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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

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Comment by Plinius on September 11, 2015 at 1:50am

Stupid me! I have been back on a strict diet for health and weight loss for some five months now: the doctor who treats my worn knees told me again about the importance of weight loss. And it took me all that time to realize that the injections they gave me PREVENT weight loss.... oh well, I can walk better and with less pain.

Comment by Ian Mason on September 10, 2015 at 9:16pm

There's always time for books, Ruth.

I understand your worries for the future and share them. The problems in this part of the world will probably be different but the root cause is the same.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 10, 2015 at 3:55pm

Glad that works out for you at the library, Idaho spud.

When will you have time for all of those DVDs, CDs and books, Ian?

I'm being lazy today. It's raining. Not an excuse for skipping the gym.

Did you guys see the news about the flooding in Japan (including groundwater around the reactor flooding into the ocean)?

I've been a bit depressed about future drought projections for the Americas.

Worried About Refugees? Just Wait Until We Dust-Bowlify Mexico And ...

... here is what a 2015 NASA study projected the normal climate of North America will look like. The darkest areas have soil moisture comparable to that seen during the 1930s Dust Bowl.

Even though I'll be long dead, this is such a depressing prospect. I keep imagining all of the Americas' population trying to squeeze into ... damn there's nothing left is there? The drought goes right up to the Arctic.

Comment by Ian Mason on September 10, 2015 at 8:20am

Back again after a few days in England. Nice to see the family. It was my sister-in-law's 50th birthday too.

I went wild in the charity shops and bought over 20 books plus a few DVDs and CDs. Should see me through the winter.

How are you all? When not lugging computers to and from the library, that is :-D

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 9, 2015 at 12:17pm

Thanks Kathy.  Since I found-out the library has internet service that can be accessed outside the building (maybe even several blocks away, I keep hoping the city will get with it and make the internet available everywhere in the city.  I've heard that some cities do.

I like your stories of demanding decent prices and winning.

Comment by k.h. ky on September 9, 2015 at 12:08pm
Complain away Spud. Unfortunately many of us are in the position of not having reliable or affordable internet service. I think it's in the 90% range.
But, since we can't get reliable Internet service we can't really complain about it now can we?
Comment by Idaho Spud on September 9, 2015 at 10:58am

Thanks Bertold.  I did put a thumb drive in my pocket, and will try it when I find something I want to print.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 9, 2015 at 10:54am

Spud - Glad your setup is working out. You could always just use a thumb drive to print anything you need off one of the library computers.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 9, 2015 at 10:27am

Never been to Craigs's list Ruth.  I'll check it out.  I

'm at the library again on my iMAC, and it's working fine.  Carrying this big 20 pound computer in wasn't as hard as I thought.  Just put it it a large strong Home Depot bag.  Now to find a place with a comfortable chair by a desk that doesn't have sunlight on the computer and this will be much better than the library's computers. 

I can now read so much better on this large screen, and I can save things on the computer.  I don't yet know if I can print things like I can on the library's computers.  I can't at home because since upgrading my operating system, it won't recognize my printer, and I can't find a driver that will work. 

OK, I think I'm through complaining (for the time being).

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 8, 2015 at 6:17pm

You could try looking for an inexpensive laptop on Craig's list, Idaho Spud. People upgrade and sell their old one.


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