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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Plinius on March 3, 2018 at 8:25am

Two surnames? How does that work?

Comment by Ian Mason on March 3, 2018 at 8:01am

Thank you for all the good wishes. Mother and baby are fine and all the signs are good. He has good suction for milk and sleeps well otherwise. I've been asked not to share photos online and will respect that.

Comment by Ian Mason on March 3, 2018 at 7:58am

On the maternal side: mormor and morfar.

On the paternal side: farmor and farfar.

Far=father, Mor=mother.

Otherwise a general 'bedstefar' = best+father.

My son-in-law's family are great producers of boys and sometimes twins so a Frederick might get squeezed in at some point.

Comment by Loren Miller on March 3, 2018 at 7:57am

Big congrats, Ian!

Comment by Randall Smith on March 3, 2018 at 7:51am

Congrats, "Gramp"!  What are grandfathers called in Denmark, Ian?

I think using family names is a good thing. The only exception, in my opinion, is "juniors". My dad was a "junior", and he hated it his whole life. And what does it say about the "senior" who has named his son after himself?

Comment by Ian Mason on March 3, 2018 at 1:31am

All are tired and need their rest, so no visits yet.

James: because they like it and it's known in DK and UK

Henry: My father's middle name.

Pilgaard: My daughter's surname

Rayner: The father's surname.

I lobbied for 'Frederick' because 4 generations of my paternal line have had that name but was vetoed.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 3, 2018 at 1:08am

Ian! Splendid news! How are Mom and Baby and Dad doing? Let the fun begin!  What a fine name, James Henry Pilgaard Rayner. There must be a story connected with these names! 

Comment by Patricia on March 3, 2018 at 12:39am

Comment by Plinius on March 3, 2018 at 12:32am

Congratulations, grampa Ian! Did everything go as it should? I hope you and your grandson will bring each other much joy!

Comment by Ian Mason on March 3, 2018 at 12:15am

I'm a grandad! 3.24 a.m., Danish time. James Henry Pilgaard Rayner arrived. I'm all bouncy and don't know what to do with myself.


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