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The Burial Waltz

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François on Wednesday. 4 Replies

Hi everyone,It was almost a half-century ago, at age 15 or so, that I encountered one of the more important influences in my life: a crazy group of poets/musicians who called themselves The Fugs.They had a huge impact on me in that, though raised in…Continue

Some William Blake to Ponder

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François Apr 25. 6 Replies

Hello all,I'm new here, and so hope this isn't old hat. But, I just had to point you toward a marvelous poem by William Blake in case you've never read it. Despite his sometimes heavily tinged biblical references in his other art and poetry, this…Continue

God's Not Dead - The Christian Persecution Complex (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Annie Willis Apr 20. 7 Replies

Doubtless most if not all of you have heard about that sorry piece of cinema known as God's Not Dead, and perhaps its sequel, cleverly entitled: God's Not Dead 2 (wow, how original!).  Personally, I have wasted neither time nor money on either,…Continue

Tags: God's Not Dead, patheos, Neil Carter, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Confirmed: flagged by religious people for "bullying."

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Apr 19. 4 Replies

According to Seth Andrews @SethAndrewsTTA  Apr 16"Confirmed. TTA was flagged by religious people for "bullying." Apparently, criticism and skepticism = persecution. #GodHatesFacts"Others reported as "Flagged" and taken off line: @The Thinking…Continue

Tags: @SethAndrewsTTA, @morehead_sarah, @Matt_Dillahunty, @jteberhard, confirmed

The Value of Atheist Nexus ... and of Keeping Contact

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 17. 13 Replies

I don't know about you, but the last 24+ hours were VERY uncomfortable for me.  Why?  Because something I value a LOT, being Atheist Nexus and the people I care about on A|N were temporarily unavailable to me.  No, we're not Facebook; I don't think…Continue

Tags: maintenance, community, availability, Atheist Nexus

Atheist Pig STRIKES AGAIN!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Apr 5. 1 Reply

There's no getting around it, Atheist Pig is fast becoming my fave secular comic, and as evidence, I refer you to the following.  Jesus and Mo had better watch their respective asses, 'cuz they got a porker coming up on the outside, and I'm pretty…Continue

Tags: Atheist Pig

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Comment by sk8eycat on October 24, 2014 at 10:27am

Brent, did anyone suggest that your mother had a Transient Ischemic Attack (TIA)?  I started having them when I was in my mid 50s, and had NO insurance, so went to a county hospital.  Nobody had a clue, but since it was/is a teaching hospital, they kept testing, scanning, etc.  It was all very frightening....I would lose control of my hands, legs, and/or mouth, sometimes just for part of a minute, sometimes longer.

They finally ran a carotid Doppler scan (because most TIAs are caused by intermittent blockage of the blood flow to the brain), and they found the cause.....in my case it was a grossly enlarged parathyroid that would press on the artery when I would turn my head a certain way....removed it, and no more TIAs.  So far.  (That was 20 years ago.)

They can be caused by almost anything...a clot or arterial sclerosis.....If your mother's insurance will cover it, make the doctors keep looking till they find the cause.  And/or get her on one of those services where she can just press a button and call for  help....IF such a thing exists where she lives.

Comment by Plinius on October 24, 2014 at 2:21am

Best wishes to you, Brent. I'm glad you're there with family that can work together and help your mother.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 23, 2014 at 11:01pm

Hi, Brent.  Glad you had a moment to sign on and say hello.  Sounds like you really have your hands full.  Sorry you've had some unsettling moments with your mother recently.  She's lucky to have you and your sister around.  I hope she continues to stabilize.

You sound very excited about your future prospects in writing.  I sure hope that all works out for you.  My best regards to you, Brent.  Thanks for the stopping in.  Feel free to do so more often if you're able.    

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 23, 2014 at 10:54pm

Brent, I know the changes taking place in your mother's behaviors and difficult to watch. The fact that you have good doctoral care, and had tests done is about all you can do. 

Because my cancer chemo and radiation were hard on my heart, I am having some symptoms not unlike your mother's. It is terribly frightening for my son. I am in no plain at all, but I have a change in behavior. Please don't let these changes upset you. They are part of the processes of aging. There is nothing you can do except be there for your mother and comfort her. If she becomes afraid, reassure her and maybe hold her if she likes that. She is doing the best she can. You are the caregiver now. You need to stay calm and do whatever it is that you need to do to assure her good medical care. Reassure her that she is not alone and that you are there for her. 

I am happy to learn of possible opportunities for you in the "news game". I hope all goes as you wish.

Thanks for keeping us posted.  

Comment by Brent Feeney on October 23, 2014 at 10:17pm

Hope everyone's doing well these days. Wanted to stop by and give everyone an update on what's been going on, especially with mom.

Overall, she's still doing well (the first anniversary of her stroke took place Tuesday), but back in September - not long after my birthday - something went a bit wrong.

She had just had a shower getting ready for a scheduled doctor's appointment and was getting dressed when she suddenly felt dizzy and weak. She was sitting on the toilet, so there wasn't any danger of her falling, but she almost felt out of it. She was speaking gibberish for a bit and looked blank.

My sister was there with me and she called the doctor to describe her symptoms. The doctor recommended she head to the hospital immediately, which she did. She would up staying for two days and the doctors there thought she had a seizure.

Some medication was prescribed for her, but it didn't work very well, plus it was leaving her pretty much out of it - sleepy, groggy and all sorts of things. We've weaned her off the medicine for that, and she's back to normal. We're not wondering if she had a recurrence of congestive heart failure or something else. All the tests that were ran on her in hospital either came back inconclusive or showed no new damage to her brain.

It really bothered me seeing her so out of it because of the meds. I continue to help take care of her during the week and glad she's better, though she still has some moments.

Personaly for me, I may be getting back into the news game. I've been doing some roundup-type stuff or a group of small weeklies near where I am (a long-time friend of mine, after being out of work for a few months, got a job at the papers and asked me to help). There's some other things going on I can't comment on at the moment, but I can say there's some good possibilities that may be coming down the pipeline.

Wish me luck on that!! I still have the writing biz in my blood, believe me.

Comment by Ian Mason on October 23, 2014 at 12:48pm

I've no idea about the cats, Spud. Just a Google search.

Comment by Grinning Cat on October 23, 2014 at 12:04pm

Mindy, well put, at least about the convinced, fully believing Christians. It's part of the mindware's "immune system" that suffering and dying "can't be" evidence that the belief system doesn't work so well, but rather reinforce that the mindware is "right" -- because everything will be made right in heaven.

I'll share again DarkMatter2525's video pointing out that most Christians might hope for heaven, but don't really believe in it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dMaK6k4oZ20

Comment by Grinning Cat on October 23, 2014 at 11:55am

Birthdays are good for you. Statistics show that those who have the most live the longest. Happy Birthday, Elaine!I'm glad you're here!

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 23, 2014 at 10:46am

Ian, are those the singing cats from "Babe: Pig in the City"?

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 23, 2014 at 10:45am

Happy day after birthday Felaine.  Always sorry for your circumstances, and appreciate your humor.

 

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