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The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris on Sunday. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

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Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Jan 31. 15 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

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Comment by sk8eycat on June 7, 2015 at 11:17am

I just think it's ironic that in the early 1980s everyone was in an uproar about "Nuclear Winter."  Which IS it, folks?  (Although the fall-out from thermonuclear war would make earth uninhabitable for every living thing....except cockroaches.  They'll outlive us all.)

Comment by Randall Smith on June 7, 2015 at 7:23am

Joan, your first sentence may NOT be true. I just read a book by a climate researcher, David Archibald, Twilight of Abundance.  With statistics (true or not?) as evidence, the earth's temperatures have not risen in the past 20 or so years. In "fact", he claims the earth is cooling, not warming. We're being duped.

And after reading so much lately about all the wrong things we've been told about foods and diets (eating  "healthy whole grains", eating fat makes you fat, etc.), it makes one wonder if he not right. His argument is certainly compelling.

With his premise that the earth is cooling, the bulk of the book is about a bleak future--food shortages, China controlling the world, energy problems, and many more. In fact, his subtitle is "why life in the 21st century will be nasty, brutish, and short." Quite the scenario.

I suppose the older I get, the more skeptical and cynical I become, especially when it comes to believing everything I'm told. I'd be interested in your take (Joan) on the book. It has me looking more closely at the information I'm being fed.

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 6, 2015 at 4:07pm

Climate change is real. We may want to deny that fact; however, the evidence appears all around us. We are not helpless in this fight to raise awareness of the reality nor are we helpless if the next phase is violent storms. There are things we can do to endure whatever is ahead. Humans are adaptable and make adjustments beyond our imagining. 

Watching films of people living north of the Arctic Circle, of the things they learned how to do in face of constant ice and snow is a lesson in adaptability. They survived! The films of the people living in the most parched places of the planet and how they found food and liquid enough to survive is a testimony to the survival drive of Homo sapiens. 

I am positive the changes will be difficult. New skills need to be developed, new awareness of symptoms of different kinds of problems will emerge. I am already seeing differences in the need for water and then protection as the hot and cold waves sweep through. 

I planted hundreds of seeds in the Newport garden and most of them died from the cold and wet soil. Radishes came up, but then they come up even when I don't plant them. Radishes have some mysterious quality to makes them endure. Maybe goddidit!

Imagine the people when the last Ice Age began! They had to adjust. Imagine the people of the Great Plains when the drought hit. They had to adjust. 

Imagine the people of the pueblos when that drought came. They had to adjust. 

Imagine the people of the Great Plains when the drought hit. They had to adjust. 

We will have to adjust and we can do one hell of a good job at doing it. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 6, 2015 at 3:47pm

Carl, your cartoon is right on target. That is the way I looked when I was decorated by the Newport Hospital technical staff. Tubes, monitors, regulators, and 3:00 AM "vitals check" as I am sure you endured. It is quite a science to keep people alive. I especially appreciate all the people who insert and install and monitor all those needles, probes and instruments into every orifice and vein that seems to disappear when the needle approaches. The nurses laughed, at my veins ... "Now you see them; now you don't!"
It is quite a science to keep people alive. I especially appreciate all the people who insert and install and monitor all those needles, probes and instruments into every orifice and vein that seems to disappear when the needle approaches. The nurses laughed, at my veins ... "Now you see them; now you don't!" I especially appreciate all the people who insert and install and monitor all those needles, probes and instruments into every orifice and vein that seems to disappear when the needle approaches. The nurses laughed at my veins ... "Now you see them; now you don't!"

I especially appreciate all the people who insert and install and monitor all those needles, probes and instruments into every orifice and vein that seems to disappear when the needle approaches. The nurses laughed at my veins ... "Now you see them; now you don't!"

I must confess, not one of those needle jabs hurt! The needles are so small and sharp, and the technicians so well trained, it was a pleasure breathing the needles into my body and watching the chemicals or blood going where the technician wanted them to go. 

 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 6, 2015 at 1:24pm

Comment by Plinius on June 6, 2015 at 1:19am

I often wonder how you keep it up Ruth, thinking about the climate all the time. I'm very concerned about the climate, but I take it in small doses so I don't get overwhelmed. Household recycling etc. are routines, and I feel a coward for feeling good about not having children. I'm still responsible for what happens to the other children and the animals.

I'm glad your husband is getting better. Much easier for you too! 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on June 5, 2015 at 10:08pm

Thanks for the info on Queen Maxima.

As for "I do wonder, if there was a white male Democratic president at this time, if the Republicans would be more willing to work together amongst themselves and with the Democrats." I don't give the Republicans that much credit. These anti-government now-nothing puppets of Wall Street and Fossil Fuel interests may be held together by racist glue, but they'd still go full throttle against a Caucasian male president. Remember how they acted toward the Clintons?

I'm anxious, still in the process of emotionally digesting some climate news.

On the bright side, my husband can drive again and is off warfarin.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on June 5, 2015 at 8:34am

I have to amend that. He actually said Every good Christian [oxymoron, I know] ought to kick Falwell right in the [whatever].

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on June 5, 2015 at 7:13am

@Sk8eycat: Barry Goldwater once commented that someone ought to give Jerry Falwell a kick in the ass. Supposedly the real comment referred to Falwell's gonads, but the media cleaned it up for prime time. 

Comment by Plinius on June 5, 2015 at 1:16am

Thanks Carl. Maxima is really continuing the power-dressing style her mother-in-law started. Beatrix always wears enormous GET-OUT-OF-MY-WAY hats 

 

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