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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 5, 2015 at 12:29pm

Spud, I'm feeling your frustration. I hate companies that are arrogant enough to think they can treat their customers like shit. Sometimes it's just a single idiot in the system, but in your case it sounds like it's the company culture.  I'm trying to get estimates to replace my rotting deck, and yesterday two out of three contractors scheduled to do an estimate didn't bother to show up or call. 

Someone ought to start an "I call bullshit" Website to shame companies into some kind of minimum level of decent customer service.

Comment by Plinius on September 5, 2015 at 11:11am

That's bad, Spud, I hate companies like that! Keep your cool and I hope you win!

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 5, 2015 at 10:58am

I'm typing this from the library.  I quit my Internet Service Provider yesterday because they finally treated me so shabbily, it was way beyond my layzyness to put-up with. 

In February, I asked them to cancel my service, but they offered me another year at $20 per month, so I said yes.  However, they've been taking $30 per month out of my checking account, and I received a statement a few day ago saying they were going to take out $42.

I've been putting-off calling them because I hate the hassle of trying to get them to do anything for me, but the $42 bill finally contacted them, and the hassle was way more than I expected.

I tried the easy way at first.  I sent them an e-mail saying I expected them to live up to their promise of $20 per month or cancel my service.  They said they could not do that by email.  I'm sure they meant they would not do it, that they wanted me to call a salesman.  I called the number they gave me, and sure enough it was a super high pressure salesman.  He did not respond to my request, but just kept trying to sell me TV and phone service, besides the internet.  He finally transferred me to another guy who got annoyed right away because due to a poor connection I had to ask him what he said and what the buzzwords he used meant.  I also complained about the runaround and high pressure sales tactics I'd been subjected to.  He got very defensive at that, acting like I'd accuse him of those things. 

He claimed he also could not correct the billing problem, and said I had to go to the company's home page and sign-up for paperless billing.  He said that was stated everywhere.  I could find that statement nowhere on my bill, and the gal that said she reduced my bill in February didn't say I had to do that.  He kept getting more annoyed that I wouldn't believe his lies, so I finally  got tired of trying to get him to help me, and so even though I knew what he said would not cut my bill in half ,I hung-up and tried going to the home page.

The home page would not let me access my account just like it had years ago, when I first set-up my account, so I sent another email stating that.

Yesterday, I decided I'd had way too much hassle with that company, and called again.  This time I just said cancel.  The guy I spoke to this time ask if I would continue if they reduced my bill.  I said no.  I've already been conned by that trick in February.  I've been ran around the mulberry bush, lied to, and I've had it with this company.

He finally said he had canceled it. I hope he did, but it wouldn't surprise me to see them continue taking money out of my checking account. 

I've had trouble with connections problems in the past, and people I talked to at that time knew nothing.  Even the simplest questions stumped them.  

Hopefully, the free library internet access will work for me.  I plan on calling other providers, but from what I hear, none of them has plans with prices low enough for me.

Comment by Randall Smith on September 5, 2015 at 10:04am

Thanks, Spud. Ol' Spike was one crazy dude! 

And Loren, for the recored, it's "jumbled", not  "jumped".

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 3, 2015 at 12:40pm

Oh yes! I remember it, and can still sing it all the way through (patting myself on the back).  Here's a jived-up version of that already jivey song.

Comment by Loren Miller on September 3, 2015 at 10:55am

If the words sound queer
And funny to your ear,
A little bit jumped and jivey...

Look them up on Google!  [chuckle!]

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 3, 2015 at 10:26am

My grandpa always used to sing it. Andrews sisters, if I remember right.

Comment by Plinius on September 3, 2015 at 10:26am

Never heard of, Randall.

Comment by Randall Smith on September 3, 2015 at 10:22am
Does anyone remember the old (1943) song, "Mairzy Doats"? I had to look up all the lyrics and hear the original version so I could sing it to my grandchildren. Fun song.
Comment by Loren Miller on August 31, 2015 at 12:54pm

Hex, it's not that one of you is smarter than the other; it's that one of you is open to new information.  She's been told that being open like that is an invitation to hell. 

Questioning the bible should be no different than questioning any other source: either it has the goods or it doesn't.  It doesn't get a free pass just because it's the bible and it doesn't get to prove itself with itself.  Evidence talks; bullshit walks.


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