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The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19, 2017. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 12, 2016 at 12:53am

Carl, what is the protocol in such an incident? Have you ever been in a flight accident during your career? Is there a safest part of the plane to fly? How would you manage such an incident?

I learned Transcendental Meditation (TM) at Whitworth 37 years ago and used the techniques when I started having heart problems, cancer,a blocked bowel, and carpel tunnel surgery. Doctors and nurses have been surprised at how well I endure the procedures. I explained to them that I have 37 years of daily practice of TM. 

I wonder if that training would work so well in a plane crash. Would I be able to be calm and focused when everyone around me was chaotic?

What do you think. 

Comment by kathy: ky on September 11, 2016 at 11:18am
I would venture smoke detectors have contributed to fewer fires.
Comment by Plinius on September 11, 2016 at 4:24am

Many textiles for the home take longer to catch fire, due to new regulations.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 11, 2016 at 2:02am

I'm up in the middle of the night, thinking about what it means to have to leave 3 to 4 minutes after a fire starts. When our smoke alarm goes off, the two cats head to the basement. We would die if we tried to save them. We had an apartment fire decades ago. We were at ground level in a garden apartment, so had easy escape through the sliding patio door. Still, it took us a long time to evacuate. No pets yet. I had a terrible time waking my husband up. We both got some smoke inhalation, and left shoeless in our bed clothes. I'm sure our belongings today would produce toxic smoke.

Given my state, I'm not going to watch the passenger video. I'll have enough trouble getting to sleep again.

Yes, Plinius. In an emergency we operate from our primitive brains, not our higher brains. That's why fire escape doors can't have door knobs.

Comment by Plinius on September 10, 2016 at 11:58pm

Strange how frightened people cling to the things they'd normally do.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 10, 2016 at 11:01pm

Remember the Emirates airplane that crash-landed in Dubai last month on August 3rd?  I shake my head in disbelief at passengers retrieving their luggage while the plane is on fire.

 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 10, 2016 at 10:48pm

Randy, enjoy your time up in Michigan.  That's a beautiful area.  I used to go to Boy Scout camp a bit south of there.  Of course that was in the 1970's.  We used to pick and then make sassafras tea. Make sure you have your mosquito repellent!

Ruth, we are using many more made made products to build homes these days which are full of toxic chemicals, especially when ignited and burning.  If you cannot escape you'll most likely die from asphyxiation from deadly chemical fumes before the actual fire reaches you.

Flight attendants are trained and required to be able to evacuate a full airplane using only half the exits in 90 seconds or less.  This is for the same reason.  

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 10, 2016 at 5:52pm

Happy vacation, Randall.

Here's disturbing "trivia", today's houses and furniture are so flimsy we have only 3 to 4 minutes to escape a fire.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 10, 2016 at 7:37am

Sounds like an enjoyable service project Randy.

Comment by Randall Smith on September 10, 2016 at 7:24am

I won't be around for a week, as I'm "vacationing" at Nordhouse Dunes on Lake Michigan (Michigan side). Actually, I'm doing a service (work) project with a group of 12 for Wilderness Volunteers. We'll be doing trail maintainance, invasive species eradication, and who knows what for the forest service.(Manistee Nat. For.). We'll be tent camping. The weather forecast looks pretty good.

Here at home, we had unexpected tornado warnings out last night. I was prepared to go to the basement. My rain guage measured over 2", and it's raining this morning. Naturally, it's farmers market day for my kids--rain, as usual, which puts a damper on attendance and purchases. Rats.

 

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