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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Optical Illusions

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jan 31. 66 Replies

This one seems a bit creepy, like the middle one shouldn't be able to change rotation like that. from Cheezburger.comContinue

White House Petition: Change National Motto Back to "E Pluribus, Unum"

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky Jan 22. 8 Replies

There is a petition being sponsored by whitehouse.gov to remove "in god we trust" as the national motto and replace it with the original: "E Pluribus, Unum" or "Out of Many, One."  As of this writing, there are around 11,000 signatures on it, with…Continue

Tags: E Pluribus, Unum, in god we trust, petition

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2015. 3 Replies

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

coming out (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Atheist in FundyLand Dec 23, 2015. 6 Replies

Whether as atheist, agnostic, gay / Lesbian or whatever, the process of coming out has been a repeated topic of discussion here on Atheist Nexus and for good reason: it is at once a necessary yet potentially supremely painful process, depending on…Continue

Tags: Lesbian, agnostic, gay, atheist, TheraminTrees

If God Exists (DarkMatter2525)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 23, 2015. 4 Replies

"Practice makes perfect."  That's the concept, isn't it?  Work diligently at something, especially something you enjoy and are adept at, and your skills sharpen, your judgment improves, and the product of your efforts demonstrate that improvement. …Continue

Tags: religion, YouTube, god, DarkMatter2525

Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith Dec 1, 2015. 1 Reply

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

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Comment by Joan Denoo on October 20, 2014 at 3:19pm

Thanks for the lead to Barbara Ehrenreich nee book, Living with a wild God. she is so insightful and helped women understand how the patriarchal system works against women.   

Thanks to all with the nice comments about my writing. It helps me get clarity in my own thinking. I hope it clarified others. Even if I am "biased". 

Randy, we are a nice group of feminist women and men in this group. I value the comments of all, even the ones that seem to not "get it" yet. Well, they are learning not to mess with fine, critical thinking women.

Comment by sk8eycat on October 20, 2014 at 3:01pm

Something I found after reading a review of "Wild God" on Slate:

http://www.slate.com/blogs/behold/2014/10/17/michael_light_photogra...

The history of the American Southwest is about water, and Nevada is using its reserves faster than they can be replaced....

Comment by Ian Mason on October 20, 2014 at 1:54pm
Comment by Ian Mason on October 20, 2014 at 1:50pm

Love the Frog Prince, Carl and the extortion, Mindy.

Will look out for that book, Randall. I read "Brightsided" last year and really enjoyed it.

Had a great afternoon with my daughter yesterday. Lunch, tea and cake followed by a wander round a car-boot sale and 2 art exhibitions, one of which was called "Fools". There was a section where you could be your own fool and I just had to join in.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 20, 2014 at 11:00am

Yes, that's a good one, MIndy!

Good morning all.  :)

Comment by Loren Miller on October 20, 2014 at 9:29am

Oh, THAT one is PREMIUM, Mindy!

Comment by Plinius on October 20, 2014 at 9:03am

Thanks Randall! It looks good, judging from internetreviews, but tomorrow I'll go to Rotterdam to find it in the library.

Comment by Randall Smith on October 20, 2014 at 7:20am

Just completed Barbara Ehrenreich's new book, Living with a Wild God, "a nonbeliever's search for the truth about everything". I would especially recommend it to the Joans, Ruths, Felaines, Mindys, Chris', etc. among Hang With Friends participants. Men aren't forbidden to read it, however. I found it in my library. 

Comment by sk8eycat on October 19, 2014 at 5:52pm

I forgot to mention that the "Rainbow Bridge" is borrowed/plagiarized from Norse mythology. I wonder how many people who send those cards know that.

Comment by sk8eycat on October 19, 2014 at 5:43pm

Bertold, those damn sympathy cards always make me feel terrible, and usually make me cry because I KNOW there  is no life after this one, and I will not be reunited with anyone...human or feline....or all the wonderful BIG dogs I used to "baby-sit" when I was still able.

When someone I know suffers a death in their family, I usually send a single flower in a bud vase....when I can afford to send anything at all.

I do wish I could still house-and-pet-sit....I could sure use the $$$, and it would get me away from the JW in my own house for a while, but I can't even see well enough to drive anymore, so I'm stuck. 

I do have my Pumpkin-cat, but he's almost 16, and sleeps a lot nowadays.  The Black Blimp has adopted my JW/Aspie sister, which takes her attention off my atheist self.  Tee-hee!

 

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