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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Jul 23. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 5, 2014 at 11:52pm

Loren, I hope you aren't in danger of having water problems like they are having in Toledo.  They were even testing the water here in Chicago from Lake Michigan as a result. 

Hello, Ian.  I noticed you've been absent, but you have redeemed yourself with a thought-provoking poem.  I hope all is well with you.

Seems we haven't heard from Steph or Napoleon in quite some time.  Perhaps they have been active in other groups on Atheist/Nexus, but I haven't seen their names popping up elsewhere. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 5, 2014 at 11:00pm

Patricia, there is whimsey in the pictures you share. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 5, 2014 at 10:57pm

Carl, thanks for the memories! 

My very favorite cat was black, named Ebony. She came to our door as a very young cat, malnourished, had infected eyes and had been mauled by something. We nursed her back to health and she turned out to be the best cat I ever enjoyed. She was an excellent mother and adopted all the kittens that our calico cat abandoned at birth. Ebony and Calico made the journey with us 2,000 miles, each with a new litter of kittens. They seemed to have kittens at the same time and Ebony nursed both litters each time. Ebony became very cranky and after I had her spayed, she was a playful cat again. Too much raising young can be hard on cats as well as human women. We never had problems finding good homes for all the kittens. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 5, 2014 at 10:48pm

Patricia, it is so much fun seeing your new computer's abilities and you doing so much that is interesting. You would make a good graphic designer! 

Comment by Ian Mason on August 5, 2014 at 10:32pm

Hello folks. I hope all are well. I've been doing other things for a while so haven't been here.

Found this poem that I'd like to share.

Humanity by Gregory Corso

What simple profundities 
What profound simplicities 
To sit down among the trees 
and breathe with them 
in murmur brool and breeze — 

And how can I trust them 
who pollute the sky 
with heavens 
the below with hells 

Well, humankind, 
I’m part of you 
and so my son 

but neither of us 
will believe 
your big sad lie

Comment by Loren Miller on August 5, 2014 at 8:55pm

Meant to put this up earlier today, but what the heck.  Here's something to wake you up Tuesday morning - a little Don Ross:

Comment by sk8eycat on August 5, 2014 at 8:26pm

Dog prejudice goes WAYYYY back in history, and perhaps prehistory. Especially against black dogs.  The Romans of the Republic era believed that black dogs originated from the "underworld," and  of course black cats were believed to be witchs' "familiars.  Whatever that means.

Some shelters refuse to adopt  out black cats and dogs from late September to early November because some superstitious idiots torture and kill them....especially here in SoCal where there is a large Latino population.

I currently have an orange cat and a fat black cat ....perfect for Halloween, but they are strictly indoor cats.  Funny thiing is that the Black Blimp has totally adopted my red-headed sister.  They make a very striking "couple,". 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 5, 2014 at 7:29pm

So, k.h., are you on a jury or did you get released? 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 5, 2014 at 7:27pm

Patricia, perhaps with all the advancements we've made in gene and DNA science, perhaps you'll be able to have a purple cat in the near future. 

Comment by k.h. ky on August 5, 2014 at 7:25pm
Thanks sk8ycat, I'm handicapped when it comes to posting links. I did for awhilebbut posting from this tiny phone is a double hindrance.
 

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