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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Optical Illusions

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This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

White House Petition: Change National Motto Back to "E Pluribus, Unum"

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky Jan 22. 8 Replies

There is a petition being sponsored by whitehouse.gov to remove "in god we trust" as the national motto and replace it with the original: "E Pluribus, Unum" or "Out of Many, One."  As of this writing, there are around 11,000 signatures on it, with…Continue

Tags: E Pluribus, Unum, in god we trust, petition

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2015. 3 Replies

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

coming out (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Atheist in FundyLand Dec 23, 2015. 6 Replies

Whether as atheist, agnostic, gay / Lesbian or whatever, the process of coming out has been a repeated topic of discussion here on Atheist Nexus and for good reason: it is at once a necessary yet potentially supremely painful process, depending on…Continue

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If God Exists (DarkMatter2525)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 23, 2015. 4 Replies

"Practice makes perfect."  That's the concept, isn't it?  Work diligently at something, especially something you enjoy and are adept at, and your skills sharpen, your judgment improves, and the product of your efforts demonstrate that improvement. …Continue

Tags: religion, YouTube, god, DarkMatter2525

Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith Dec 1, 2015. 1 Reply

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

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Comment by Joan Denoo on November 1, 2014 at 9:59pm

Felaine, thanks for the link. I hate to be such a bother and really appreciate that you are willing to help when I am out of the loop as far as links are concerned. 

Comment by sk8eycat on November 1, 2014 at 9:54pm
Comment by Joan Denoo on November 1, 2014 at 8:14pm

Felaine, I don't see any  "Halloween Leftover"

Comment by sk8eycat on November 1, 2014 at 7:53pm

Just got this "Halloween Leftover" from my favorite former skating partner...I howled with laughter

the ice bucket challenge can be deadly, watch out!

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 1, 2014 at 6:35pm

I know, the Golden Years aren't so golden for too many people. You stay so cheery on this site and bring so much joy and laughter, the kind that one feels in the belly. It is hard for me to imagine you being depressed. 

I am glad you have your fur-people, and have your project with the newsletter. 

Well, for whatever it is worth, I count you as a dear and trusted friend and hope you find ways to feel the joy that you want and need. I have to borrow from a piece my daughter sent this past week; this is just for you.

Comment by sk8eycat on November 1, 2014 at 5:53pm

Joan, if I didn't have two cats to support, I would take an overdose the next time I get my Rx refilled.  I don't really give a damn about my twisted sister....but the cats are another matter.

I have never wanted to live a long life...I did what I really wanted to do before I was 30.  All I am doing right now is surviving, and it isn't much fun...or even comfortable.

PS: Clinical depression runs in both sides of our family....both parents felt they had lived too long....dad had major strokes before he finally left the building at 82, and mother had operations, radiation, chemo, all in one year.  They cured her cancer, but the rest of her body slowly fell apart...for the next 9 years.  It was horrendous.  I don't want to do that.  But I can't abandon my fur-people....

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 1, 2014 at 5:39pm

Felaine, we have fire in our bellies, common sense in our brains, a lifetime of experience and know how outrageous this Boom and Bust economy is. We can work on campaigns, have the party put up yard signs, Offer a class in geriatrics at your local school, Do some awareness building with your neighborhood doctors and dentists, develop a reputation as a no-nonsense person. 

Some of my ideas will surely make matters worse, so into the trash bin they go. I know I am not going to do some of the things I did as a young woman on a mission. 

Comment by sk8eycat on November 1, 2014 at 5:11pm

Our closest neighbors are either older and more frail than we are, or have abandoned their houses (to move in with offspring, or into an assisted-living building) because they can't get a decent price for them....and this is a "good" neighborhood!  Elementary school one block up the hill, convenience stores and some doctors and dentists' offices one block down the hill....

BUT the resale value of our house has dropped from $700,000 to $550,000 in the past six or seven years, and all our neighbors are in a similar fix.. F*CK you so much, Mr. Bush!

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 1, 2014 at 5:08pm

Mindy, I forgot to mention what a great idea to get your house all ready for the retirement years. New counter tops! That must bring some cheer as you go about your chores. 

I wonder if someone can get a message to A/N if they wanted to send us information? Do they have to be a member to have access to our group? 

Mindy, thank you so much for telling me that I don't come across as bad-news-only. I want everyone to know what I have learned and that is not available in the commercial news sources. I check my sources every morning, first thing. And then start corresponding. 

Comment by sk8eycat on November 1, 2014 at 5:03pm

I just checked the phone, and it's working now, but it feels like another storm is on the way.  Bog know we need the rain, but I think I need to do something about contacting the police or fire dept if we ever need to.  WITHOUT BUYING A DAMNED CELL PHONE! 

(I worked in the accounting office of a retail electronics store when cell phones were just becoming smaller and slightly lighter than a brick...the Motorola Flip Phone was the first one....and I swore 'd never buy one. I still find cell/text phone users annoying; they seem to live in a different world.  One that they are the center of.)

 

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