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Are You a Patriot? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky yesterday. 20 Replies

You might think that Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, would be stepping outside of her comfort zone in tackling the concept of patriotism.  As it turns out, not only does she have a proper handle on the term and its implications, she also…Continue

Tags: patriot, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

We Don't Want Your (Atheist) Money! (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Thursday. 11 Replies

I suppose I've heard stories like this before:Conscientious atheist donates money to worthy cause.Worthy cause initially accepts money.Worthy cause discovers source of donation.Worthy cause rejects donation.Swell, eh?  Well Matt Willbourne of…Continue

Tags: American Baptist Churches Association, Murrow Indian Children's Home, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Aug 21. 24 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Idaho Spud Aug 14. 91 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Wedding Haka - Subtitled & translated

Started by Joan Denoo Aug 13. 0 Replies

I ran across a video of a wedding in which a group of wedding guests celebrated with a performance of a traditional Māori ancestral war dance, called a Haka. It was intended for sons, however, the women have joined in a participation of…Continue

Tags: new, traditions., women, men, Haka

Onward (Unpaid) Christian Soldiers (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G Aug 13. 1 Reply

Proselytizing in the military is a dirty little secret most radical christians would rather didn't get out.  Well, never let it be said that America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, was ever a wallflower where a pit bull was needed!  In the following…Continue

Tags: Military Religious Freedom Foundation, MRFF, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 10:17am

I love the look of milky-white skin on a girl.  But even a naturally dark-skinned gal is more attractive than a light-skinned one that has tanned herself dark.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 10:14am

That's funny Felaine.  I never thought of the fact that tanning your bod in the south could get you sent to the back of the bus or worse.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 10:08am

When I worked for a company that had liquid nitrogen available, I used a Q-tip to apply it to the spots on my face, and after I bought a medical liquid nitrogen spray bottle on ebay, I used that.  One day I noticed that everywhere I had used LN2 was white and never tanned.  I guess I was a little heavy handed and killed the melanin producing cells in those spots.

Comment by sk8eycat on November 13, 2014 at 10:03am

Spud, to tan or not to tan (for women) has gone in cycles...especially in the 20th century.  Pale skin was considered aristocratic most of the 19th and early 20th Cen....indicative of someone who doesn't have to work in the fields.  Then a smooth tan became fashionable for women who had the leisure to just lie around in the sun....especially after WW2....bikinis.  THEN the MDs started keeping track of who kept getting skin lesions and stuff....

Of course, in the Southern states, a dark tan has never been fashionable, and could get you sent to the back of the bus....or killed.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 9:59am

Strange that.  I guess some people produce melanin easier than others.  I get a little tan when I'm outside a lot in the summer, despite wearing a large brimmed hat and long sleeves.  I don't wear sunscreen because I don't like slathering stuff on my bod. LOL.  Same reason I've never shaved with anything other than an electric razor.

I don't know if I could get very tan because I've never tried.  Probably not.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 9:20am

I'd like to slap the idiots that started the idea that tanned bodies look more healthy and attractive.

That idea never caught me.  I still think a woman with no tan looks a million times more attractive.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 7:52am

Sorry about your headaches Randy.  I wonder why you don't have skin problems.  Do you have light or dark hair?

I'm blond, so the few times I've spent too much time in the sun has taken it's toll.  I've had 7 skin cancers removed from my face and hands, but they were all basal and squamas.  No melanomas.

My new dermatologist did send in a piece from one of my spots to see if it might be cancer.

Too bad young people don't think about what they're doing will affect them in later years.  I would have wore more sun protection and taken better care of my teeth.

Comment by Randall Smith on November 13, 2014 at 7:37am

Nice to hear from both Patricia and Chris. No migraine--just a sinus headache and "no-caffeine" headache (couble whammy) this morning. I'm fasting in prep for a blood test this morning. Nothing like Carl's. Routine for a Dr. visit in a month.

Spud, OUCH! As much as I've been in the sun all these years, with no sunscreen, I'm surprised I never had any problems. My father and a sister do.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 13, 2014 at 7:13am

Sorry about your migraines Chris.  I've never had them either, and don't think I could stand them.

My medical news is good.  I've had lots of annoying itchy spots and growths on my face for years now that dermatologists haven't taken care of, if they didn't look pre-cancerous.  

But yesterday I saw a new dermatologist, complained about how annoying and itchy they are, so he froze and burnt 35 of them, after his nurse gave me about 50 numbing injections.  He said she was going to treat me like pincushion, and she did.  No biggie though.  Needles have never bothered me.

I considered not going shopping afterwards as I had planned, because with all those bandages, I was afraid I would freak people out.  I did go, and no one seemed freaked, so I only told one person not to worry, that I didn't have anything catching.  Haha.

So far, the spots are looking good, and I'm happy to get those things removed.

Comment by Plinius on November 13, 2014 at 1:31am

No doubt that you're happy that your husband is still around, Patricia, but what did it to you, all the watching and caring you did and not knowing if he would live? Perhaps I shouldn't ask.

 

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