against the same attitudes of oppression and disdain toward others.      

Comment by Plinius on December 7, 2016 at 11:28pm

Thanks for the links, Joan. I'm aware of what happened in Congo, and the Netherlands have their own shameful colonial history: the genocide in the Banda Islands, the slave trade, the Dutch murderous reaction on Indonesia's bid for freedom and much more.

They like to say that there's no racism here, but it's not true. You can see it every time a white person's unauthorized feelings of superiority are ruffled, every time a coloured person has an opinion whites don't like. White reactions are really shocking then. Most white people are not aware of their white privileges, because those are so invisible and comfortable that you'd never notice their existence...

Comment by kathy: ky on December 7, 2016 at 8:16pm
Thanks for posting that Daniel. I was checking on that a few days ago but it was a few minutes free trial. I found all kinds of stuff in that short amount of time.
Comment by Idaho Spud on December 7, 2016 at 6:00pm

Thanks Kathy.

Comment by kathy: ky on December 7, 2016 at 5:06pm
Spud, the first one isn't right but the rest are fine.
And you are correct. Pet's are expensive. The larger the animal the more expensive.
Comment by Joan Denoo on December 7, 2016 at 3:03pm

Chris, attitudes, beliefs, customs, traditions, and values do change over time but the history of the black face must be remembered. In Belgium, King Leopold, and his subjects, as well and the RCC supported slavery. I am not aware of the Belgian colonial history of Spain, but I keenly aware of the Belgian colonialism of the Congo. When we forget history, we accept the attitudes that created values that supported and encouraged black slavery. I don't remember if you were part of our group when we read the Congo history and how King Leopold benefited by the enslavement of black people. 

Read or watch  Joseph Conrad's Heart of Darkness

http://www.pagebypagebooks.com/Joseph_Conrad/Heart_of_Darkness/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6XpS8OYy7Ms

When I visited family members in Belgium, our host bragged about the ways they gained control over the Congolese people. There were several Denoo's who participated in the slaughter and enslavement. I heard about this history from a relative and read about it when I returned home. Only one of the obscenities was to cut off the hands of wives and children of men who did not return with enough rubber substance spread on their bodies and used to transport the resource for the Belgian colonialists. 

Daniel, I am not able to find your powerful review of the book. Are you able to find and share the review with us?   

I will send this page of photos:

Belgian Congo, women and children with hands cut off. 

If mothers and fathers continue to carry on the tradition of black faced participant in the Yule season, they should know the history, face the shame of the actions condoned by the people of Belgium, and express outrage, instead of giving excuses of this being a custom, tradition, or value of present celebrations. 

I have many contacts with Congolese black people with the last name Denoo. We seek to find the link, but so far, have failed. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 7, 2016 at 12:37pm

Thanks G Cat.

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 7, 2016 at 12:34pm

Thanks Ian.  Hope the interview goes well.

Comment by Grinning Cat on December 7, 2016 at 12:33pm

Kathy and Daniel, Ruth and I are still around. Life happens... :)

Spud, I see all your symbols except for the apple logo (both on a Windows 7 desktop computer and on an Android phone).

 

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