Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Discussion Forum

Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith 14 hours ago. 1 Reply

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

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Comment by Randall Smith on August 6, 2014 at 8:10am

It's true tht black dogs abound in a shelter. The people there said so. That's one reason I chose Dot. Another statement of antiestablishmentarianism! Glad you all approve of my choice. 

Comment by Loren Miller on August 6, 2014 at 5:41am

Toledo's water problems are pretty much local to that city, but if they can't deal with the fertilizer run-off issue, that problem could become others' as well.  For what I hear, they currently have the algae bloom under control, but the issue remains ongoing.

Thanks for your concern, Carl.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 6, 2014 at 2:08am

I hope Napoleon is all right as well.  I like him because he's a rebel and a lightning rod for tender emotions.  lol 

Comment by Plinius on August 6, 2014 at 2:03am

Good you're back Ian, and I like the poem!

Napoleon has disappeared from AN. I hope he's all right.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 5, 2014 at 11:52pm

Loren, I hope you aren't in danger of having water problems like they are having in Toledo.  They were even testing the water here in Chicago from Lake Michigan as a result. 

Hello, Ian.  I noticed you've been absent, but you have redeemed yourself with a thought-provoking poem.  I hope all is well with you.

Seems we haven't heard from Steph or Napoleon in quite some time.  Perhaps they have been active in other groups on Atheist/Nexus, but I haven't seen their names popping up elsewhere. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 5, 2014 at 11:00pm

Patricia, there is whimsey in the pictures you share. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 5, 2014 at 10:57pm

Carl, thanks for the memories! 

My very favorite cat was black, named Ebony. She came to our door as a very young cat, malnourished, had infected eyes and had been mauled by something. We nursed her back to health and she turned out to be the best cat I ever enjoyed. She was an excellent mother and adopted all the kittens that our calico cat abandoned at birth. Ebony and Calico made the journey with us 2,000 miles, each with a new litter of kittens. They seemed to have kittens at the same time and Ebony nursed both litters each time. Ebony became very cranky and after I had her spayed, she was a playful cat again. Too much raising young can be hard on cats as well as human women. We never had problems finding good homes for all the kittens. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 5, 2014 at 10:48pm

Patricia, it is so much fun seeing your new computer's abilities and you doing so much that is interesting. You would make a good graphic designer! 

Comment by Ian Mason on August 5, 2014 at 10:32pm

Hello folks. I hope all are well. I've been doing other things for a while so haven't been here.

Found this poem that I'd like to share.

Humanity by Gregory Corso

What simple profundities 
What profound simplicities 
To sit down among the trees 
and breathe with them 
in murmur brool and breeze — 

And how can I trust them 
who pollute the sky 
with heavens 
the below with hells 

Well, humankind, 
I’m part of you 
and so my son 

but neither of us 
will believe 
your big sad lie

Comment by Loren Miller on August 5, 2014 at 8:55pm

Meant to put this up earlier today, but what the heck.  Here's something to wake you up Tuesday morning - a little Don Ross:


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