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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 2:08am

Chris, I know how your aunt felt after such a fall. It does something to one's sense of vulnerability. I now walk with a cane or a walker. Larry built a handrail off the back porch because I wouldn't go down them. If I fell, I would land on concrete. Been there, done that!

Yes, 80 years old and a fall is quite different than being 50 and fall. Something happens to the psyche. I am so glad you are there for her. My family does not hover, however, they are there when I feel vulnerable. 

Comment by Plinius on May 31, 2015 at 1:00am

Thanks for the video, Ruth, I enjoyed it very much! And yes, it's it's a clear metaphore for life, as Joan says - but it wouldn't be so appealing in a less beautiful setting! 

A sign of returning health, Carl, when you start to feel jealous! Good! I'd love to go with Ian too, but no chance. We expect a detailed report, Ian!  

We'll visit Aunt today - a few days ago she fell and hurt her jaw and a few remaining teeth, but the worst is that it scared her very much. I took her to the dentist - she was so shaken up that she wouldn't do one step on her own and I had to hold her hand all the time. To be 80 years old and scared!

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 12:15am

Ruth, the video showing balance is a perfect metaphor for life and living. Take what one has, put it into balance with living. When the situation changes, rebalance one's life. 

Indeed, it is relaxing, watching the creation of balance, observing falling out of balance. Restore, Renew, Refresh with a new creation. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 30, 2015 at 11:48pm
Ian, as a flight attendant I can't believe I'm saying this, but I'm jealous of all your travels. You go to so many fantastic places and do a lot of fun activities. When I travel....it's all work. LOL
Comment by Ian Mason on May 30, 2015 at 10:10pm

Getting worked up about my trip to Dublin next month. First: The Who live - the main reason for going, but have now booked seats at the Abbey Theatre for two plays, an old Sean O'Casey and a new special commision. Starting off with a guided walking tour though. This should be fun.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 30, 2015 at 10:09pm

That's a fascinating video, Ruth. It makes me want to try.

"New normal" is something I missed the first time. A good expression that's worth remembering.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 30, 2015 at 6:46pm
Ruth, an interesting and beautiful video.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 30, 2015 at 6:34pm
Joan, I like your little phrase "new normal." I'll have to remember that as I age and my health and abilities change through out the coming years.
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 30, 2015 at 5:58pm

Thanks for your encouragement, all. Yes, the worst seems to be over.

Thanks for sharing your family's underbrush clearing day, Joan. It's wonderful to see the world through your eyes.

Here's a video of rock balancing by Michael Grab aka "Gravity Glue", that I found relaxing. I hope you all enjoy it too.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 30, 2015 at 10:25am

That sounds like a lovely day, Joan.

 

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