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White House Petition: Change National Motto Back to "E Pluribus, Unum"

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky Jan 22. 8 Replies

There is a petition being sponsored by whitehouse.gov to remove "in god we trust" as the national motto and replace it with the original: "E Pluribus, Unum" or "Out of Many, One."  As of this writing, there are around 11,000 signatures on it, with…Continue

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There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2015. 3 Replies

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coming out (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Atheist in FundyLand Dec 23, 2015. 6 Replies

Whether as atheist, agnostic, gay / Lesbian or whatever, the process of coming out has been a repeated topic of discussion here on Atheist Nexus and for good reason: it is at once a necessary yet potentially supremely painful process, depending on…Continue

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Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 23, 2015. 4 Replies

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Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith Dec 1, 2015. 1 Reply

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on November 10, 2014 at 12:34pm

Mindy, Charlie Girl is so pretty. How is she doing with the others at this point? 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 10, 2014 at 11:08am

Thanks Mindy for the update of no news. Just thinking of him nd hoping all is well. 

Not an important issue, but my "mother's nature" says no new is bad news ... they are laying in a ditch in an overturned car and suffering from the injuries, cold, wet and being alone. Here I am at my age, a great-grandmother, and still imagining the worst

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 10, 2014 at 10:08am

Felaine, thanks for that tip. 

Randy, Ya, I can go with cynic! Getting more so all the time. 

Has anyone heard from Carl. I have the usual mother's nature, no news is bad news. 

Comment by sk8eycat on November 10, 2014 at 9:40am

Randall....go to the Stash Tea web site; they have all sorts of loose teas....single varieties, and blends.  Plus tea ware, baked goods, and other accessories.

http://www.stashtea.com/

Comment by Randall Smith on November 10, 2014 at 7:10am

Joan, "shitty outlook on life"? Not you! Perhaps cynical, but not "shitty". Hope the tests, etc. turn out well.

As for tea, I prefer mine iced, mixing black and green loose tea leaves for steeping. Nowadays, it's difficult to find loose leaf tea. It's beer I never acquired a taste for.

Comment by sk8eycat on November 9, 2014 at 9:44pm

Ah, I didn't know what the test was for.  My mom had heart problems after she went through chemo and radiation, but in those days (1980s) the usual thing was just to fit her with a Holter monitor for a couple of days, and get the results from the tape.  I don't recall any dietary restrictions, but she and dad both stopped drinking coffee on their own when they started having medical problems....about the same time that "Mr. Coffee" machines hit the market. 

I never learned to like coffee....(backstage / Green Room coffee is dreadful!  So our family has always been major black tea and cocoa fans.  (And I HATE what the hyper conservatives have named themselves.)

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 9, 2014 at 8:41pm

I don't like tea, although I have lots of different flavors in my cupboard. I got out some grape juice that I processed from my Concord grapes and that will satisfy my taste buds. The thought of giving up coffee laced with chocolate is bothersome, but doable. I appreciate the suggestion, Felaine. I have nothing else to complain about. 

Thanks for the well wishes on the test. It is simply a routine check up for my heart. The procedure is not at all painful, just a little needle prick and nuclear energy surging through my body. I take a couple of hours nap and wake up for the test. Then to see my heart doctor. She will read the results. 

I will meet my new cardiologist for the first time tomorrow. I fully expect that my pacemaker will need to be updated, right on the time schedule they gave me those years ago. Laura is going with me.

I will ask my cardiologist for an ophtho-rectomy while she is at it so that I will not have such a shitty outlook on life. 

Comment by sk8eycat on November 9, 2014 at 8:21pm

Joan, Do you have any herbal tea in the back of a cupboard, or someplace?  I hate most herbal teas, and am not really fond of green or white tea, BUT Stash Meyer Lemon tea is good, no caffeine, and most white teas might as well be caffeine-free.  (They're also too bland for my taste.)

Mulled apple juice or cranberry juice...either one is good heated with whole cinnamon and cloves, or allspice....or are you only supposed to drink clear liquids? 

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 9, 2014 at 7:54pm

OH darn, I have to give up caffein until tomorrow afternoon!

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on November 9, 2014 at 1:39pm

Good luck with your test, Joan.

 

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