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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris on Sunday. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

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Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Jan 31. 15 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on March 29, 2015 at 12:19pm

OOPPSS I forgot the mormons in Restriction and punishment with regard to sexuality. That seems to be a big issue for former members. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 29, 2015 at 12:17pm

FFRF spaghetti dinner and meeting Dan Barker sounds like all had a good time. Barker's smile engages one; glad to learn he is approachable.  

Randy, I noticed the absence of Carl, too.

Chris, I like the "Chicago 1952" photo for Carl. 

Restriction and punishment seem to be the norm for families descended from the Puritan influence, and the Jewish as well. I like the idea of pleasuring both husband and wife as a healthy start to healthy living and loving. Hopefully, the cliteracy project will empower individuals to enjoy their bodies and each other. 

Comment by Loren Miller on March 29, 2015 at 10:44am

I attended my first local FFRF function yesterday - a spaghetti dinner, hosted by the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  It was during that event that I met this fellow:

REALLY nice guy, utterly approachable, a real pleasure to chat with.  Have to say, the entire event was an unmodified success and GREAT FUN, and I can't wait until next time.

Comment by Randall Smith on March 29, 2015 at 7:36am

Haven't heard from Carl in awhile. Hope he's doing okay.

Comment by Plinius on March 29, 2015 at 6:34am

Something for Carl. This is one of Shorpy's pics today: Chicago 1952.

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 28, 2015 at 11:44am

Mormonism is very constrictive about what you can do with sex.  For one thing, it's a grave sin to do it outside of marriage.  It seems that is one of the reasons many mormon women, and some men, are sexually messed-up.

Comment by Plinius on March 28, 2015 at 10:12am

In many churches they teach that sex should be as joyless as possible - they promise joy in heaven, god forbid people should enjoy themselves on earth!

Comment by Grinning Cat on March 28, 2015 at 10:07am

I don't know "the" (?) Mormon attitude towards sex education; but in general, even in the 21st century, far too few people are cliterate.

(One of the few things Orthodox Judaism gets right is that a husband must satisfy his wife in bed, and that marital sex is a joyful thing, good in its own right, whether or not it can produce children. But like some other religions, they also teach "be fruitful and multiply" -- a couple is supposed to have at least a girl and a boy -- and that "wasting seed" is forbidden. If you're not married, and/or if you're gay, you're out of luck.)

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 28, 2015 at 9:00am

She probably had 6 kids out of duty.  Mormonism says god is only pleased with you, if you have as many kids as possible.

Comment by Idaho Spud on March 28, 2015 at 8:57am

Good idea Randy, except your dad would have to be a mormon before it would happen.  

Besides that huge hurtle, despite having 6 children, she never did like sex.  I even heard her call dad a sex-fiend once, although I'm certain he never forced her to do anything.  He was the kindest man I've known.

 

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