Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Discussion Forum

the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Loren Miller on October 19, 2016 at 9:48am

I love the windmill in your shot, Chris.  Wonderfully picturesque!

Comment by Plinius on October 19, 2016 at 9:44am

Here too, Loren, big showers, enough wind, but nice!

Comment by Plinius on October 19, 2016 at 9:35am

Thanks Bertold, it's nice! I only knew the book...

Comment by Loren Miller on October 19, 2016 at 9:15am

This was the view from just outside my front door a couple mornings ago:

Fall in full swing!

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 19, 2016 at 9:05am
Comment by Plinius on October 19, 2016 at 9:03am

"The black president will be the last one." the woman who told me this had it from an old Bulgarian prophecy. I don't believe prophecies, but the sentence runs in my head, probably because there's nothing good to be expected.

I know Sweeny Todd, a Victorian penny dreadful, but were there rhymes in it?

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on October 19, 2016 at 7:24am

You're right, Randall. The debate will pretty much be a tale full of sound and fury signifying nothing. But I can't resist watching. It's sort of like being hypnotized by a cobra.

Good one, Carl. Remember Sweeny Todd?

Attend the tale of Donald's hair

He looks as though he's had a scare

You'd rather shave your head all bare

Or cover it up with your underwear

Than have Trump's hair.

Comment by Randall Smith on October 19, 2016 at 7:09am

So happy to read about how well you're doing, Carl! After all you've gone through, you can relax and enjoy living the good life. 

I'm not watching any part of the debate tonight. I've totally tuned out everything political. It's all a grand gory spectacle--sorta like chariot racing (or NASCAR).

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 19, 2016 at 7:06am

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 19, 2016 at 2:13am

I can't wait for this election to be over. With Trump in the mix the whole process has been depressing and surreal. And embarrassing.

With that in mind, it's nice to hear your stories about golfing, playing bass guitar, lazy shopping, etc. We all need to keep ourselves sane somehow. I spent last Saturday evening with my best friend watching a movie, eating pizza, and then just chatting about life. It's not only cathartic but we laugh a lot. I couldn't ask for a better friend.

The weather here has been quite warm and enjoyable. However, meteorologists have forecast a numbingly cold winter with lots of snow and snowstorms based on the history of La Nina this year. If that's the case, I'm glad I won't have to trek back and forth to the airport in the worst of weather and deal with all the delays. But it was always nice to get to southern California, Miami Beach, or Mexico during the winter. Miami Beach was always my place to get Argentine and Cuban food.


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