Hang With Friends

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Come on in, pull up a chair!

Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

A comment is a shout-out, which will get lost in a few days, because the comment wall is just a random stack.

Please start a discussion to share stories, photos, and videos. Replies will pop up in your "latest activity" and a conversation can develop from the feelings and thoughts you contributed. Groups are built on discussions.

Discussion Forum

Guns: Both Sides Now (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat 8 hours ago. 2 Replies

Oh, NO!  The gun debate has gotten so heated that it has Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, TALKING TO HERSELF!  Apparently, one of her has had a stroke or a serious breakdown in cognitive skills, as she does little more than parrot the NRA's…Continue

Tags: NRA, guns, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

the value of offence | qualiasoup & theramintrees

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Mar 3. 3 Replies

To me, this is a big deal (though it may not be to them): two great YouTube video producers have joined forces to deliver one very powerful message on an important subject.  TheraminTrees and QualiaSoup (brothers, I believe) have recently released a…Continue

Tags: offence, offense, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 29, 2016 at 12:40am

And a wave back to you Chris! 

Comment by Plinius on September 29, 2016 at 12:19am

Waving to all of you!

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 29, 2016 at 12:04am

Oh! It feels so good to have our own Atheist Nexus back. I don't know who did the tweaking but it felt as though we had been invaded. Hopefully, the jerking, twisting, pinching, and squeezing are over and we can get back to work. 

Comment by Randall Smith on September 27, 2016 at 7:14am

I'm happy A/N is back. I almost used it while the debate was going on (which I refused to watch), but I got watching something else.

It really cooled down overnight. I even turned on my furnace--mostly to see if it would work. I'll still burn wood this winter.

Comment by Ian Mason on September 26, 2016 at 11:07pm

You're never too old to rock 'n' roll (and lots of other things). And it's true that a PC helps people stay more in touch with the world. There's a lot of information out there just waiting to be gathered in.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 26, 2016 at 5:45pm

It is a relief to be able to get Atheist Nexus again. I feel my interesting life evaporated without our little chats and momentous discussions!. 

Chris, happy to learn you are back in "work mode", even if it is limited. Grasp the good days, enjoy the down days, and life's journey becomes even more of an adventure with unknowns and unknowables. 

Randy, I like the idea of placing yourself in the middle of the universe; I can observe, participate, and have a few laughs along the way. 

Spud, I love you cartoon! That is how I feel when I wake up each morning and seeing the computer just eager to pump out all kinds of interesting things about nature, gardening, the physical sciences, and applied sciences. I am alive at exactly the right time. 

Kathy, The temperature for your part of the country sounds like a real relief from heat and humidity. 

Spokane is 74 degrees F at 3:45 PM. Perfect weather. 

Comment by kathy: ky on September 26, 2016 at 4:48pm
Temperatures are in the low 60s. I love it.
Comment by Idaho Spud on September 25, 2016 at 8:26am

Ruth, I like your "Never Too Late" picture.  Here's what my welcoming computer feels like to me:

Comment by Randall Smith on September 25, 2016 at 7:47am

I wholeheartedly agree with you, Joan, regarding living a "real life", as you put it. Perhaps I'm being a bit selfish, putting myself in the middle of the universe, but it makes me less of a misanthrope.     And rock on, Ruth!

Comment by Plinius on September 25, 2016 at 1:35am

Thanks, Joan, I'm back into work mode and very busy because I lose so much time. My two days of work are followed by two bad days in which I dare not leave the house - even the stairs are difficult. So in general I have three days left to shop, cook, clean etc. and for meeting people, but most of the time I can't manage all that. I've fallen a few times but I haven't hurt myself very much. We both never had a drivers license, so we picked a place to live close to public transport. On good days I can walk in town as if nothing is wrong. Thanks for the info on the device! I still have to go to hospital to have my ears checked.

And you're right, Ruth, where would we be without our computers! Our physical world is getting narrower but we can still live in a wider world and meet friends!


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