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Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera on Thursday. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

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Comment by Idaho Spud on June 14, 2014 at 4:26pm

Joan, I started looking at the LA photos.  After a few at the first, I went to the last and started back up.  Near the last is a photo of a Richfield Service Station, with a couple of uniformed service men.

I couldn't help think that service has gone down as prices have gone up (dramatically).

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 14, 2014 at 4:02pm

Felaine, out of curiosity, I tried to find a photo of "Jesus Saves" "S & H Green Stamps", unsuccessfully. However, I found an interesting site that just filled a lovely hour of time on a cold and rainy day. 

Early Los Angeles City Views (1900 - 1925)

I got about a quarter of the way through the photos and stories. Some very fascinating places and changes. 

Comment by Ian Mason on June 14, 2014 at 3:40pm

When I was in school we used to sing, to the tune of "John Brown's body",

Jesus puts his money in the National Savings Bank (x3)

Jesus saves, Jesus saves, Jesus saves.

Comment by sk8eycat on June 14, 2014 at 3:25pm

Joan, a long time ago, before PhotoShop, someone took a shot of a humongously ugly  "Jesus Saves" on a tacky downtown Los Angeles church, and added an S & H Green Stamps sign underneath it (via darkroom artistry.)  The L. A. Times printed it, and caused an uproar in the Letters column.  Some people have NO sense of humor.

There is also the saying, "Jesus Saves; Moses Invests."  I would add, "They ALL Kill."

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 14, 2014 at 2:20pm

Carl, Hehehe, satin, sateen, charmeuse island! Charmeuse? What is that? Don't see how it is different that satin or sateen. 

Ian, Oh! Yes! I can imagine myself on an dessert, cake, candy, confection, cookie, ice cream, pastry, and tart island. 

Felaine, we have so many beautiful basalt outcroppings with interesting patterns that solidified from the molten rock. Some dullard, nitwit, idiot, foolish, misguided, deluded, blockhead, simpleton, misled, deceived, clod, tricked, fools like to spray paint "Jesus Saves" on them. 

Anyone foolish enough to deface such beautiful natural basalt outcroppings should have to scrub the paint off with their noses.

Comment by sk8eycat on June 14, 2014 at 1:41pm

Oh, la!  I love both of those!

Years ago some nit spray-painted "Jesus Rules" on the stage door of a building next to an office where I worked.  I bought a 2' x 3' piece of stiff cardboard, and some florist's sticky clay, and stuck a removable sign under the spray paint:

SO DOES A YARDSTICK! (OR A T-SQUARE)

It stayed there for several months, so apparently nobody objected very much.

Comment by Idaho Spud on June 14, 2014 at 1:20pm

I prefer polyester myself, and being stranded on a dessert island doesn't sound all bad.

Comment by Ian Mason on June 14, 2014 at 1:14pm

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 14, 2014 at 12:38pm

Potato, potatoe.  Desert, dessert.  Gate, gait.

Comment by sk8eycat on June 12, 2014 at 4:51pm

Patricia, how old is Purr-Dee?  Most cats start getting that high cheekboned look at around age 15...depends on if they are shorthairs or not, and most Persians never get that look because of their facial bone structure.

Little Pumpkin turned 15 in January of this year, and has always been small and skinny...his totally feral mother was not even a year old when she had Pumpkin and his 2 litter-mates.  Mr. P and one other had birth defects; Pumpkin's was correctable, and Tripod's was not.  (Pumpkin's umbilical didn't seal up, and he was so tiny that Dr. Mullen couldn't help him till he was about 3 months old...so he peed through his belly-button, and we had to wash him as often as possible to prevent skin damage.)

The mobile vet I spoke of in a previous post adopted Tripod..

Their mother was too feral to be adopted, and we found a place for her at the Best Friends Sanctuary in Kanab, Utah.

 

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