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The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris yesterday. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Jan 31. 15 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

Tags: Emmy, news, television, daughter, dad

Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

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Comment by Gerald Payne on June 22, 2015 at 5:38pm

Is that because we don't get many sharks on the road GC?

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 22, 2015 at 5:25pm

Or perhaps the beaker is twice as big as it needs to be. :-)

I don't have your education, Joan, but do appreciate the power of framing! For example, at the senior center where a local community group holds contra dances, a poster offered free workshops with one-on-one help to "Update your computer skills". (It listed a wide range of areas, along the lines of email, web, Facebook, smart­phones, and ebook readers). That title caught my attention as a way to invite people at any level of familiarity and expertise, even if someone's never had a computer or never used email before. It did not mention "beginners" or "seniors", no implication of "we'll help you geezers join the 21st century."

Another example: if you're trying to reassure someone that shark attacks are astoundingly rare, and not something to be afraid of, saying that you're 3 1/3 times more likely to drown than to be attacked by a shark is small comfort if it evokes fear of drowning. But we generally aren't afraid of deer, and don't worry about deer accidents. Yet you're 300 times more likely to be killed by a deer (if your car hits it) than by a shark.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 22, 2015 at 3:24pm

We have an eight-ounce beaker with four ounces of water in it.

Is the glass half full or half empty? 

Yes, the way we use language makes a big difference on how we experience life, does it not?!

Do you remember in college learning about neuro-linguistic programming? It was part of my training in education, to phrase my comments in positive frames. 

So, Summer Solstice means the beginning of summer and the days starting to get shorter. My neuro-linguistic programming didn't work for me with that thought. If I had depression it was on the day that began to get shorter. I didn't have depression on the shortest day of the year, I knew spring was on the way. So much for fancy words and ideas. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 22, 2015 at 3:16pm

Randy, I took what information you supplied: 

"'15 Toyota truck," "pyrite mica".

 

I Googled these words and came up with some leads. I chose "Images" and received a page of photos of '15 Toyota trucks, pyrite mica. 

I did a "Control + Click" and a drop down menu appeared. 

I chose "Copy Image URL". 

I pasted it into the photo box at the top of the Comment. 

As if by magic, it appeared in my comment. 

I am using Google Chrome with a MadBook Pro, if that makes any difference. 

'15

Comment by Randall Smith on June 22, 2015 at 7:28am

Upon reflection, I thought my "days will be getter shorter" statement of the solstice was a "glass half empty" view. I should be more upbeat. Or is it the other way around (half full)? I never did figure that one out!

Joan, yes, that's the color of my new truck! Nice work. Wish I could learn to do that.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 21, 2015 at 7:32pm

Felaine, that is a beautiful picture for Summer Solstice. Thanks!

Comment by sk8eycat on June 21, 2015 at 7:15pm

Comment by Ian Mason on June 21, 2015 at 1:15pm

Happy Father's Day and Solstice one and all.

Had a senior moment today that's becoming a habit. Go to supermarket, take goods to check-out, pay and then leave one or two items behind. To be fair, my mind was on other things and I had been at work all night but this never used to happen.

I'm packed and ready (I hope) to leave for Dublin very early tomorrow. Nice :-) Return late on Saturday/early Sunday having enjoyed the cultural highspots. Be good and stay safe.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 21, 2015 at 12:33pm

Randy, if this is the color of your new truck, I like it very much. Will it be easier to keep looking clean than the red? 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 21, 2015 at 12:24pm

No Surprise here. "I side with.com" I am "strongly left wing", more liberal than other Spokane voters. 

I side with Democrats, then Green Party, then Socialist. 

I side with Green Party on Social and Domestic issues, with Democrats on all others. 

I vote more in line with Washington State Congressional District 7, which is part of Seattle, Vashon Island, Edmonds area. 

Oh Oh! I live in a conservative city in a conservative state, with a conservative family and moving to a more conservative town. Not only am I more liberal, I am more anti-religion than the place where I am moving. I will have my work cut out for me. Actually, No! I have been able to ask questions of my family and their friends and not get blown away, literally. It is the young hot heads that give me a pause. 

 

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