Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Idaho Spud on September 13, 2014 at 1:13pm

Regrettably, I'm like Lucy also.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 13, 2014 at 12:46pm

Mindy, sorry your daughter's depressed, but good to hear the support she has.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 13, 2014 at 12:37pm

Mindy, I am so very glad that our daughter has you and your family as back-up. She needs that and you provide just the right amount of support and letting go. A tough balancing problem. Her cat, her art classes, her expanding friends, all are positive things. 

Now, that means you need to take good care of yourself. The caregivers often don't realize how important their emotional health is to assist another. 

Depression is a real challenge. You seem on top of all the clues and remedies. Good job! 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 13, 2014 at 11:51am

Mindy, I have had what's called "clinical depression" off and on since I was 13.  I am now creeping up on 75, not exactly happy about my life, but I'm still here. With TWO cats.

I'm thinking encouraging thoughts for your daughter...things do get better, especially when you have interests in things outside your own self, and people to go to when the world gets to be too much. And it often does...but she has YOU.  That is fabulous.

Comment by Ian Mason on September 13, 2014 at 11:37am

Ah, good old faithful depression. You can rely on it turning up, often at the most inconvenient times. After decades of experience I know that it recedes again too, even though each bout often seems like the worst ever. It's good that your daughter has you to turn to (and a cat) while working it through and recharging for a new try at life. If it's all right with you, give her a hug from me.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 13, 2014 at 10:11am

Randy, the comment box is still the same as always for me.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 13, 2014 at 9:34am

Randy, I'm not having any problems with A|N and the comment box.  I'm not seeing any weird colors, man. 

MIndy, I'm glad you'll be able to see your daughter.  I think it's a good thing that she turns to you when she's feeling depressed.  Kind of like having a safe spot with people who understand.  That's important.  BTW, is she enjoying being back in college?   

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 13, 2014 at 9:16am

I don't remember seeing that Gervais quote before.  I like it.

Comment by Randall Smith on September 13, 2014 at 7:34am
Speaking of trains, my avatar here was taken on Amtrak's Zephyr going from Chicago to Oakland two years ago. I enjoyed the ride, despite my seat mate and her two kids.

If you haven't read Joan's recent blogs, you should. The one on our "South problem" is good--a sad commentary on our current societal climate.

Is it just me or is anybody else finding the comment box yellow and without font information?
Comment by Joan Denoo on September 13, 2014 at 1:45am

Felaine, I know what you mean. I look at my image and see an old woman, I look through my eyes and see the world as fresh and new. I feel younger and better than I ever have ... in spite of a pace maker, a bout with cancer, and creaking bones and sagging skin. I can easily say 78 years old is just about the best year. 

Your comment about unions distresses me, even as I know what you say is true. If it were not for unions, working people would be far worse off than they are now, even though we are going backwards very fast. Spokane was a union town during the mining and lumbering days, and there were all kinds of awful fights between owners and workers. There is a rich history here of union efforts on behalf of workers, and unions as corrupt exploiters of workers. 

When I returned to college after many years and as I was preparing myself to leave my husband, I had a terrible time with math and statistics. One fine young man with dreadlocks came to my aid and helped get me through the tests. I failed one course and he helped me with my second attempt. I am so fond of dreadlocks! They mean overcoming a dreadful hurdle. A case of stereotyping, pure and simple. 


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