Hang With Friends

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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on October 6, 2014 at 9:57pm

Carl, this is very good news and gives you time for what needs to be done. Do you feel as you normally do, or do you have symptoms? How are your spirits holding up? You know how concerned I am about preventing depression, or catching it early if you begin to feel down. This all happened so fast, you had no time to get adjusted. In some ways that is good, Go in for a routine exam and find something that needs attention, NOW. It doesn't give you time to chew on the cud of worry and stress. So, you know what needs to be done; thankfully you have siblings willing to be donors. I hope they match you. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 6, 2014 at 9:19pm

Joan, thanks for asking about me.  I had two doctor appointments today and I have some positive news to report.  My kidneys are stable right now and I'm doing well.  I'm doing well enough that the doctor wants to hold off on a preparatory vein surgery that is required for dialysis.  In the meantime all the medical paperwork has finally been completed for myself and my brother and two sisters for a transplant operation.  Once blood work can be done, I will know if one of the them will be a blood match with me. Today's news widens the window of time for this, so hopefully a transplant operation can occur before dialysis is needed. 

And Joan, I have to agree with the others truly are an inspiration to all of us!

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 6, 2014 at 1:27pm

Mindy, not Mind! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 6, 2014 at 1:26pm

Thanks Spud! It is odd. For some reason you and Ruth's computer aren't totally compatible with mine. I am surely glad we have friends to third party our problem!

I guess I will just call for an interpreter the next time it happens. 

I did get a nice chuckle. Thanks Mind. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 6, 2014 at 1:01pm

Here's Mindy's picture Joan:

Comment by Ian Mason on October 6, 2014 at 12:03pm

Hello everyone. It seems that you are all having positive experiences. That's good to hear.

I've returned from a weekend in England. Spent a couple of hours at a niece's wedding party, which was nice. Got to see a lot of the family but had trouble talking to them as the music was too loud. Otherwise all eating, relaxing and tea. Very pleasant. My trouser button broke on the journey home, which says a lot.

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 6, 2014 at 11:05am

Mindy, your comment didn't come through that you sent an hour ago. It is probably some photo that will make me laugh. Or some information I don't want to miss. 

I want to read everything you write and for some reason you and Ruth have comments that don't to my Wall. I see your name, but no comment 

Comment by Plinius on October 6, 2014 at 11:01am

I'm glad it's so easy, Joan!

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 6, 2014 at 11:01am

Today is another beautiful day. I made great progress yesterday getting my garden ready to go to sleep. The vines seemed almost grateful to be cut off and put in the trash. I repaired some trellises that they grew on and they, too, are all ready for a new season. The growth that will be next spring's lilac blossom form nicely. The rhododendrons have huge buds forming as well. 

The lilac bushes have a new assault on their leaves so I gave them diatomaceous earth on the soil and leaves. It doesn't really matter about these leaves because they will be falling soon, but I want to start my defenses before next season.

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 6, 2014 at 10:53am

Chris, the replacement is no big deal, it requires anaesthesia and a procedure that is not at all painful. I don't even feel the electrode when it keeps my heart in rhythm. My primary physician asked last Friday if I can hear or feel it. I don't hear or feel anything, except grateful that I have had these extra years. 

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