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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

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The Burial Waltz

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François on Wednesday. 4 Replies

Hi everyone,It was almost a half-century ago, at age 15 or so, that I encountered one of the more important influences in my life: a crazy group of poets/musicians who called themselves The Fugs.They had a huge impact on me in that, though raised in…Continue

Some William Blake to Ponder

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François on Tuesday. 6 Replies

Hello all,I'm new here, and so hope this isn't old hat. But, I just had to point you toward a marvelous poem by William Blake in case you've never read it. Despite his sometimes heavily tinged biblical references in his other art and poetry, this…Continue

God's Not Dead - The Christian Persecution Complex (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Annie Willis Apr 20. 7 Replies

Doubtless most if not all of you have heard about that sorry piece of cinema known as God's Not Dead, and perhaps its sequel, cleverly entitled: God's Not Dead 2 (wow, how original!).  Personally, I have wasted neither time nor money on either,…Continue

Tags: God's Not Dead, patheos, Neil Carter, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Confirmed: flagged by religious people for "bullying."

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Apr 19. 4 Replies

According to Seth Andrews @SethAndrewsTTA  Apr 16"Confirmed. TTA was flagged by religious people for "bullying." Apparently, criticism and skepticism = persecution. #GodHatesFacts"Others reported as "Flagged" and taken off line: @The Thinking…Continue

Tags: @SethAndrewsTTA, @morehead_sarah, @Matt_Dillahunty, @jteberhard, confirmed

The Value of Atheist Nexus ... and of Keeping Contact

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 17. 13 Replies

I don't know about you, but the last 24+ hours were VERY uncomfortable for me.  Why?  Because something I value a LOT, being Atheist Nexus and the people I care about on A|N were temporarily unavailable to me.  No, we're not Facebook; I don't think…Continue

Tags: maintenance, community, availability, Atheist Nexus

Atheist Pig STRIKES AGAIN!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Apr 5. 1 Reply

There's no getting around it, Atheist Pig is fast becoming my fave secular comic, and as evidence, I refer you to the following.  Jesus and Mo had better watch their respective asses, 'cuz they got a porker coming up on the outside, and I'm pretty…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 22, 2014 at 11:11pm

Felaine, do you still have the lyrics you wrote, ""You're the Pitz"? Would love to read them.  

Patricia, excellent scenes of Aurora Borealis. We get very dim ones over Spokane on occasion. I lived near Kenai, Alaska, and they were very much brighter than in Spokane and not as bright as these. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 22, 2014 at 10:54pm

Wow! That's serious Aurora Borealis, Patricia. Intense!

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 22, 2014 at 10:53pm

Thank goodness, I didn't make the cut! 

By the way, Ian, I love the recommendation you made of Time Team. They are exactly the kinds of things I love to read about or watch. With my weary eyes, it is a real pleasure to watch and listen to the history they cover. I have watched several and was especially intrigued by "1066 The Lost Battlefield". 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 22, 2014 at 9:57pm

Amazing photos, Patricia.  It must be very moving to see that in person.  

Comment by sk8eycat on September 22, 2014 at 9:33pm

Patricia, LOVELY photos!  The only thing I really want to do before I die is take a train (trains) to Churchill to see the Aurora, and whatever polar bears are still around.

Mostly I just want to stand outside with the lights overhead....i've been obsessing about them since I was 4 or 5 years old...I had a children's book, mostly watercolor illos, about Lapland....and there was that brilliant sky in almost every picture....

*sigh*

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 22, 2014 at 7:59pm

Wow! Great pix, Patricia. I've seen them from up in Fairbanks a couple of times, but nothing like this.

Comment by sk8eycat on September 22, 2014 at 1:45pm

What'd I DO?  (I've always loved Ella...and about 25 years ago I wrote a take-off on this song about my boss at the time.  Called it "You're the Pitz."  The guy was a brainless a##hat.)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 22, 2014 at 12:14pm

Sk8eycat, you're tops in my book. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 22, 2014 at 10:04am

Chris, what a sad little poem.  Yes, the awkwardness of not being wanted by your peers. 

Comment by Plinius on September 22, 2014 at 3:12am

Thanks for your story, Felaine! My hat is off to you!

Getting picked for school sports reminds me of a wonderful poem, Carl. I wonder how many people remember the feeling.

 

 

Tich Miller wore glasses
with elastoplast-pink frames
and had one foot three sizes larger than the other.

When they picked teams for outdoor games
she and I were always the last two
left standing by the wire-mesh fence.

We avoided one another’s eyes,
stooping, perhaps, to re-tie a shoelace,
or affecting interest in the flight

of some fortunate bird, and pretended
not to hear the urgent conference:
‘Have Tubby!’ ‘No, no, have Tich!’

Usually they chose me, the lesser dud,
and she lolloped, unselected,
to the back of the other team.

At eleven we went to different schools.
In time I learned to get my own back,
sneering at hockey-players who couldn’t spell.

Tich died when she was twelve.



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