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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Ian Mason on August 12, 2015 at 1:13pm

Welcome, Hex5,  to a great community. We're a bit sad at the moment as we've lost a dear friend. Things are usually a bit brighter with experiences and opinions going back and forth.

Joan, as an outsider, it seems absurd that the U.S. doesn't have a proper health service. That said, Europe is going your way with private treatment being a growth industry. NeoCon and NeoLib policies are the order of the day, even with the traditional Social Democrat/Socialist parties.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 12, 2015 at 12:33pm

Felaine, I am so sorry you died after all the pain you endured. My hope is that you found some comfort and relief in your last hours. You challenged me in the most delightful way and always sharpened my thinking. Your scathing insights, your stinging humor, your sharp wit delighted me even as it challenged me. 

I love you, dear friend, and miss you.

I make a commitment in your name to fight harder for universal health care. I will think of you as I compose every letter and make every appeal.  

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 12, 2015 at 10:19am

"A broken system that throws away our most experienced and knowledgeable citizens." Thanks for that view Pat.

Comment by Pat on August 12, 2015 at 9:57am

Carl, both a fitting tribute to Elaine, and a telling commentary on a broken system that throws away our most experienced and knowledgeable citizens. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 12, 2015 at 9:36am

Yes, Felaine very often spoke about wanting to die.  She had chronic pain and health issues that were never properly addressed.  And she had such a damn difficult financial situation that made her choose between getting medicine or having food.  I can't help but think that if we had a proper health care system in this country that had provided her with the opportunity to get care, she would have had a much better quality of life and might have thought very differently about wanting to "exit the building."  Her situation is a very sad commentary on our broken system and our policies, both financially and ethically.  

I admired her very much and have shed many tears over her death.  We all loved her caustic sense of humor and her brash personality.  Which is why the one time I actually spoke with her I was so completely surprised that she had the most sweet, charming and pleasant voice.  I'm privileged to have had the chance to know her.

Comment by Gerald Payne on August 12, 2015 at 7:53am

I shall most certainly miss Felaine and her caustic posts. She livened up any discussion she commented on.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 12, 2015 at 7:42am

Patricia emailed me about Felaine's death as well.  Thank you Carl, for going the extra mile to find out.

It sounds like help came too late.  It may be that some medical people were too callous.


It's very sad.  It was my privilege to know her and I shed many tears at the news.  However, If she was as miserable with life as she sometimes sounded, I'm glad she's out of her misery.  The same way I felt about my dad dying.

Comment by Randall Smith on August 12, 2015 at 7:16am

Yes, Patricia emailed me about the death of Felaine. I am stunned. What an ascerbic sense of humor. She had quite an amazing life. I felt priviledged to know her via A/N. I'll miss her presence.  Thanks, Carl, for reaching out to her.

Comment by Hex5 on August 12, 2015 at 2:03am
Im new here and relativly new to atheism. I was formerly a christian who could no longer suppress the out right intellectual insanity of my religion i went into theology and the more i studied the more illogical it became. Finally one day i read romans chapter 9 which pretty much said god saves who god wants to save and god dambes to hell everyone he wishes to and humans have no choice in the matter either your destined for heaven or hell and dont you dare question god. I thought well if god made me destined for hell and eternal torment and he was merciful wouldent he just not make me. Finally i came to the conclusion that god is unjust unfaire bias and maybe even evil and i wanted nothing to do with him. I do dare to question god i challenge his morals and find them lacking. Years later long story short inch by inch i found myself an atheist
Comment by Plinius on August 12, 2015 at 12:38am

Thanks Carl! We'll miss Felaine - I do hope her last days were easy.

Ian, I hope you'll get the preferred option! 

 

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