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Steven Weinberg on his anti-theism

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller 16 hours ago. 4 Replies

I like the sound of Steven Weinberg's voice. He has a calming impact on me as I rush to get my home of 41 years ready to sell and plan and put into motion the new garden at my daughter's home. My home is full o empty boxed quickly filling with the…Continue

Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Jul 23. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on June 12, 2015 at 11:40am

I have great concerns about my grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Because of social changes taking place now, I feel a need to set examples for them that will increase their options as they face whatever comes. They do not know how to plant seeds and do the tasks necessary to be self-sufficient. They live in the country requiring skills of repairing things and they do very well at that. They don't know how to plant seeds and do the tasks necessary to grow and preserve food. If they learn those skills they will have options to increase their self-sufficiency. 

In many ways, I hate leaving my home and garden of 41 years. This patch of Earth exists in a very different way than it was all those years ago. 

In many ways, I anticipate the joy of creating a garden of eat'n for Laura and her family.  As I age I need more help, personally, than Cary can provide. My big old house is too much for me to maintain.

It is clear my life changes. I anticipate the Earth changes. So, the theme of this era, in my opinion, requires managing change. Change does not mean fear, it means opportunity. Surely the Eskimos' lives change with the loss of snow and ice. I wonder how they will meet that challenge. I wonder how we will meet our challenges. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 12, 2015 at 11:19am

Randy, thanks for the lead to  David Archibald, Twilight of Abundance.

I have not read it and intend to, as well as some of the other books listed. 
As to my reaction to "
a bleak future--food shortages, China controlling the world, energy problems, and many more. In fact, his subtitle is "why life in the 21st century will be nasty, brutish, and short". 

I agree that we face a very different world than we lived since the end of WW II. The growing prosperity of the middle class that followed that conflict and the present dismantling of laws that were put in place to protect workers create fundamental changes in our culture. The decline of labor unions, the growing gap of family wealth between rich and poor, the loss of the kind of education that trains people for skilled trades, the changing role of women worldwide, the growing trend toward laissez-faire capitalism, the role of religion in political life, the growing power of China and India all provide reasons to believe great changes take place already. 

Whether the Earth is warming or cooling is not something upon which I can make an informed decision. From what I have read so far my judgment says warming of the Earth exists. I could be wrong and I am not betting my future on one or the other. 

 

 

 David Archibald, Twilight of Abundance.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 12, 2015 at 10:31am
Hi, Randy!

I understand all the problems with walking. I'm not using a cane anymore but I need to really be careful and walk slowly. I still have a problem with balance and with my knees suddenly giving out if I don't concentrate on each step.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 12, 2015 at 9:49am

Grinning Cat, according to your post I, too, can have a bikini body!

Comment by Randall Smith on June 12, 2015 at 7:04am
Not much to report around these parts. It's been hot, but I like it. Evidently, there's not much else happening to others here on A/N--few comments.
Glad to hear from Carl. And good luck to Felaine with your new walker.
Comment by Plinius on June 12, 2015 at 3:28am

I never said to keep the bad news to yourself! And I begin to understand moving with difficulty a bit better now. I went to market just now - high winter shoes to ease the pain in my feet, careful not to lose my balance with that bad knee - and you can wait for someone behind your back talking about ´slow old hags´. Ha!

I'm glad your cats accompany you! Mine do that too, they seem to invite me to run with them.

Comment by sk8eycat on June 12, 2015 at 12:40am

You really want to know?  I'm trying to learn how to get around with a lightweight walker in a 75 year-old house with narrow doorways.... Without falling down.

And an elderly kitteh who likes to do figure-eights in front of me while I'm "practicing." 

.

Comment by Plinius on June 12, 2015 at 12:06am

I like that!

How is everybody?

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 11, 2015 at 3:28pm

Good one, Carl!

Plinius, I love the bumper sticker that sexologist Jill McDevitt offers for sale:

HOW TO HAVE A BIKINI BODY: 1. Put a bikini on a body

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 11, 2015 at 3:15pm

 

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