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The End of the World ... Again?!?

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by The Flying Atheist yesterday. 11 Replies

Uh, guys and gals?  Hate to tell you, but the world ended the other day.  And the hell of it is, I MISSED IT!  Yeah, too busy with other stuff, mowing the lawn, enjoying the company of my wife, and taking care of puddy-cats, and I just MISSED it!One…Continue

Tags: AronRa, prophecy, end of the world

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner yesterday. 2 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

Sam Harris The Case Against Christianity

Started by dudaboli yev. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 30. 1 Reply

Sam Harris The Case Against Christianity Sam Harris offers his case against the Christian god conceptSamuel Benjamin "Sam" Harris is an American author, neuroscientist, philosopher, the co-founder and chief executive of Project Reason, a non-profit…Continue

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by amer chohan Sep 2. 13 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

An AN member passed away

Started by Deidre. Last reply by Deidre Aug 18. 4 Replies

Went into the chat room last Friday night, for the first time in a while, and learned that Mequa passed away. I had been good friends with him for a time, but we had differences and stopped talking back in the spring of this year. I knew however,…Continue

A Parable by Mrs. Betty Bowers

Started by Loren Miller Aug 17. 0 Replies

Betty Bowers is becoming SO GOOD at delivering as America's Best Christian, she now does 30-second parables!  (Okay, 32 seconds!  Picky, picky!) Have You Had YOUR Betty Today?Continue

Tags: bible, parable, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 11, 2014 at 1:46pm

Carl, I hope your upswing continues!

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 11, 2014 at 1:45pm

The Sam Harris quote is what I wish everyone would take to heart. I remember Bill Maher got into big trouble for saying they weren't cowards.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 11, 2014 at 1:42pm

It's hard to believe that thirteen years have already passed since the attack of September 11, 2001.  So much has changed since then.  It seems like lifetimes ago but at the same time, for me, the horrible events and raw emotions from that day still linger and can bring me to tears.  I didn't know anyone personally who died on that day, but it was my co-workers from my company who were the first to be murdered on 9/11.  Flight attendants had their throats slashed so that the hijackers could gain access to the flight deck.  There hasn't been one singe day in the past thirteen years that I haven't thought about what happened that day.  It totally changed my life and my career. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 11, 2014 at 1:37pm

I like that quote Ian.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 11, 2014 at 1:32pm

Ian, actually I haven't started dialysis yet.  I don't know when it will start but right now I'm stable enough to hold off.  In fact, this past week I seem to be in a period of having an upswing of energy whereas before I was constantly tired and lethargic.  I just had some blood drawn yesterday and will know the results this coming Monday.  I've been told there will be periods of ebb and flow regarding my kidney function.   

Comment by Ian Mason on September 11, 2014 at 1:24pm

Comment by Ian Mason on September 11, 2014 at 1:23pm

Carl, I'm getting sceptical about doctors. I think research has outstripped them to the extent that even the best (and they're not all good) can't keep up. Second opinions will have to be more commonplace in the future so a second doc. has a chance to spot what the first one didn't think of. 

How are you feeling just now and how far are you in the dialysis process? 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 11, 2014 at 1:07pm

Joan, I tend to be a "glass half full" type of person.  I have a very positive outlook in life.  That being said, I am also a realist and fully know the seriousness of my condition and the importance of carefully following medical advice.  Having a positive attitude is important but also knowing that Pollyanna thinking and denial is harmful both physically and mentally.  All I can do is to realistically take one day at a time and to meet each challenge with logical thinking and actions.  To me, the biggest peace of mind comes from knowing what is real and acting accordingly.  I also know I have a wonderful network of family and friends to rely on.     

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 11, 2014 at 12:32pm

As a tree develops with many twists and turns, so does life. Find the balance in each part of life, and make it a thing of beauty. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 11, 2014 at 12:26pm

Use the reality of what is to find a new balance in living. 



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