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the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Ian Mason on November 11, 2016 at 11:32pm

Quietly subversive, Joan. That is probably the way forward for the next few years. 

Ruth, the news here is that some of the leading politicians in the EU are going to have a word or two with "Mr. Trump" about how things work. It's a bit unnerving to think that he worries the conservatives in other countries.

There's a minor deity named "Anoia" who's the godess of things that get stuck in draws: I wonder if she has a relative who influences computers?

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 11, 2016 at 11:13pm

Sorry I've been absent. Got discouraged when replies I tried to post evaporated, sometimes because of a wrong keystroke on my part. Funny how that usually happens when a half hour's work is all ready for posting.

Frankly I'm in a funk, struggling to reorient myself and make sense of the world order. That election seemed to be a tipping point into my worst nightmare on so many levels.

I get requests for donations from The Southern Poverty Law Center, Nature Conservancy, and a gazillion other progressive organizations with 100% obsolete approaches. They pretend our representatives and senators will act on polite petitions which counter the interests of the corporate interests to whom they belong. They pretend we didn't just put a Neo-Nazi into power, dedicated to destroying renewable energy and all social progress since 1900. Bill McKibben still expects the Standing Rock protest will somehow succeed. It's as the left now inhabits a fact free bubble. I spend time reading opinions at Altenet, leaders I respect, etc. No coherent response has yet coalesced, from what I can tell. Yes we must organize better, resist. It's all wishy-washy.

Other news is bad for the climate, not only that the election will at least accelerate 1°C additional rise by 2100. Also we just learned that climate sensitivity is nonlinear. This video is dumbed down, the source article, Nonlinear climate sensitivity and its implications for future green..., is quite technical. It kind of says we could have 7°C rise by 2100, but Robert Scribbler thinks it only predicts 5°C rise. There's a wide margin of error, but the bottom line is (during the last 8 glacial cycles) climate sensitivity  got stronger when the planet warmed. And since it only takes 4°C rise to destroy civilization, 5°C rise in the next 85 years is horrific.

It's as if - within a few days -  the entire world shifted gears, the break pedal stopped working all together, and the steering wheel is shaking so much it'll wrench off as soon as 2017 begins.

This must be worse than what people in Germany went through in the first days after Hitler won, because it's not just world war and genocide at stake. It's the first downhill bump in the existential crisis rollercoaster.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 11, 2016 at 2:02pm

Oligarchs, get ready for the onslot; The dispossessed of the world, the hungry ones around the globe, the thirsty ones from high and low altitudes, could form a coalition of gigantic proportion and overcome the corrupt local, state and national governments, the one percenters, the corporations, not by violent means, but by nonviolent ones. 

Food: People, young and old, can grow their own food; 

Housing: People can build their own shelters; 

Education: Parents, Grandparents, teachers can teach;

Health care: Folk Medicine offers some viable options; 

Transportation: Walking may become an option; 

Work: Tasks performed to create goods and services closer to homes;

Governance: Smaller unites of neighborhoods, town, cities, grow;

Insurance: Neighbor helping neighbor. 

If we want to have any control over our lives, we have to make some basic changes in how we live, work, and play. Downsizing, learning new skills, taking the strings away from puppet-masters and take back control. 

I think the first thing we need to do is stop paying taxes, i.e The Trump Taxes Model; fill the prisons with tax evaders. There could be an assemblage of bright minds and strong backs to resist the TrumpTrends. 

Comment by Loren Miller on November 11, 2016 at 1:54pm

Wow, Ian!  This is a new quote to me and a damned good one at that.  Thank you for posting!

Comment by Ian Mason on November 11, 2016 at 1:48pm

Comment by Ian Mason on November 11, 2016 at 1:47pm

Joan, I have no idea how the native populations (or remnants thereof) are surviving in the U.S. The public image, such as it is seems to be a mixture of drink and casinos. It's painful to read your account of such inhumanity and degredation. I hope things improve soon.

Yes, joy can be cultivated inside and like a garden needs regular tending. That's something you're good at. You're also good at inspiring the rest of us to do the same. You must have been a great teacher.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 11, 2016 at 1:47pm

and drought. The desertification of the Earth appears before our eyes. 

Comment by Ian Mason on November 11, 2016 at 1:39pm

Daniel, you may be right. The current migration is a bit of an unknown quantity because headlines beat comparative statistics in the public consciousness, so I don't know if more people are on the move. Those that do move are driven by two things: poverty and war.

First: imagine how a family father feels when all of them work long hours in a death-trap of a shirt factory in Bangladesh and still can't afford schools and doctors. "To Hell with this, I'm going to where they wear the shirts" would be a reasonable reaction. Migration that's driven this way by poverty is not based on a wish to intergrate in a new homeland, it's basic survival instinct.

Second: the current situation in Syria is causing havoc. For the first three years there was a considerable UN relief effort in neighbouring countries but a couple of years ago donor nations cut their contributions. The result was that food rations to women and children in the refugee camps was reduced to 50% and men recieved nothing. Again, a recipe for trouble. People do whatever they need to to survive.

Short-sighted and exploitative policies by Western governments blow up with a bang. Of course, said governments do well out of it by playing "blame the foreigners" all the way to the polling stations.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 11, 2016 at 1:29pm

Ian, A great song and performer!"

Island, in the sun, willed to me by my father's hand."

Atheist Nexus feels like an island to me, willed to me by those who have a vision of life without superstition or myths.


Comment by Ian Mason on November 11, 2016 at 1:21pm

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