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The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller 7 hours ago. 16 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Randall Smith on June 1, 2015 at 7:38am
Felaine, as you know, life's a bitch. And getting old is even bitchier. Despite your health issues, your sense of humor is 100% pure. Your way with words is great!

Everybody else, hope you have a good week.
Comment by Idaho Spud on June 1, 2015 at 7:27am

Chris, I didn't think of that, but after you mentioned it, I hope the governor took his own advice also.

Comment by Ian Mason on June 1, 2015 at 5:24am

There's many a slip 'tween cup and lip, etc. etc. But I've just put my name down for the local gym's annual outing in Jan. next year. Kilimanjaro, one of the world's toughest hill walks. A case of middle-age panic, I think. Do it before it's to late. There's a lot of things I didn't do when I was younger due to anxiety and alcohol so I have to make up for them now.

Comment by Ian Mason on June 1, 2015 at 5:19am

The things politicians say still amaze me. I don't know why as I should be used to it by now. I hope your fighting spirit is still intact, Felaine and that you're getting better.

Comment by Plinius on June 1, 2015 at 1:17am

I hope the governor took his own advice! Feeling any better today, Felaine?

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 31, 2015 at 11:51pm
Ian, you're absolutely right. It's shameful, and I would say unethical, for a "developed" country like the US to have such a disparity in health care coverage. With a military budget of $615 Billion (18% of our total budget), we would certainly be able to take a small percentage of that and provide universal health care for all our citizens. And we should also be able to partly assist developing countries that cannot provide even minimal medical care.
Comment by sk8eycat on May 31, 2015 at 10:43pm

@Flying A: My sister WAS home, but she's missing some brain cells (Asperger's syndrome, I think)...She heard me hit the floor, but I had to call her several times to bring my steno chair to help me get back on my feet.

@Ruth...I NEVER take Tylenol/acetaminophen.  The doctor I went to for 40 years (until he retired) told me it's practically useless for women under any circumstances, plus being a liver-killer. 

I was told years ago that I do not qualify for MediCal for some obscure reason.  My sister has Medi-Medi, but she has never been on anyone's payroll.... if that has anything to do with it.   I need to talk to a social worker with a brain to see what I am eligible for.

I just remember back in the early '80s that the governor of Colorado said, during a SPEECH!....that it was our DUTY to die as soon as we reached retirement age.  If that's what the GOPhers want, they are going to have to legalize physician-assisted suicide first.

Comment by sk8eycat on May 31, 2015 at 10:06pm

Heh!  The only Chinese proverb I know by heart is really a curse, "May you live in interesting times."  I sure am!

I am now using my walker for the time being.  It makes carrying things (like a plastic mug of water) awkward, but not as awkward as "crawling on my belly like a reptile."  (If you remember that old song.) 

Pumpkin is fascinated by the whole process; he's been doing figure 8s in front of me when I'm trying to get anywhere.  Many years ago, when Mother was recovering from a bone graft (after removal of a tumor in her thigh), she had a cane with 4 little "feet"...very handy, really. One of the cats we had at the time must have thought it was an alien animal with a long neck; she would do that "thing" that cats do when they're investigating something; Get down on the floor and pat at it with one paw facing upwards. 

The 2011 Triforce Awards

Comment by Ian Mason on May 31, 2015 at 4:11pm

I hope you feel better soon, Felaine. The lack of proper health care in a developed country is a disgrace. Have you considered the padded underwear? It does offer some protection for hips at least.

"Kære børn har mange navn." A Danish saying meaning 'loved children have many names'  Similar to Joan's Chinese proverb.

Comment by Idaho Spud on May 31, 2015 at 3:04pm

Felaine, very sorry to hear of your falling problems on top of everything else.

 

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