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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat yesterday. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Plinius Sep 28. 8 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

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10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Sep 26. 2 Replies

It seems as though lately, Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is evolving into America's Best Patriot.  She has recently been taking some fairly well-aimed shots at a certain Orange Nightmare and his sycophantic hangers-on, regarding the…Continue

Tags: patriotism, Donald Trump, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

A Prayer for Our Nation (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Sep 21. 2 Replies

I'm going to keep this one short and sweet.  Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has seen what is going on with the current occupant of the Oval Office, and my impression is that she is not at all happy with it.  True to her citizenship,…Continue

Tags: prayer, Donald Trump, Oval Office, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Any Babymetal Fans Here?

Started by Bruce Carroll. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 12. 5 Replies

Any Babymetal fans here besides me? I have to ask because 1) I really like Babymetal and 2) Babymetal unknowingly played a role in my journey out of religion.For those who are unfamiliar with Babymetal, here is a link to one of their most popular…Continue

Tags: Japanese Idol, Babymetal

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Comment by Joan Denoo on February 7, 2016 at 10:43pm

Ruth, is this the man that shares your splendid writings with us? Bergen? 

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 7, 2016 at 10:40pm

Ruth, I look forward to your total and quick recovery from those things that hold you from full comfort and pleasure. Spring will be popping in the forest, if not the vernal equinox, yet. 

Comment by kathy: ky on February 7, 2016 at 7:14pm
Loren, I like the quote from Isaiah. More proof that, if god exists, he rigged the game from the word go. Much like the idea of original sin.
Comment by Randall Smith on February 7, 2016 at 7:46am

Cool, Ruth! Your husband in the band, that is, not your dizziness. Hope you get to feeling better soon.

That D-K Effect sounds like a good description of one of my son-in-laws. I won't say which one, but he lives in Honduras. Irritating, to say the least. His attempt to impress me is unimpressive.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on February 6, 2016 at 9:55pm

Hi, all. I've been a bit brainless the last few days. Yesterday and last night I was dizzy and lightheaded. Finally I  figured out that the steroid creams prescribed by my dermatologist for a persistent rash sent my blood pressure way up. <sigh> Always something. Now I have to wait for my body to flush them out and BP to return to just elevated. Maybe in a day or so my brain will come back, and I'll have more to contribute socially.

Right now my husband is performing with his new band "Smooth Transitions". Their first gig since he joined. He's the one with the beard.

What a shock that liberal means something so different in Netherlands politics.

Bernie Sanders has moved the Overton Window in "Socialist" lately in the US, Plinius.

So what does crocodile meat taste like, Ian?

I'm familiar with the Dunning-Kruger Effect.

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Comment by Joan Denoo on February 6, 2016 at 12:17pm

Who? Oh! I have never heard of that, at least I don't remember. 

Dunning-Kruger Effect

"The miscalibration of the incompetent stems from an error about the self, whereas the miscalibration of the highly competent stems from an error about others."

I've known people like that, people who know it all and think everyone else is stupid. They are loud, opinionated, arrogant, domineering, while others who can get things, done, school came easy for them, they have people skills as well as mental skills and assume life is as easy for everyone. 

Comment by Loren Miller on February 6, 2016 at 12:00pm

The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt.
-- Bertrand Russell

Dunning-Kruger, anyone?

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 6, 2016 at 11:22am

Charles Darwin

“Ignorance more frequently begets confidence than does knowledge: it is those who know little, not those who know much, who so positively assert that this or that problem will never be solved by science. 

― Charles DarwinThe Descent of Man
Comment by Loren Miller on February 6, 2016 at 6:45am

Joan, we shouldn't be surprised at all that some deity is supposed to be the source of both health and disease.  If it is, indeed, omnipotent, omniscient, et cetera and created the whole schmeer, then it's responsible for the whole nine yards.  Besides, their own holy book says so:

I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the LORD do all these things.
-- Isaiah 45:7

Comment by Ian Mason on February 6, 2016 at 3:42am

Joan, I admire your ability to keep moving forward. It may be at a slower pace but you've kept your will and your direction.

Chris, the politics in NL sound just like those in DK. "Liberals" are often to the right of traditional conservatives. The former left-wing parties worship at the shrine of St. Tony Blair and his policy of privitization at all costs.

Went out to eat with some former colleagues yesterday. Quite nice although the huge restaurant was too noisy for conversation. One novel thing: crocodile meat. No, it doesn't taste like chicken.

 

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