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The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris yesterday. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Jan 31. 15 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

Tags: Emmy, news, television, daughter, dad

Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

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Comment by sk8eycat on July 10, 2015 at 1:34am

In the 1980s, when both my parents were i need of emergency care, it was an entirely different group of paramedics....Vietnam vets, mostly...they were SO helpful and kind.  The 4 that tromped in today were borderline rude and chewed me out for wasting their time. Said "Take a taxi."  When I said I couldn't afford one, they said, "Don't you have any friends?" (Everyone I could depend on works during the day, or has moved out of California, or is worse off than I am physically.) 

They just went on and on, interrupting me when I tried to explain my situation (No car, neighbors have moved away, etc.).  Maybe I'll ask the veterinarians who just bought the house across the street.  This USED to be a real neighborhood, but it's now two blocks of strangers who don't talk to each other.  Or even speak the same language.

Oh, and the Armenian Avocado thieves are cruising our patio again, even though what's left on the tree are rotting. I hope they get sick..

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on July 9, 2015 at 9:51pm

You have to be dying for EMTs to take you to hospital now? I'm disgusted along with you, Felaine. Thanks for keeping us apprised. I've been on tenterhooks.

Sounds like an interesting book, Carl. Maybe you should advertise it here a month or so.

Ian, I'm happy that you're enjoying travel and visits. Thanks for sharing.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 9, 2015 at 8:08pm

Felaine, dear, if you sense your health is declining and is worrisome, by all means get to the emergency room by whatever way possible.  I don't wish to diminish the role of EMT's, but at hospital you'll actually be seen by a doctor and there are a lot more options available for running a myriad of tests to confirm or rule out different conditions.  I've spent a lot of time in the past year between five different hospitals and three emergency rooms.  The doctors were all very proactive concerning my health.  It's the reason why I'm able to be here today with my avatar smiling at you.

I also agree with Joan.  It's time to prioritize your own requirements over others.  You're worth it. 

Comment by sk8eycat on July 9, 2015 at 3:38pm

I called the EMTs, they came tromping in the house, took my BP and blood glucose, said I wasn't dying, and they couldn't take me to the ER.  So I'm still here, at home, disgusted and shaky.

I think I'll go back to bed.   .

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 9, 2015 at 2:47pm

Felaine, you put others' needs ahead of your own. Is it possible you are worth more than you think you are? Do you have any idea how much you mean to me and us on Athiest Nexus? If you need help, you call for help. There may be life-threatening emergency calls and let's hope the emergency people can transport you quickly and do all the other calls as well.

I am happy to learn that the nursing staff at the hospital treats you well, even if the physician's staff do not. 

Your messages are like Perils of Pauline, waiting anxiously for the next communication to learn that you have good care and feel satisfied with the people offering you services. Please keep us up to date until and unless you cannot. If I don't hear from you, my worry meter goes through the roof. 

Worry is a useless activity. Can't seem to help it. 

Comment by Ian Mason on July 9, 2015 at 2:11pm

Off travelling again tomorrow, a long weekend in England visiting the family. Back again late Tuesday.

Comment by Ian Mason on July 9, 2015 at 2:08pm

Returned today from Copenhagen. Spent a few hours with my daughter and son-in-law and then an evening at Tivoli enjoying Tony Bennett and Gaga. They were consumate professionals with real style and had a really good band behind them, so the show was a true delight.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zzl8zYz8JDs

Comment by Ian Mason on July 9, 2015 at 2:03pm

Felaine, I hope all goes well for you. My Father had terrible leg pains until he had a balloon down the artery on one side and a bypass on the other. He brightened up a lot afterwards. I'll be thinking of you.

Carl, it sounds like you might sympathise with St. Sebastian.

Comment by Randall Smith on July 9, 2015 at 8:57am

It appears you're keeping your sense of humor, Felaine, despite your situation. Thinking of you.

Comment by Plinius on July 9, 2015 at 3:58am

Holey Pin Cushion.

Succes,Sk8eycat!

 

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