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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris 23 hours ago. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Jan 31. 15 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

Tags: Emmy, news, television, daughter, dad

Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 3:04am

Ian, I remember Dublin with very fond memories. I was there during peony blossom time and I was sad that I could not be in my garden with these lovely colors. I went to a botanical garden in Dublin and discovered a most lovely peony garden, complete with tea room and biscuits.

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 2:58am

We didn't put in the stone layer in our hugelkulture because we live on a sand hill, probably a part of the moraine of the last Ice Age. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 2:55am

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 2:53am

There goes my computer, repeating a sentence that I edited. Why "10-year-old Ethan and I created a strawberry patch." repeated at the end of the narrative is beyond me. Even when I read my comment before posting, this ghost of a former sentence gets tagged onto the end. If anyone knows why this happens, I will be most grateful to learn how to stop it. 

10-year-old Ethan and I created a strawberry patch. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 2:46am

The morning started with a heavy downpour, lightning and thunder. We thought our work day would have to be delayed. About mid-day, the sun came out, the sand was moist but not wet. Laura, Larry, my two granddaughters, Michelle and Laurie, Michelle's five children all showed up and took those jobs that matched their skill level and interests. My great-granddaughter, Brooklyn, entertained us all through the day. She walks now, is getting a vocabulary of a few words and lots of experimenting with her voice. 

The three dogs and a herd of cats joined in. 

Zac cut down five trees; Larry, Jacob and Travis drove the tractor with a backhoe and a loader. They dug two large hugelkulture trenches, the kids filled them with slash and old and new logs, then Travis covered them over with sand to form a fire break. The wood will become like a sponge and store water. The sticks will decompose and provide humus to the sand. 

Laurie took charge of the kitchen and Brooklyn and prepared the most excellent dinner with the help of 14-year-old Katelynn. Larry smoked three racks of ribs and BBQed lots of hamburgers. The girls made potato salad and cabbage salad, and Laurie made a chocolate cake topped with whipped cream and fresh strawberries. 

Eight-year-old Austin pulled grass out of a patch of Earth so that 10-year-old Ethan and I could prepare the soil for strawberries. Six-year-old Noah gathered glaciated pebbles to create a walkway. 

We all worked hard, ate well, laughed a lot and created memories that will last a lifetime for these young people. My memories will stay with me as I get older. I feel such pride and respect for this very healthy family. Not a cross word was spoken, nor any sign of criticism. There was a lot of teaching and learning going on. I was so proud of 16-year-old Jacob as he learned how to drive the tractor, dig the trench, and move sand around. He made a lot of mistakes and Larry very firmly and gently taught him how to manage the backhoe and loader, and how to place the out-riggers. When Jacob became frustrated, Larry encouraged him to climb back in the seat and try again. Jacob comprehended the skills. 

I am tired, very happy, and confident my family will be able to meet the changes taking place in society and have the sense of being self-sufficient. 

10-year-old Ethan and I created a strawberry patch. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 2:08am

Chris, I know how your aunt felt after such a fall. It does something to one's sense of vulnerability. I now walk with a cane or a walker. Larry built a handrail off the back porch because I wouldn't go down them. If I fell, I would land on concrete. Been there, done that!

Yes, 80 years old and a fall is quite different than being 50 and fall. Something happens to the psyche. I am so glad you are there for her. My family does not hover, however, they are there when I feel vulnerable. 

Comment by Plinius on May 31, 2015 at 1:00am

Thanks for the video, Ruth, I enjoyed it very much! And yes, it's it's a clear metaphore for life, as Joan says - but it wouldn't be so appealing in a less beautiful setting! 

A sign of returning health, Carl, when you start to feel jealous! Good! I'd love to go with Ian too, but no chance. We expect a detailed report, Ian!  

We'll visit Aunt today - a few days ago she fell and hurt her jaw and a few remaining teeth, but the worst is that it scared her very much. I took her to the dentist - she was so shaken up that she wouldn't do one step on her own and I had to hold her hand all the time. To be 80 years old and scared!

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 12:15am

Ruth, the video showing balance is a perfect metaphor for life and living. Take what one has, put it into balance with living. When the situation changes, rebalance one's life. 

Indeed, it is relaxing, watching the creation of balance, observing falling out of balance. Restore, Renew, Refresh with a new creation. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 30, 2015 at 11:48pm
Ian, as a flight attendant I can't believe I'm saying this, but I'm jealous of all your travels. You go to so many fantastic places and do a lot of fun activities. When I travel....it's all work. LOL
Comment by Ian Mason on May 30, 2015 at 10:10pm

Getting worked up about my trip to Dublin next month. First: The Who live - the main reason for going, but have now booked seats at the Abbey Theatre for two plays, an old Sean O'Casey and a new special commision. Starting off with a guided walking tour though. This should be fun.

 

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